High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Send us Fan Mail The world says better communication will fix your marriage. But the truth? It’s only a small part of the picture. In this episode, Chelsey pulls back the curtain on why communication alone can’t save your marriage—and how most couples are trying to reform patterns they don’t even realize were formed decades ago. She shares how to uncover the roots of unhealthy conflict, the biblic...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever been told that the solution to your marriage struggles is “just go on more dates,” this one’s for you. In this raw and real episode, Chelsey dismantles the cultural myth that date nights can fix what’s broken in your marriage. She shares her own story of trying to “paint over ashes” when the real issue was a missing foundation—and how only God’s design and grace can...

Send us Fan Mail What if the most rebellious thing you could do in today’s culture was to follow Jesus fully—with your marriage, family, values, priorities, and purpose? In this fiery episode, Chelsey drops truth with urgency, conviction, and love. Inspired by Erica Kirk’s powerful words and Charlie Kirk’s unwavering stand for truth, she unpacks what it really means to be a rebel in 2025. Spoiler:...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever stopped to ask why Jesus welcomes children—and tells us to become like them? This episode will change the way you see your parenting, your obedience, and your relationship with God. What started as a simple afternoon spreading mulch with my 5-year-old turned into a Holy Spirit download on how deeply God delights in using us to do His work— even when we slow things do...

Send us Fan Mail You might think your marriage is too far gone.  Too broken.  Too betrayed.  Too burned to ever be rebuilt. I used to believe that, too—until God proved otherwise. In this raw and redemptive episode, I share the full story of the miracle shower that changed everything. What was almost the final night of my marriage became the turning point of complete surrender—and the beginning of...

Send us Fan Mail This is not your typical episode—it’s a call to action for every believer. In the wake of the assassination of Charlie Kirk, Chelsey shares her raw reaction, deep spiritual reflection, and unapologetic challenge to the Church: are we paying any cost for our faith? This episode isn’t about politics—it’s about purpose. It’s about heaven. And it’s about living in a way that makes hel...

Send us Fan Mail Marriage isn’t about your happiness—it’s about your holiness. In this soul-deep episode, Chelsey walks through Ephesians 5 and unpacks the profound mystery of marriage: a reflection of Christ and the Church. This is more than submission, more than sex, and more than “doing your part.” It’s a Spirit-filled, sanctifying journey toward oneness, healing, and kingdom purpose. You’ll he...

Send us Fan Mail What do losing your voice, being convicted by a thought, and cheese muffins have in common? This spontaneous episode is a heart-level invitation into what it looks like to walk through everyday life with the Holy Spirit as your guide—even when you’re sick, tired, or making snacks for your kids. Chelsey shares: What conviction looks like in real-time as we mature in faith The subtl...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever closed Instagram or TikTok and felt more anxious, less satisfied, or suddenly unsure of your life? That’s not random. In this episode, I unpack the spiritual and emotional effects of social media—and how the discontent we feel online is often a divine nudge to examine our hearts. You’ll learn: Why scrolling leaves us feeling disconnected and anxious How to respond to...

Send us Fan Mail Ever had a moment from childhood that seemed small… but you’ve never forgotten it? In this episode, I share a vivid Christmas memory—what seemed like a simple gift exchange at the time—that marked the beginning of an identity shift for me. This isn’t just a story. It’s a powerful example of how little t trauma and childhood moments can shape who we think we have to be in order to...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s talk about trauma—because everyone has it, but not everyone knows how it’s shaping their marriage, leadership, and life. In this episode, I unpack what trauma really is, the difference between big T and little t trauma, and how the patterns you developed to protect yourself are often the same ones keeping you from experiencing intimacy, trust, and freedom today. We dive into...

Send us Fan Mail In this honest, Spirit-led episode, I’m sharing five things I’m doing lately that are posturing my heart to live and walk in the Spirit—especially in the chaos, leadership, and everyday decisions of life, marriage, and business. These aren’t productivity hacks. They’re postures of surrender. And if you’ve been craving deeper intimacy with God or struggling to hear Him clearly, thi...

