How Married Are You?

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the old tale of "Happy Wife, Happy Life." It gets pretty heavy! Listen in and let us know what you think! To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 " at checkout for 10% off! Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail:...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss two wedding party inquiries. In the first one we discuss God as the author of our love story, and in the second one we share our thoughts on a woman who has overcome being ghosted.  To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 "...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to a member of the wedding party about a relationship in which she started being intentional in her walk with Christ two years into a 4 year relationship and the effect it had! To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin10 " at checkou...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we follow up with a member from the wedding party in regards to being a female creative, we offer advice to a young couple dating long distance and we talk arguments.  To Purchase The Bible Study, visit: https://www.thebrandsunday.com Make sure to use the code: HMAY To order a wrap visit thewrap.life Use the code " MrsMelanin " at checkout for 10% off! Em...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into Shanti Feldhahn's book called "For Women Only." She markets the book as a glimpse into the inner lives of men. Yvette runs some things by Glen about ways Feldhahn says women can demonstrate respect to their man. Listen in as Glen provides firsthand insight to these needs, as the author calls them. If you'd like to purchase the book for yourself, h...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into a topic we've kind of avoided for a while but finally took the plunge to talk about on this platform. That is the topic of black love. We often are accused of promoting division when we use the hashtag black love, but we want to really share our heart behind the use of it as well as why we find it to be important. We know this is a sensitive topic...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we offer our perspectives on being in an abusive relationship as well as going into debt for a loved one. Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts an...

The collab so many of you have asked for has finally come into fruition! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we welcome our first ever guests to the podcast. We are joined by @KevOnStage & @MrsKevOnStage from @TheLoveHourPodcast. We team up with them in this episode to offer our perspectives on dating someone you're not attracted to and dating someone who still has a relationship with their...

We're baaaaack!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss life as "influencers"... what that looks like and feels like for us. Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedba...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we look into dating a creative, long distance relationships, jealousy, insecurities and flirting. Tune in to hear what we've got to say! The Perry's Convo Referenced (*not a podcast episode): https://youtu.be/N_ZIdCJoulY Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss some of the things we feel it's important to know and understand in a relationship with a creative. We use our 10+ years of being together to share some of the biggest lessons learned and understandings obtained. Check it out! Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we offer our feedback regarding when to add more kids to the mix as well as whether or not to stay in a relationship after you've been cheated on. Just a reminder, we are not licensed therapists. We are just speaking based off our experience of nine years of marriage. Thanks so much fir choosing to join us every week! Now let's get into this episode! Leave a...

In this episode of #howmarriedareyou, we discuss what it's like resuming intimacy after having a baby. We offer both our perspectives as husband and wife. Per usual, we don't hold back.  Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: (760) 335-6643 We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Ma...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, two women reach out to us about the men in their lives. One is struggling with whether or not to continue living with her boyfriend, while the other is left hanging as the man in her life received a requested sign from the Lord about his wife. Listen in as we share our feedback regarding their situations.  Email us: HowMarriedAreYou@gmail.com Leave a voic...

We think it's safe to say that we all enter into marriage with some preconceived notions of what it'll be like. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we take some of the notions we got from you all on IG and we discuss the reality of it as we've experienced it. In this episode, we finally have a discussion we've been avoiding for a while regarding Glen's upcoming vasectomy. You'll definitely want...

Each of us comes into a relationship with what some might call "baggage." Some carry a weight that is a little heavier than others. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we respond to an email that was sent to us by a listener who has something she has kept to herself for the entirety of her relationship. As things get more serious (i.e. the possibility of engagement), she inquires about whether o...

Yesterday we celebrated NINE years of marriage!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share nine lessons we've learned thus far on our journey. In no particular order, we've learned... Importance of Family Boundaries Alignment not Agreement Same team Spouse First  Their story is not our story You've gotta train your spouse Sometimes it’s just hard A good spouse isn’t found, they’re flour...

Albert Einstein said, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we talk about balance... is it actually attainable? Listen in and let us know your thoughts! Click here to support Beleaf's Vasectomy! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channe...

We're baaaaaack!!! We are so excited to return after what feels like such a long hiatus. We're gonna go ahead and call this season 3!!! We're changing things up a little bit, so make sure you tune in to find out exactly what we have in store for you. In this episode of HMAY, we recap the day our son was born. Yvette shares more of her experience as Glen has shared his experience on their family Yo...

We have been MIA for quite some time. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou , we take some time to update you all about where we've been and what we've been up to! Today's topic centers around the sentiment that Yvette believes that others believe 'the home is a reflection of the wife.' What do you guys think? Do you agree or disagree? Glen just doesn't get it. Catch up with us over at Beleaf in Fa...

Glen's back!!! In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, Yvette shares what she learned from her conversation with Julie who is one of the people she mentions in episode 35 as knowing Glen really well.  We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Married are You?! We love to hear your thoughts and feedback...

Glen is out of town, but I (Yvette) didn't wanna miss a week of the podcast. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, I take some time to answer some questions that were submitted to me via instagram. Make sure you're following us there so you don't miss a thing! We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube Channel, How Marr...

Last week we engaged in a pretty intense conversation regarding some issues we're having in our marriage. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we share some revelations we've had since then as well as address some of the comments/feedback we've gotten from listeners/viewers. We are now on YouTube!!! If you'd like to watch this podcast episode or any others before it, go subscribe to our YouTube C...

In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, you get the raw and ugly of life in the Henry house right now. Yvette had a whole discussion planned for this week's episode of HMAY, but given a conversation we had earlier in the day of this recording it would have seemed so unauthentic. So, here we are in raw form, hopefully modeling a healthy way to discuss the state of each of our hearts as it relates to...

Yvette listened to a recent podcast (linked below) in which the topic of masculinity vs. manhood came up. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we discuss the difference between the two. We explore ways that we've been informing our sons' masculinity and manhood in our parenting, and look ahead to ways we could be better or more contentious of how we are doing that. Let us know your thoughts on th...