Holy Shenanigans: Our Journey of Faith, Family and Failure

Sometimes what feels like a delay is actually God doing some behind-the-scenes work. In this episode, we talk about the difference between waiting and preparation, why God cares more about our character than our comfort, and how trusting Him often means taking the next step before we feel ready. If you've ever wondered what God is doing in your "not yet" season, this conversation is...

Hard seasons can leave us wondering if we should stay, pivot, or just hold on a little longer. In this episode, we talk honestly about navigating discomfort, uncertainty, and the quiet seasons where God feels distant. We share personal stories about learning to trust God through the tension, finding peace in the middle of discomfort, and realizing that some of our hardest seasons are the ones that...

When life feels uncertain, faith gets real. We’re talking about those raw “I don’t know” seasons—grief, surrender, trusting God’s timing, and learning to breathe when the future feels blurry. We share honest moments from our own lives and what it looks like to release control, stay present, and notice the small, sacred blessings in the middle of the mess. If you’re somewhere between what was and w...

In this quick Holy Shenanigans popcorn episode, DeShawne and Kathryn talk about the shift of seasons and the invitation fall brings. Instead of rushing headfirst into the hustle of the holidays, what if we chose calm over chaos? What if we slowed down long enough to notice the goodness of God woven into simple things—changing leaves, quiet evenings, and the gifts already in our hands? This season...

In this episode of Holy Shenanigans, we get real about unity in the body of Christ. We talk about how easy it is to get caught up in opinions, preferences, and trivial fights—but the truth is, there’s only one way, and it isn’t ours. It’s Jesus. Our differences aren’t something to fear; they’re what make the body stronger. When we learn to honor each other instead of compete with each other, we re...

It’s DeShawne’s birthday, and she’s celebrating with more than just cake. In this special episode, she shares about her health journey and what it means to step into a new year with renewed vision and intention. Together, DeShawne and Kathryn talk about the importance of knowing who you want to be, building shame-resistance, and practicing wholehearted living, drawing inspiration from the work of...

This week, we’re talking about the trap of comparison. Those moments when you’re scrolling social media and holding someone else's highlight reel to your regular Monday. Maybe it’s another mom’s spotless kitchen, someone else’s promotion, or that friend whose Bible is perfectly color-coded. We’ve been there. And we’ve also learned that shame grows in isolation, but it loses its grip in honest,...

Sometimes saying yes to God feels like stepping into the unknown without a map or instructions, and honestly, it often is. In this episode, we dig into what it really means to give God our yes, especially when the path isn’t clear and the season feels long. We remind you that God isn’t bound by our timelines... He’s over all of time, and our yes doesn’t come with a promise that it’ll be easy or qu...

We used to pray for this. In this episode, we’re reflecting on the undeniable, transforming power of God. Not in theory, but in our real lives. We talk honestly about what it’s been like to move from places of deep pain, shame, and uncertainty… into healing, restoration, and hope. We share how God met us in our mess, answered prayers we were almost afraid to speak out loud, and reminded us that Hi...

"For Better or Worse"—those familiar wedding vows sound noble at the altar, but what happens when ‘worse’ shows up at your door? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the real, raw, and redemptive parts of marriage. We talk about self-awareness as the starting point of transformation, what it looks like to take responsibility instead of pointing fingers, and how God's presence...

Marriage isn’t all candlelight and cute couple selfies. Sometimes it’s silent dinners, slammed doors, and wondering if “forever” was a good idea. In this episode of Holy Shenanigans , we wade into the stormy waters of real marriage—the kind that tests your patience, your faith, and your vows. What do you do when leaving looks easier than staying? We talk about holy grit, God’s grace in the middle...

In this episode of Holy Shenanigans , we dive into the paradox of being spiritually set free in Christ—yet still living in bondage. What keeps us chained even after deliverance? We explore how revelation, healing, and truth are essential to recognizing the subtle prisons we stay in, and how to fully walk in the freedom that’s already ours. Join us for a raw, honest conversation about spiritual fre...

In this episode of Holy Shenanigans , we’re talking real pursuit, not the cute, vision-board kind (although I love my vision board), but the kind that costs you something. Because if you don’t know what you’re chasing, you’ll burn out chasing everything. We dive into the hard truth that spiritual, emotional, mental, relational, and physical health aren’t side notes—they’re the foundation. And to p...

In this episode of Holy Shenanigans , we’re unpacking the beauty and mess of the season we’re in — the one we didn’t plan but are learning to be grateful for. We’re talking about trusting God with what’s in our hands, holding onto hope without rushing the process, and finding satisfaction in the now, even while believing for what’s next. It may not be wrapped the way we wanted, but it’s still a gi...

In this raw and unfiltered episode, we shift gears from family values and goal setting to an honest discussion about what happens when life takes an unexpected, heartbreaking turn. Join us as we navigate the messy, sometimes painful intersection of grief, loss, and the dreams we thought we were chasing. Life may not always go according to plan, but we're here for the holy shenanigans that foll...

In this episode of Holy Shenanigans , we’re talking about the power of having strong family values to guide your goal-setting. It’s not just about what you want to achieve—it’s about staying true to what matters most as a family. We discuss how to build a vision that reflects your core values, and how those values can serve as your foundation when creating meaningful, long-term goals. Tune in for...

In this episode of Holy Shenanigans , we dive into the true spirit of the holiday season—being present and finding joy amid the chaos. We talk about how to embrace the imperfect moments, show up for our loved ones, and focus on what really matters when the holiday hustle and bustle gets overwhelming. Whether you're navigating family dynamics, managing expectations, or just trying to hold onto a li...

In this episode, "Grace Over Goals: Wrapping Up 2024!" , we dive into the importance of finishing the year strong by embracing grace over the pressure of unmet goals. As we reflect on the year, we discuss how to avoid the comparison trap that often creeps in as we approach a new year. Instead of focusing on what we didn’t accomplish, we explore how to celebrate the progress we’ve made, trust God’s...

In this episode, we dive into our personal journeys with mental health, exploring the unique challenges and triumphs we've faced along the way. We discuss the stigmas that often permeate the Christian community regarding mental health, and how these can hinder open conversations and support. Emphasizing the concept of "whole self health," we highlight the importance of nurturing both spiritual and...

Get ready for some laughs and surprises in this light-hearted episode where we put our friendship to the test! We ask each other fun and quirky questions that reveal hidden talents and childhood dreams. Tune in as we share our most embarrassing moments, bucket lists, and celebrity crushes, uncovering the delightful little things that make us who we are. This episode is all about celebrating friend...

In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the twists and turns of life that don’t go as planned. Join us as we share personal stories of unexpected challenges and explore how faith can guide us through uncertainty. From coping mechanisms to scriptural insights, we discuss what it means to lean into God when the blueprint changes. Whether you’re facing a tough season or simply seeking encouragem...

Join us as we get real honest about our biggest losses and how we navigate seasons of grief.

In this episode, we dive deep into the messy yet beautiful world of vulnerability in friendships. Join us as we share personal stories, laugh through awkward moments, and explore how being open and honest can strengthen our bonds. From navigating tough conversations to embracing our fears, we discuss the ups and downs of letting our guards down with the people we care about most. Whether you’re a...

Join two best friends as we share how we met, first impressions and what it takes to develop long lasting friendship!