How Married Are You?

In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we discuss what it's like resuming intimacy after having a baby. We offer both our perspectives as husband and wife. Per usual, we don't hold back.  Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Ma...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, two women reach out to us about the men in their lives. One is struggling with whether or not to continue living with her boyfriend, while the other is left hanging as the man in her life received a requested sign from the Lord about his wife. Listen in as we share our feedback regarding their situations.  Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voic...

We think it's safe to say that we all enter into marriage with some preconceived notions of what it'll be like. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take some of the notions we got from you all on IG and we discuss the reality of it as we've experienced it. In this episode, we finally have a discussion we've been avoiding for a while regarding Glen's upcoming vasectomy. You'll definitely want...

Each of us comes into a relationship with what some might call "baggage." Some carry a weight that is a little heavier than others. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to an email that was sent to us by a listener who has something she has kept to herself for the entirety of her relationship. As things get more serious (i.e. the possibility of engagement), she inquires about whether o...

Yesterday we celebrated NINE years of marriage!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share nine lessons we've learned thus far on our journey. In no particular order, we've learned... Importance of Family Boundaries Alignment not Agreement Same team Spouse First  Their story is not our story You've gotta train your spouse Sometimes it’s just hard A good spouse isn’t found, they’re flour...

Albert Einstein said, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about balance... is it actually attainable? Listen in and let us know your thoughts! Click here to support Beleaf's Vasectomy! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channe...

We're baaaaaack!!! We are so excited to return after what feels like such a long hiatus. We're gonna go ahead and call this season 3!!! We're changing things up a little bit, so make sure you tune in to find out exactly what we have in store for you. In this episode of HMAY, we recap the day our son was born. Yvette shares more of her experience as Glen has shared his experience on their family Yo...

We have been MIA for quite some time. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we take some time to update you all about where we've been and what we've been up to! Today's topic centers around the sentiment that Yvette believes that others believe 'the home is a reflection of the wife.' What do you guys think? Do you agree or disagree? Glen just doesn't get it. Catch up with us over at Beleaf in Fa...

Glen's back!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Yvette shares what she learned from her conversation with Julie who is one of the people she mentions in episode 35 as knowing Glen really well.  We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback...

Glen is out of town, but I (Yvette) didn't wanna miss a week of the podcast. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, I take some time to answer some questions that were submitted to me via instagram. Make sure you're following us there so you don't miss a thing! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Marr...

Last week we engaged in a pretty intense conversation regarding some issues we're having in our marriage. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share some revelations we've had since then as well as address some of the comments/feedback we've gotten from listeners/viewers. We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube C...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, you get the raw and ugly of life in the Henry house right now. Yvette had a whole discussion planned for this week's episode of HMAY, but given a conversation we had earlier in the day of this recording it would have seemed so unauthentic. So, here we are in raw form, hopefully modeling a healthy way to discuss the state of each of our hearts as it relates to...

Yvette listened to a recent podcast (linked below) in which the topic of masculinity vs. manhood came up. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the difference between the two. We explore ways that we've been informing our sons' masculinity and manhood in our parenting, and look ahead to ways we could be better or more contentious of how we are doing that. Let us know your thoughts on th...

What does it mean to be high maintenance anyway?! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Glen brings up all the receipts of how Yvette is high maintenance. She denies any such qualifications, but what do you all think? Does Glen have enough evidence to call Yvette "high maintenacne?" How would you all describe someone who is high maintenance? Again, we'd like to thank those of you who have been abl...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we answer a question from a viewer in crisis about whether or not it's necessary for a man to ask his girlfriend's dad for his blessing to marry his daughter. Listen in as we discuss this and other things that come up as a result. Let us know what you think my engaging with us on our latest post on instagram. Thank you so much to those of you who donated to th...

Glen heard it said, "Behind every great man you'll find a strong woman, but you can find a great woman standing alone." In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we try to debunk this theory. Tune in to see if we were successful or not.  Engage with our most recent posts on instagram to let us know if you agree or disagree?   Link to contribute to the betterment of the podcast: &nb...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, you guys get an inside look at how hormones from pregnancy can heighten emotions in marriage. Yvette is feeling some type of way, and Glen gives her the opportunity to unload on him.  Thank you so much to those of you who donated to the podcast last time! Here is the link if you feel moved to donate as well: https://www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast  We are...

Hashtag "Mom Guilt" is something widely seen across social media platforms. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss parental guilt as a whole. We discuss how moms and dads experience parental guilt differently. While this episode is heavy on the parenting topic, we do believe all of our listeners whether you're a parent yet or not will leave with a gem or two of encouragement. We are all...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, YOU asked, WE answered! We talk anger issues, finances, age gaps, parental hardships and even whether or not our public lifestyle has taken a toll on our marriage. Tune in and find out all that we had to say. Let us know if there are more questions you'd like us to answer for future Q&A style episodes by sending them to howmarriedareyou@gmail.com! We are n...

Bear with us as Yvette gives an informal and brief history lesson on the origin of Valentine's Day! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss Valentine's Day 2019. Let's just say it reflected the cold rainy weather that was SoCal that day. We discuss our first valentines day as husband and wife and how things have "evolved" since then. There may even be some discussion about unmet expectati...

Happy Valentines Day Everyone!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss why black love is a thing as well as preconceived notions about parenting and the different types of parenting styles there are. Voting is still open for the Shorty Awards. Vote for Beleaf HERE!   We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our Yo...

Consider this a continuation of our chat about our engagement last week. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the infamous list Glen has mentioned several times in past episodes, the actual proposal, sex, Glen's true feelings about Yvette's wedding gown and so much more! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our Yo...

One of the things we love about the listeners of this podcast is that you’re not all married. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we are specifically talking to those of you who are engaged to be married or plan to get married one day sooner or later. We reflect on our engagement process to share what we would have done differently, lessons we learned, and the things we would suggest everyone do...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about how we feel after watching the #SurvingRKelly Lifetime documentary series. We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback on the topics we discuss, please follow us on IG ( @howmarriedareyou ) so you...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share our exciting news of becoming Debt Free (outside of having a mortgage). We talk about the journey to becoming debt free and what our next steps will be. Our hope is that you would be encouraged by our journey and feel like it's possible for you too! Over at our Beleaf in Fatherhood channel, we share some intimate moments from the day we paid off the l...