Hot Mess Habits

OKAY if you are ready for a butter mom summer, this episode is for you 🧈  we're breaking down how to be present, intentional, and have the most wholesome + whimsical summer with your kids (and yourself) — how to get off your phone, document more, and actually make a plan so you're not looking back in september wondering where the summer went. grab a coffee and let's get into it 🌸 🌸...

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in this video i'm de-influencing you from feeling the need to spend money in order to take care of yourself!! it costs $0 to work on your habits + routines 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO morning menu → https://bodegoods.co/products/morning-menu-routine-template-for-canva-2 🤎 ABOUT THE CHANNEL hi, i'm victoria — type B girly, WFH mom, and host of the Hot Mess Habits podcast. this channel is my...

realistic spring reset: goals, home, food, movement + hobbies in this episode i'm walking you through my realistic spring reset across every area of life — we're talking goals, home refresh, food and drinks, movement, and hobbies. no overwhelm, no pressure, just simple intentional things that actually fit into real life 🌸 MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEOseasonal goal setting template → https://bod...

okay so this one is a little spicy because i'm talking about the habits we don't even realize we're doing in this episode i'm sharing 6 micro habits that are quietly ruining your productivity — especially if you have ADHD or tend to run on type B vibes. we're talking time blindness, doomscrolling, the 100-item to-do list trap, and the self-help content habit that was secretly m...

if you’re constantly ending your day feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like you didn’t actually get anything done… this is for you. In this video, I’m sharing why you never finish your to-do list (especially as an adhd / type b girly), how to actually plan your day in a way that works for your brain, and the simple system that’s been helping me stay on track lately. This is a realistic, behind-the-s...

if you’ve been wondering how to start a podcast as a beginner, this is exactly how I launched mine in 30 days!! I’m sharing what actually helped me stop overthinking and finally start — without a perfect plan, fancy setup or feeling fully ready. This is a behind-the-scenes, honest chat about starting a podcast from scratch, especially if you struggle with perfectionism or feeling overwhelmed (hell...

this is your gentle winter reset!! we’re talking cozy home vibes, drink rituals, adhd-friendly movement, winter mom life, and the small things that actually help when the dark months feel heavy. WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girlies who thrive in summer but struggle in winter 🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation when it gets dark at 4pm ☕ moms feeling stir-crazy, overstimulated & stuck inside...

your gentle winter pep talk. we’re talking bare minimum days, cozy habits, ADHD-friendly routines, and how to protect your mental health during the long, heavy winter months!! WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girlies 🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation in winter ☕ moms who feel extra overstimulated this season 🕯️ cozy souls trying to romanticize winter instead of resent it whether you’re feeling sea...

let’s chat postpartum 🤍 this is all about what postpartum was actually like for me the first time, the mistakes I made, and everything I’m doing differently this time to prepare in a more supportive, realistic way. from meal prep and recovery to self-care, support systems, and slowing down — this is postpartum prep for the wellness-loving, Type B, real-life mom. WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 mamas prepar...

let's chat realistic goal setting for women who want more meaning in 2026 this episode is all about gentle goal setting, vision-led planning, and actually creating systems that support your real life. especially if you’re Type B, ADHD, in a new season! WELCOMING ALL THE: 🤎 type b girlies 🧠 adhd dreamers ☕ moms who want realistic goals 📅 goal-setters who want more meaning, less pressure whe...

let's chat how to reset your digital life for 2026 in a realistic, cozy, sustainable way!this episode is all about clearing digital clutter in a way that feels doable — organizing your phone, laptop, inbox, camera roll + more — especially if you're ADHD, Type B, a creative, a mom, or all of the above. WELCOMING ALL THE:📱 digital chaos girlies🧠 adhd brains📓 2026 reset + rebrand lovers☕...

let's chat how to reset your entire life for 2026 in a realistic, sustainable way that actually helps you achieve your goals, without extreme routines, toxic productivity or buying a new planner and hoping it fixes everything (guilty hehe) This episode is all about honest reflection, intentional vision setting & setting your focus for habits that work long term, especially if you’re Type B...

