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We reached 500 reviews on iTunes and are thanking everyone who has rated & reviewed with a BONUS EPISODE! You guys are gonna die. We thought this episode had been lost forever due to sound issues-- BUT WE SALVAGED IT! (Thanks Alex Pischera!)  This episode was SUPPOSED to be episode 4 of season 1; which means it was recorded BEFORE REMY CAME. (Pre-cum!) It is so crazy to hear how much things have c...

Get ready for this amazing episode with Dr. Ian Kerner, psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book, and cunnilingus how-to guide, "She Comes First." You'll learn SO much and laugh along the way. We talk about everything: mismatched libidos, the distinction between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how privileging intercourse over outercourse can be problematic. We ask a bunch of list...

Valentines Day is coming up and BOY do we love these guests. We brought in hilarious comedians LeClerc Andre and Khalid Rahmaan (Eff'n Up Podcast) to talk about how they have eff'ed up sex and how they learned the ropes. They hit it all: ball play,  "begrudging blowies", and more. Want more?  Follow LeClerc, Khalid and their podcast on Instagram: @LeClercAndre @khalidsays @effnup Follow us @RemyKa...

We sit down with Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg from the top 20 comedy & dating podcast Girls Gotta Eat . We talk about it all: happy endings, sizing up a guy's load (the more the better for Rayna), dirty talk, butt stuff, fan erotica, and fingering with long nails. Charlotte also joins us to talk about what to eat vs. what not to eat on a date . You'll laugh, you'll learn, you'll eat. SO e...

We interview Dr. Helen Fisher! She is a Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Chief Scientific Advisor to the dating site  Match.com , and all around amazingly COOL person. We discuss her extensive research on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, & gender differences in the brain. She also teaches us how your personality style shapes who you a...

Charlotte had an accident and has to sit this one out but Remy is in LA interviewing Vanderpump Rules ' Ariana Madix, who famously stated that she hates her vagina on reality TV. We discuss how that hate came to be, whether it is still around and what it is like to be a perfectionist with body issues.  We also dive into the rocky waters of emotionally abusive exes and skin cancer. We explore how t...

We're back baby!! Season two kicks off with with Remy and Charlotte welcoming the nationally syndicated sex advice columnist Dan Savage.   Equal parts brilliant, hilarious and kind, Dan explains how to communicate and give instructions during sex, how self-touch isn't a negative reflection on your partner, what the campfire rule is, and how if we fake it, we will likely NOT make it.  Dan also tell...

HELLO MY CUMPANIONS! I miss you so much. Just wanted to say hi and give you some updates. Also, how sick that we have an official name now? "Cumpanions." Some of you voted for "Cumrades" on the Instagram poll and I do still think that's pretty clever.  ((Were you not part of the vote? Are ya pissed? Follow us @howcumpodcast on Instagram and participate in all the polls! Send questions, comments, a...

One gigantic celebration for our Season 1 finale episode! Remy and Charlotte are back together and calling How Cum listeners   from all around the world to CUMGRATULATE them on their first orgasms, and hear how they happened. We get a sick update from former guest Molly Brenner who just had HER first O too! She had to re-write her one woman show "Molly Brenner is Not Coming," and now performs "I'm...

This week's guests are the three hosts of the only male-run podcast with only female guests; The Good, The Dad, & The Ugly! Comedians Will Winner, Casey James Salengo, & Patrick Schroeder came over so I could thank them (specifically Will) for introducing me to the Womanizer on their podcast many months ago.  We discuss many things including "The Him Too Movement", penis pumps, TLC shows from the...

Did you know that only 20% of schools in the US are teaching Sex Ed right now? That is not enough schools. To fix that I talked to two sex educators, Dr. Andrew Porter (The Sex Wrap Podcast) & Andrea Barrica, founder of O.School.  We talk how to manage STIs, good ways to introduce toys to people for the first time, and what the internal structure of the clitoris actually looks like! Did you know d...

I interviewed "Liz," a How Cum SUPERFAN who is staying anonymous. Liz is a long time listener and did ALL of my pre-orgasm assignments (1-6). We discuss how all of the assignments went for her and then we talk about what we did last night...  I took her to a sex party! It was crazy. You will learn about sensation play, ASMR, electric shocks, and what went down (pun VERY intended).  Follow us! @how...

