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This week's guest is Ev'Yan Whitney : sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman . Ev'yan has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through  online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode we hear Ev'yan's story of how personal tr...

OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell ; icon, it-girl and critically acclaimed, international best-selling author of nine books, including the infamous Sex and the City.  We discuss her new book, Is There Still Sex in the City? , how sex throughout life changes, and what life after divorce is like....

Sadly, Remy couldn't be here to host this episode… because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways from the season and where she's at now, SEXUALLY.  Also, the Cumpanions submitted amazing, important questions and they are ALL answered in this episode: from cumming tips & tricks, to how to tell a partner about your struggle to orgasm, to more person...

Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter. In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, and comedian Lili Michelle (Remy's WRLI Season 2 Co-host) interview Season 1 Love Island UK contestant, Chris Williamson! Chris calls in via Skype to talk love, sex and secrets behind the making of Love Island. We also chat about how to dump someone pr...

We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dysfunction. He specializes in penile implant surgery, and also treats urinary incontinence after prostate cancer. He is one of New York's leading penis prosthesis surgeons and is here to answer YOUR questions!    We are talking why E.D. occurs, how to...

An unbelievable conversation with sex/ love writer and recent author, Maria Del Russo and Co-Founder of sex toy company Dame Products, Alexandra Fine.  We discuss themes from Maria's new book, "Simple Acts of Love;" relationships & singlehood, why you should treat single time as a destination instead of a layover, how your dating past actually does not mean anything for your dating future, and the...

...is the name of one of our guest's new podcast AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex) chat girl on girl sex in this fun informative episode. Our hilarious guests answer all of your questions about strap-ons, STIs, and wh...

We're taking you into the world of audio porn this week and it is SO GOOD. Remy and Charlotte talk to Jim; the orgasmic voice behind FeelGoodFilth.com , as he explains how he makes audio porn and why he started. Remy also invites CEO of Quinn and senior at Stanford University, Caroline Spiegel to talk her new audio erotica website which features everything from guided masturbations to ASMR. This e...

We are in LA with wildly talented author and adult film star Logan Pierce ! Logan tells Remy about the way he pursued a career in porn, how his "boy next door" look recently came into fashion in the porn industry, and what defines "porn for women." We discuss scary firsts from his book , gang bang scenes, and surgically enhanced penises. Logan talks about confusing sexual chemistry for intimacy wh...

In this week's episode we have two brilliant doctors of physical medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed and Dr. Allyson Shrikhande, who specialize in pelvic pain. They teach us about a very gender neutral organ; the pelvic floor, and many different causes of pelvic pain. We learn about endometriosis, the seriousness of pudendal nerve/ pudendal entrapment, and why kegels aren't always the a...

This week Remy welcomes hilarious comedian, J-Train/U Up? podcaster, and naturally good advice-giver Jared Freid. Jared answers all of your dating questions and explains the difference between guys who neg and guys who flower, why people are watching your Instagram stories and why they stop, and why you can't put your standard's into someone else's hands. Jared explains what is everyone doing wron...

Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte's 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait.   Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel . This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN's Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts. We discuss so many aspects of the tra...

Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with as well.  We discuss sharing a living space (especially with siblings), everyone's weird pooping habits, and having sex with other people in the apartment. We chat about what signs might mean that your roommate is fucking, losing your virginity in a...

This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef . This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, has a stand-up special coming out on HBO, but he also has a new Hulu TV series out (called Ramy) that the New York times has called a "revolutionary comedy." Having grown up Egyptian-American in a Muslim family, Ram...

Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.  During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempt...

Thank you, thank you to everyone who came out our first ever LIVE show this past Thursday. We SOLD out and are definitely going to do more of these bad boys. Follow us @howcumpodcast for updates about future shows! In this episode Remy talks to comedian Eitan Levine about how he won an AVN award (porn award!) for his Hamilton inspired film: Hamiltoe . Charlotte's voice is out from all the fun at t...

Nanny and Remy's house flooded TWICE this week but it's ok because our LIVE show is Thursday and we c*nt wait to meet you guys. We ALSO got to record this awesome episode with Remy's two powerhouse women: 1) Hannah Berner , host of the comedy mental health podcast Berning in Hell, star on this season of Summer House on Bravo and badass bitch who opted out of professional tennis, and 2)  Gabrielle...

Tickets are almost sold out for our first live podcast/ stand up show! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode "How Cum" for a 25% off discount. ...AND GET EXCITED! This episode is one that many of you have requested. Partners in love and life, Chris and Charlotte Rose; aka the Pleasure Mechanics teach us ANAL 101! After hearing what they have to say, you'll  know what to put...

Make sure to get your tickets for our first LIVE PODCAST & stand up show on April 25th at 7:30. (Doors open @ 7) Use our promo code "How Cum" for a 25% off discount.  Until then, listen to this awesome episode with wildly hilarious entertainer & RuPaul's Drag Race All Star alumnus Katya Zamolodchikova , also known as Brian McCook. This episode is EVERYTHING! We touch on drag life and a dish soap m...

We are gearing up for our FIRST LIVE SHOW and couldn't be more excited. Buy your tickets, use promo code "How Cum" and we will see you on April 25th in NYC for a night of PURE JOY!  But until then, enjoy this awesome episode with comedian & host of the "Yung Daddy" podcast; Lev Fer! We attempt to define what a "fuck boy" is, and how it compares to a "slut." We cover how Lev deals with receiving ov...

This one is a banger. We get to chat with the one, the only, the amazing and stupendously slutty host of Viceland's Slutever Karley Sciortino. We talk about everything from Karley's re-definition of the word "slut", witches on broomsticks (aka magic dildos), the switch from vagina shame to pussy power, having an "anti-social clit", VR porn, and so much more. Also, Remy has a sexual experience that...

On the day that he celebrated "10 years of being a professional degenerate," Kirill Bichutsky's 1 million+ follower account @slutwhisperer was yanked off of Instagram.  This controversial social media personality recently starred in Netflix's revealing documentary American Meme and his half-naked champagne facial parties are legendary, but we wanted to know: who really IS the Slut Whisperer? What...

"Nobody's sex life is anybody's business…except on this podcast." So, we chat with comedians & sexual "late bloomers" Freddy G and Ray Gootz. Ray tells us about losing his virginity at 37 to a sex worker at the Bunny Ranch & Freddy explains how and why he didn't have an awake orgasm until he was 23.  We define several terms; incel, refractory period, and a "delivery boy" attitude. We keep it funky...

We sit down with the amazing and hilarious mother son duo, KarenLee and Cam Poter from the hit podcast Sex Talk With My Mom . We cover A LOT with these kindred spirits of ours: how peoples' "orifice hierarchies" can vary, sexless marriages, KarenLee's personal definition of "cougar", Cam's "pregnancy scare," and of course, "anal anal anal." We also find out that KarenLee gets wet at the first note...

Wow. This. Episode. We call Remy's friend, comedian Crystal Beth; AKA "The Girl Without a Clit" and catch up with our anonymous friend from the bonus episode. This episode has everything: trips down memory lane, people's assumptions about bisexuals, and an insanely hot story about an insanely hot threesome with two insanely hot guys. Also: can you cum without a clit? We find out.    Want more?   F...