Today I’m sharing 20+ wellness habits & products that genuinely made my life easier this year — realistic, affordable, Type B–friendly, ADHD-approved things that supported my routines through one of the most chaotic seasons of my life. Wellness doesn’t need to be expensive, aesthetic, or curated to “count.” Some of these are $0 habits, some are small upgrades & some are tools that simply m...

f you’re feeling tired, unmotivated, or tempted to say “i’ll start again in january,” this episode is your gentle reminder that it’s not too late to finish the year with intention!!!i’m sharing 5 cozy *realistic* habits to help you end the year well. this is for the girlies who want to feel grounded, not burnt out as 2026 begins! 🤎 this episode is for you if: — you feel like december always disap...

this is the year we end our phone addiction. if you’re tired of feeling anxious, overstimulated, distracted and constantly pulled toward your phone, this episode is for you. today we’re talking about realistic and attainable ways to actually break our phone addiction i’m sharing the exact things i’ve been doing to reduce my screen time, how i keep my phone out of reach, what i replace scrolling wi...

if christmas coming hasn’t been feeling magical lately, you’re not alone. as adults, the holiday season can start to feel busy, overwhelming, or… honestly just flat. in today’s episode, we’re talking about how to feel the christmas spirit again and simple ways to bring back a whimsical, cozy, meaningful holiday season. 💛 this episode is for you if: — christmas doesn’t feel magical like it used to...

if you end every week feeling behind or overwhelmed — this episode is for you. today we’re breaking down how to plan your week realistically. we’re talking cozy routines, flexible time-blocking, and mindset shifts that actually stick. whether you’re a work-from-home girlie, a type b planner, or just someone trying to feel more in control — this episode will help you reset your week without the pre...

this is truly my fave time of year — cozy routines, PSLs, candles, and all the fall vibes. in this episode, I’m sharing my full fall bucket list — from little seasonal traditions to cozy home goals, family fun, and creative resets. if you’re craving inspiration to make this season feel special (without the pressure), this one’s for you.🤎 this episode is for you if:— you’re craving cozy inspiratio...

This is my ABSOLUTE fave time of year + always when I have the most motivation. today I’m sharing my fall reset — what to do before you reset, the categories to focus on, and the cozy, realistic habits I’m building this season to feel grounded again. 🍂💛 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for anyone craving routine after a busy seasonwhether you are worki...

WELCOME BAAACK! grab a coffee + let's catch up so excited to finally be bringing back the podcast, not to give a disclaimer but the set up / lighting is NOT MY BEST WORK in this video, i promise it will get better next week 🫶🏼 no timestamps this week because we are just chatting! lmk what videos you want to see for the fall! OTHER REALISTIC PRODUCTIVITY VIDEOS: 11 habits to exit your lazy gi...

This is my ABSOLUTE fave time of the year + always when i tend to have the most motivation. these realistic habits are helping me adjust to this time of year and inspiring my every day💛 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for anyone just trying to do their bestwhether you pick one or try them all, these habits are here to support your real life—not just th...

if you're craving a fresh start this spring but don’t want to go into debt for it, this is for youi'm sharing 7 wellness hacks that have seriously helped me feel more energized + productive—but are 100% free!!💛 for the type b moms💻 for the work-from-home girlies🧠 for the adhd brains✨ for anyone just trying to do their bestwhether you pick one or try them all, these habits are here to s...

from one fellow wellness girly to another, these are my simple yet effective products / tools that i cannot live without!! specific links mentioned: google calendar freebie: https://tiny-field-370.myflodesk.com/ymyiuv9o60 ultrahuman ring (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo brown noise playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6ByuY6FCCzjHvt6xZuOGCG?si=ef82f614ac6d4286 my link...

if you are ready to get your life together for the spring this one is for you! my linksbucket list template: https://bodegoods.co/products/fall-goal-setting-template-canva-template best postpartum socks: https://go.shopmy.us/p-14399718 ultrahuman ring (use code VE10): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo microphone: https://amzn.to/4eCfOmp taylor swift august print: https://go.shopmy.us/p-800735...