Hope He's Not Listening
Hope He's Not Listening
Join Savannah and Hillary, two energetic gals in their 30s navigating the modern dating scene. Each week, they dish out candid conversations, hilarious anecdotes, and valuable tips on everything from swiping right to surviving awkward first dates. Sav and Llary create a warm and welcoming space where listeners can laugh, commiserate, and learn alongside them. From decoding texts to surviving awkward dates, join them for a lively chat about love, heartbreak, and all the adventures in between. Artwork by Emma LewisJingle by @goldmythmusic
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Jul 10, 2026
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Episodes
Jumping Back In! 10.07.2026 1:02:47
This week Llary gives a little update on what the podcast will look like moving forward. Then she talks to her friend Kaitlynn and the two discuss everything finding apartments in NYC to being ghosted to recent dating shenanigans!
Your Ankles Beg to Differ 12.06.2026 1:06:29
Callie joins Llary to talk about dating life since moving to NYC!
The Art of Being Avoidant 08.05.2026 59:19
Fashion is Art! This week Sav and Llary break down some of their favorite looks from the Met Gala. Then they discuss some dating updates, which may or may not include some avoidant tendencies (to varying levels) from different guys.
What Are We Doing? What's Going On? 30.04.2026 55:52
This week Sav and Llary discuss Harry Styles getting engaged, spring cleaning, Summer House drama, and the False Prophet documentary. They share some dating updates and their reactions.
We're Not Giving Up Yet 10.04.2026 1:15:48
Sav and Llary are back after a semi unplanned hiatus. They recap their girls trip in NYC and give some dating updates.
Can Guys & Girls Be Just Friends? 05.03.2026 1:16:18
Ching is in town and joining Llary to host this week's episode! They chat a little F1 (since Llary has brought Ching into that fandom) and recap some of their thoughts on the new ANTM docuseries. Finally they debate the topic of guys and girls being friends, and whether or not that's truly possible.
This Week in Our Love Lives 21.02.2026 1:11:43
Hillary and Savannah are back with recent content consumption, dating updates, including Hillary’s ongoing streak of getting unmatched (rude) and Sav’s Valentine’s Day recap.
Valentines Talk With Corbin 05.02.2026 1:05:26
This week Llary is joined once again by her friend Corbin. The two swap some content recs, then give some updates on their current dating endeavors. They ask each other some fun valentines-related questions, resulting in remembering the [fictional] ones who got away, taking a walk down memory lane, where high school crushes were expressed anonymously, and giving each other some dating challenges.
Mentally at the Cottage 15.01.2026 1:26:22
Llary's back in NYC and Sav is starting to settle into Utah. They touch on some recent reality TV, including the finale of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and the start of a new Traitors season. Then they fangirl over Heated Rivalry and the way it's taking over their lives. They touch on their hopes for dating and relationships this year.
Out of Sight, In Our Minds 27.12.2025 1:04:06
After a brief hiatus, we’re back (thank you for your patience 💅). Callie joins Hillary this week to spill some tea, including one revelation she already knows Hillary is not going to love. The two dive into men who watch your Instagram stories and/or lurk on your TikTok profile, and what that means (or doesn’t). They have some fun discussing Hillary’s Dating Wrapped — complete with stats, trends,...
We Have Been Changed (For Good) 27.11.2025 1:05:09
Sav is knee-deep in the chaos of prepping for a few months away, while Llary is fully in her dreamy “I’m-about-to-be-in-Italy” era. But the bulk of this episode is a deep dive into Wicked: For Good — favorite moments, standout songs, and all the ways the movie stacks up against the stage version (spoiler: they’re mostly fans). They wrap things up with a quick little dating update from Llary
We Sit in Parks 20.11.2025 1:07:01
After a tiny “please forgive us” hiatus, the girls are finally back. Hillary pulls Sav into the online chaos surrounding West End Girl , then they dive into Kelsea Ballerini’s Mount Pleasant —where “I Sit in Parks” launches an unexpectedly deep chat about the sadness and sweetness of lives that turn out differently than planned. Hillary recaps seeing Chess on Broadway (the vocals: unreal), and the...
Short n' Sweet 03.11.2025 35:13
Sav might be entering another running phase, Llary might have asthma, and both are just trying to survive another chaotic week. They swap health updates, running inspo, and all the pop culture currently fueling their brains—from Housewives chaos to new music obsessions—before getting into the highs and lows of their latest dating escapades.
