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Will it ever be enough?! The cars, the houses, the accomplishments... will they ever be enough? For we're known to always be going for more... more opportunities, more this, more that... more, more, more--until there's no-more left. Is it in our survival manual or is it something we learned to do here on Earth? Is it a bad thing or a good thing to always want more? I'm sure the reasons would be in...

It's almost everyone's drive in the world -- dreams. Without dreams, we're like walking zombies, constantly feeding on the empty space around our lives. We need a fuel to keep us going. We need something to remind us of why we are who are and why we want to be who we want to be, and why we do what we do. Our ends define our paths. Our journeys define our destinations. So, have a destination set up...

Someone, somewhere; once said... “You are a work in progress, and that’s perfectly beautiful.” Give yourself time to grow. Time to see your capabilities and strengths that you'll soon have to share with the world. The world is not an easy place to survive... but a good place to start is in your own presence and beauty. With that, you'll maybe one day make the world somehow easy to navigate for tho...

Do you have a legit shoulder to cry on when you need one?! Because families do offer those shoulders you seek. If you ain't got one, it's time to take a good look at those around you and see if they're doing right by you. You deserve love that only a family can bring to the table. All that romantic stuff will come... but they most time don't come through like how a family does. And so, let's dive...

Have you ever found yourself fixing something so small to impress someone you just met? Someone you know or think that they're 'the one' for you. Someone you can imagine a future with. Someone who is somehow out of your league--and you're trying to find a way to get noticed. There are a lot of small things we do or hide to impress the ones we meet. We bend and sometimes even end-up breaking. And s...

Do you practice what you preach? You're the only one who truly knows the answer to this question. If we want to influence then let us influence. Let us use what we have to bring positive impact on others. You are where you are for others. You are who you are for others. We lead by example. If we want it done; then we've got to show how. Let's dive into the world of 'influence' -- with the today's...

Do you think therapies are in place to shrink us? To reduce and minimize our existence? Or do you think therapies are in place to hold us accountable? To make us stare at our ugly truths but in the end get us out of the tunnel. Do you think they help or make things worse? Do you believe in therapy? Do you have anyone to talk to about your shortcomings? Are you trying to seek help where help is nee...

Does the term "friend request" only apply in social media context? What matters when sending your friend request, what to look out for, what to and not expect from it, who you find on the other side of the request, and what to do when it does or does not work out. In the end -- we all want what's best for us and those around us; even when there are some who would misuse what good is built by other...

Family likeness, inherited traits -- those are not the only things the kids take from a parent. They take much more than that. They take things that pass down to other generations. To generations that are doomed for something they had nothing to do with. If we don't try to be better -- the dynamic will never change. The dynamic will turn into a static state of living. Let's dive deep into the root...

How far would you go to protect what you want to stay hidden?! Is it everyone's fault that they're secrets are out in the open?! Does the society around us have anything to do with why we hide things from one another? Where do secrets come from? Will we ever get to a point where we can trust one another without secrets?! Let's dive into all these questions and more in the today's session. Stay hom...

For bad is good's reflection. They define one another. Without bad, good has no meaning. What do you think fits to describe 'good' or 'bad'? Have you ever stopped to wonder -- 'what if a bad thing could end-up being a good thing in a different scenario'? Could you be bad without knowing it? What makes you think your neighbor is bad and your friend isn't? In today's session, lets dive into all thes...