This week I have THREE amazing guests. First, journalist Hannah Soyer calls in & we talk about her article, "What Sex Is Like With A Disability" from Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hannah, the creator of the This Body is Worthy Project discusses living with Spinal Muscular Atrophy, the dangers of being a disabled woman surrounding sex, and finding sexual agency with masturbation. I then talked to comedian...

  What is polyamory and how do you do it?* I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes . On this episode we discuss it all: Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous an...

This week I am answering YOUR questions. Things like: "how do you sit when you use ___ sex toy?" "What really went down during that tantric massage?" "Is it normal if I used to cum and can't anymore?" and more! CW: Gendered language, offensive language, fatphobic language Have questions of your own? Write to us @howcumpodcast IF YOU LIKE/LOVE THIS PODCAST SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW!! Nice comments are...

Celebrating my birthday with a jumbo episode about sex, sobriety, and the joy of handjobs! Seamus Kirst, journalist and author of Shitfaced joins me as I interview him and my friend; comedian Sydnee Washington! We talk about sober dating, going to rehab in highschool, delayed ejaculation and the Real Housewives we're most worried about.  Then Seamus and I (both Virgos) are joined by ANOTHER Virgo...

This week's episode features adult entertainer Sofia Rose & Actress/Comedian Alyssa Limperis ( Crazy In Bed Podcast ) . Body positivity is on the menu; we discuss everything from being a BBW (big beautiful woman) to battling an eating disorder and what body image can do to your sex life. We also talk old-school MySpace, ugly armpits, depression, & how you don't have to find the right person, you j...

NYC comedians Pauline Murphy and Jeena Bloom stop by and we have a heated debate regarding dick preference; to circumcise or not to circumcise? That is the question. We also discuss what it is like to live as a trans woman and be able to have EVERY type of orgasm. We also talk about Pauline's predicament - she's only cum four times. Ever. How Cum? Let's find out.  CW: Transphobia, slurs, gendered...

This week is GIRL POWER week! Comedians Ariel Elias & Molly Ruben-Long ( Well Behaved Podcast ) and Instagram blogger Jen Winston ( @girlpowersupply ) join me to talk about what feminism actually means, dating in the current political climate, what to do when your heroes are perverts and more! It's a great episode.  TW: SA, Louis CK Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir   www. Patreon.com/HowCum...

Comedians John Fugelsang (SiriusXM's Tell Me Everything) & Christian Finnegan (VH1's Best Week Ever) discuss Christianity! How does Jesus feel about sex, abortion, homosexuality etc. according to the Bible? We discuss that, growing up as a Christian, faking orgasms as a man, cyber sex in AOL chatrooms, and more!  --- Follow us! @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @johnfugelsang @christfinnegan EXTRAS on...

Corinne Olympios, the notorious Bachelor contestant turned podcaster & clothing line owner lets us into her world off-camera. We talk about hang-ups with masturbation, long distance relationships, what to do if you dislike oral sex & more. Corinne's boyfriend Jon also joins us on the mic for an interesting look into the male perspective. CW: gendered language Assignment: Rub back and forth on a so...

Alik Alfus , one of the stars of British reality show Made in Chelsea , (and childhood friend of mine!) joins me and Charlotte to talk about growing up in New York City, falling in (and out) of love while being in the public eye, first loves, and Alik's first blowjob (a LEGENDARY tale in NYC). I also have a breakthrough in self realization and we do some expert sound effects with our mouths.  If y...

Ralph Sutton (Owner of GaS Digital Podcast Network) & Lindsey Jennings (Comedian/Suicide Girl) join me to discuss masturbating in public, threesomes, doing stuff for the story, dating people who work in sex, and much more. CW: Gendered language, fatphobia, suicidal ideation Lots of stories got cut for time but are available on Patreon.com/HowCum   Follow us: @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @lindseyje...

You've asked for it, and here it is! My boyfriend Ben DeMarco (Comedian & Creator of Fat Baby) joins me to talk about his side of the How Cum journey, first loves, first blowjobs & his late in life circumcision.  We interview two fans of the podcast about THEIR story- Toni & Chuck. Toni is a 50 year old woman who had never had an orgasm before listening to How Cum. Chuck is married to Toni and has...

Molly Brenner Is Not Coming! Is a show about how Molly Brenner-- is not coming. But she came on this show! Comedian Riley Lassin joins us as we dive deeper into Vaginismus.  We also talk about whether ghosts are watching you have sex, making barbies have sex, and how much we miss HBO's True Blood.  CW: Gendered language Follow us: @remykassimir @molly_brenner @rileylassin  Subscribe to our Patreon...