Sometimes Sad, Always Hot 23.10.2025 52:18
Sav battles through some truly tragic smoothie adventures while Llary celebrates surviving her big test. The two talk Dancing With the Stars chaos and the unhinged entertainment that is Jan’s social media lives. Then they swap book and music recs. Sav teases an upcoming trip, and Llary debriefs a recent first date. Then she gets into a date including the world’s most random “would you rather” mome...
When it Rains, it Pours (Literally and Romantically) 18.10.2025 59:20
Sav’s back from Ireland and she’s got stories. Between a beautiful wedding and Storm Amy’s chaos, she and Llary unpack the highs, lows, and accidental history lessons that came with it all. Then it’s back to reality — aka exam stress, new music obsessions (Maisie Peters, we love you), and Cardi B’s latest drop. Hillary shares some updates on the two guys she’s seeing and Sav gives some big dating...
Reality Showgirls 11.10.2025 1:26:02
Hillary is joined by her friend Kayla for a packed episode full of hot takes and chaos. They kick things off with K Pop Demon Hunters and a few of Kayla’s recent movie picks before diving deep into The Life of a Showgirl — from the bops to the backlash. Hillary also fills Kayla in on some recent dating adventures, leading to a very important question: do good first dates even exist anymore? Finall...
It's Been a Long Time Coming 25.09.2025 51:49
This week, Llary’s still buzzing from the latest Grand Prix. (And let’s just say her favorite Spaniard did not disappoint.) The girls swap music recs—including diving into The Favors’ debut album—before getting into their current reads and Sav’s very strong feelings about the new Housemaid trailer. Sav also recounts a laugh-out-loud plane encounter with an iconic seatmate, while Llary dishes on th...
And Now We're Bashful 19.09.2025 43:30
Llary and Sav, true millennials at heart, defend Ed Sheeran while sharing their takes on his new album. They discuss the weirdly specific ways music can wreck your emotions and the TV shows currently eating their free time. Llary gives some dating updates and a playful debate over what nickname to give one of her dates ensues.
Chronically Canceled 15.09.2025 1:02:18
Sav and Llary talk about their coffee and tea preferences and how comforting those rituals can be. Sav shares her past experience attending the VMAs, and they weigh in on the casting for the upcoming Dancing with the Stars season. They discuss their reading eras and swap thoughts on recent books, before turning to the question of why so many guys flake at the last minute. Llary wraps up with a dat...
Summer Dating Wrap Up 05.09.2025 53:51
This week Sav and Llary cover everything from Taylor and Travis' engagement, to Kevin Jonas’ solo concert moment, to Sabrina Carpenter’s new album. They chat about Operation Mincemeat, which Llary just saw on Broadway and fantasize about plans for shows they want to see together. Llary breaks down a pattern she’s noticing in her dating life (spoiler: getting canceled on is becoming a theme), w...
Rom Coms Raised Us 28.08.2025 1:10:31
Hillary is joined by her friend Hannah to talk all about rom coms — why we love them, why they’ve stuck with us, and how they’ve shaped the way we think about love. They break down some of their favorite characters and scenes, relive the iconic moments that defined the genre, and dig into why these stories still feel so relevant today. Jane Austen makes her mark on the conversation too, with her s...
Corbin vs. Hillary's Hinge 21.08.2025 1:15:57
Corbin is back this week and he and Hillary compare their summer bucket lists before diving into one of the biggest pop culture moments of the year: Taylor Swift’s new album announcement. Then they switch gears to a mystery neither of them can quite solve — why are guys so obsessed with speakeasies? And because things wouldn’t be complete without a little chaos, Corbin takes over Hillary’s Hinge a...
Life Lately 14.08.2025 56:03
Sav and Llary dive into reality TV with plenty of takes on Love Island and the differences between the UK and USA versions. Sav talks about some of her recent travels, including her beef with the Haneda airport. They dish on The Summer I Turned Pretty , touching on what they like about the show, and of course, debating the eternal question: Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah (spoiler: there is a correct...
Trust Your Gut or Trust Your Friends? 08.08.2025 51:32
Llary is joined by her friend Callie this week. They discuss things like flight turbulence, movie impersonations, and how to make the perfect iced latte (because order matters). They talk about how much you should trust your own intuition versus your friends' input in dating situations, and where they each fall on that spectrum.
Decisions We Regret (And a Few That Aged Well) 24.07.2025 59:28
Hillary is joined by her friend Mikey for a catch up that covers everything from moving in with a partner to surviving the chaos of wedding planning. They trade stories about marriage, dating wins (and cringey missteps), and personal growth in your 30s. Along the way, they share book recs, roast some of their past decisions, and laugh through the highs and lows of trying to be intentional in love
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