HisAndHers

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss what it’s like tempering expectations in certain instances. Wether dating, friendships, relationships, family, or even something simple as making certain decisions. “HIS” speaks to some personal things he’s had to temper regarding his personal life. “HERS” also gives a brief depiction of some methods she uses to manage expectations as well. Tune in for more...

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne get into the specifics about their vacation they recently just went on to Puerto Rico. They talk about the excursions they went on, the beaches they saw ventured to, the food, the people they met, & all the fun they had. HIS gives insight on conquering a few of his fears regarding heights & large bodies of water. Tune in for more to hear about how the trip went over...

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne take time from their vacation to record. They touch on the trip itself & some of the fun stuff they encountered while there. The conversation also turns to milestones and achieving certain benchmarks by a certain age. Tune in for more to figure out how the trip turned out!

On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss their recent delayed flight to Puerto Rico & what it’s like to have flights delayed. They ended up recording this episode at the Airport during the duration of the delay. Tune in as this turns out to be a pretty funny episode.

On this episode Wayne & Vanessa open up the discussion into various types of Trauma. They break down different variations of it and how it tends to have an affect on individuals. (HIS) shares some personal experiences from his life regarding the topic & (HERS) chimes in also with tidbits of her own. Tune in for more as this turns out to be one of deepest conversations yet.

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss materialistic matters. They discuss the idea of “50/50” in relationships & why people are fixated on the idea that materialistic things define who they are as people. Tune in for more as the conversation turns out to be a fun one.

On this episode Vanessa is joined by her mother as a guest host where they discuss all things mom life. Carmen (Vanessa’s Mom) talks about what it was like raising Vanessa & some of things she wanted to pass onto Vanessa when she became a mom. Vanessa also gives praise to her mom regarding her upbringing. Tune in for more as this ends up being a heartfelt brief episode.

On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss Mothers Day. They talk about what both of their mothers mean to them as individuals. HERS also provides insight being a mom now & how that dynamic feels that she gets to celebrate Mothers Day being a new mommy. Tune in for more now!

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne venture the conversation around who takes the lead in relationships. They break down how one party in the relationship concedes the lead to the other at different time throughout. Also they mention when is the best time to take a step back an allow one party to lead. Turn in for more as HIS & HERS both lend insight into their own relationship.

On this episode Wayne & Vanessa center the conversation about podcasting & the two year anniversary of venturing into the space. They talk about the challenges that present themselves since recording on a weekly basis as well as the joys of podcasting. Tune in for more as this quick episode is sure to apprehend some laughter.

In this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss the variations of “Love Language”. “HERS”breaks down in detail exactly what her love language is & provides all the reasons as to why. “HIS” gives insight as to what he deems characteristics of his love language. Tune in for more as the conversation does begin to heat up.

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss fashion trends. They get into specifics regarding what they do & do not like to wear. Vanessa gets into various styles of dressing that she likes while Wayne mentions what he prefers to wear. Tune in for more to see which of your cohost prefers to rock graphic tees with their outfits.

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne highlight the conversation around motherhood. In particular (Single Moms). They discuss the challenges that present themselves based on circumstances that single moms tend to be faced with on a daily basis. Vanessa provides insight on her own mother being a single mom & Wayne chimes in as well with his mom being a single mom also. They give the similarities/differen...

On this Episode Vanessa & Wayne keep it all the way real about some of the things they have been through as individuals. They discuss some of the most trying/challenging times & life moments. They both share pertinent information that most people probably weren’t aware of. Listen now as the conversation quickly turns serious.

On this episode Wayne & Vanessa give feedback about the television series “SEX LIFE”. They discuss how the show is in comparison to what actually occurs within real life. They both give broad takes on how sexual encounters work in relationships, situationships, & casual dating. Tune in for more as the conversation turns out to be a spicy one!

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss everything about “VIBES”. They discuss the particulars about how vibes can be a good or bad thing. HIS provides insight on what he tends to like and dislike about certain vibes. HERS also provides what kinda vibes she tends to fancy. Tune in for more as the conversation heats up on this topic.

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss a recent trip to Las Vegas that they took to see “MY WAY” the Usher Residency experience. They talk about the some of their takeaways from the concert. HERS gives her feelings on the show with this being the 2nd time seeing him in a decade. HIS also chimes in by providing feedback of what he felt about the show. Tune in for more as they both speak to how dif...

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne further the conversation of “Friendship”. However this time they focus on the positive side of it. They highlight the type of characteristics that breed being an excellent friend. Vanessa gives her take on the type of friendship she values in her realm. Wayne also chimes in on the pros of what he deems a great friendship. Tune in for more as the discussion will have...

Wayne & Vanessa discuss the idea of fake friendships. They dissect the difference between genuine friends & those who can’t seem to keep it real. Wayne recounts a few personal instances where he believed people were “FAKE”. Vanessa also references a certain situation that made her take steps back from certain people. Tune in for more as the conversation heats up!

His & Hers discuss the myriad of reasons as to why it is difficult for some individuals to let go of certain things. They discuss the hurdles, pitfalls, & challenges regarding holding onto things that could potentially be to someone’s detriment. Also the conversation heats up as they reference personal experiences regarding the topic. Tune in for more to hear the perspective that both sides give.

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne center the conversation around LOVE. They talk about how people perceive Valentines Day & the idea of love in general. Both of them give individual insight as to how they viewed both fronts prior to meeting one another and also now being together. HIS gives his take as to why he feels Valentines Day is kind of a Debbie-Downer for a lot of people. Tune in for more as...

Vanessa & Wayne get back to the conversation of being back to podcasting. They discuss some of the feedback they received regarding the previous episode. One thing they specifically highlight within the episode is some of the challenges regarding their relationship and what that all encompasses. From date nights, to taking trips, how often they have sex, & how different things are about being in a...

On this episode His & Hers reveal why they have been on such a long hiatus. They bring everyone up to speed regarding what they have been up to. They also discuss adjusting to life after their son Lorenzo after now having some time to digest life with him. “HIS” also references the tragic death of Tyre Nichols. Tune in for it all as your favorite couple is back with new content.

On this episode Vanessa & Wayne pickup the conversation of Red Flags. The conversation becomes more in-depth as both your co-host get vulnerable by giving you a few red flags about one another. HERS listed some things she felt were Red Flag worthy about HIS. While HIS did the same regarding some things he felt deserved a flag on the play about HERS. Also they provide insight on various Red Flags t...

On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss all things Mother’s Day. They get into what motherhood has been like for Vanessa now that she’s a few months into being a mom. HERS gives a brief depiction of how she’s balanced mom-life, work-life, personal life, & relationship-life. She also talks about the dynamic of the personal relationship with her mother. HIS goes into what’s he’s seen from HERS about...