Send us Fan Mail You’re significant—but you’re not the Savior. In this humbling and hope-filled episode, Chelsey explores 1 Corinthians 3 and what it means to live with right-sized significance. Whether you feel over-responsible or stuck behind fear disguised as humility, this episode will reframe your role in God’s divine plan. Inside, you’ll hear: Why some of us overinflate our role—and how to s...

Send us Fan Mail Your brain is always scanning to confirm what it already believes—so what are you giving it permission to seek? In this powerful episode, Chelsey unpacks the science of focus and how the brain’s Reticular Activating System (RAS) is constantly filtering information based on your current beliefs. When partnered with the truth of God’s Word, this becomes a life-changing tool for tran...

Send us Fan Mail When you’re too close to the chaos, all you see is blur. In this soul-grounding episode, Chelsey shares how taking a step back—from stress, striving, and daily distractions—can reveal the bigger picture of what God is doing in your home and heart. From Sabbath reflections and parenting moments to long-awaited swing chairs and a husband returning from deployment, she brings you int...

Send us Fan Mail Hard work. Hustle. Do more. Plan better. That was Chelsey’s formula—until God lovingly let it all fall apart. In this deeply honest episode, Chelsey opens up about what happened when she did everything “right” in business… and still didn’t see success. Not because she was lazy, but because God loved her too much to let her idolize her own effort. If you’ve been pushing, planning,...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be real—affirmations sound empowering, but they’re empty without truth. In this no-fluff episode, Chelsey exposes the hollowness of self-help mantras and explains why “I am enough” just doesn’t cut it without a biblical foundation. You’ll learn why it’s not about finding your truth, becoming your best self, or repeating fluffy phrases—it’s about anchoring yourself in who God...

Send us Fan Mail In this raw, honest, and Holy Spirit-led episode, Chelsey takes you behind the scenes of a chaotic game night turned spiritual revelation. From parenting breakdowns to a face-first fall at the gas station, she shares how God used the everyday and the unexpected to uncover deeper truths—about spiritual warfare, gluttony, control, and walking in the Spirit. Chelsey unpacks the power...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Chelsey Holm introduces EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) through a Kingdom lens—offering a grounding, Spirit-led practice for regulating your body and reconnecting to God's truth. You’ll learn: What tapping really is (and why it’s not “woo” when rooted in the Word) Common physical responses that signal it’s time to pause How to turn those triggers into invit...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Chelsey invites you into a sacred conversation that echoes the cries of so many high-functioning, emotionally exhausted women: Who is holding space for me? Through real stories, honest reflections, and personal breakthrough, she reveals what’s really going on beneath the surface for the “strong ones” who have been carrying too much for too long. From suppressed gr...

Send us Fan Mail What actually makes a husband attractive? It’s not the abs, the income, or even the honey-do list. In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks the real secret: a man relentlessly pursuing God. When husbands lead from the overflow of intimacy with the Father, everything changes. Chelsey also speaks directly to wives—challenging them to surrender fully to God, support their husbands’ divi...

Send us Fan Mail You can’t build a thriving marriage with one foot out the door. In this episode, Chelsey calls out the 3 silent killers that sabotage commitment, connection, and the restoration God wants to do in your marriage. From casually keeping divorce on the table, to being surrounded by voices that tear down instead of build up, this is the wake-up call many couples need. If you’re serious...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing all the right things” but still stuck—resentful, exhausted, numb, or disconnected—this episode is for you. Chelsey Holm goes deep into the truth no one’s saying loud enough: it’s not your mindset. It’s your nervous system. Your survival patterns. Your body remembering past pain and running the show—even when your life looks “fine” on the outs...

Send us Fan Mail In this raw, off-the-cuff episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks the powerful transformation that took place at the recent High Level Husband & High Level Wife couples retreat. With nine couples in the room—some on the brink of divorce and others just drifting—walls came down, vulnerability took center stage, and marriages were reoriented around God’s mission. Chelsey shares what it lo...

Send us Fan Mail This one’s for the wife who’s striving, surviving, and secretly wondering if she’s the problem. You’re doing all the things—reading the books, saying the prayers, holding it together—and still feeling lost, tired, and unseen. In this episode, I want you to know:   I see you. I get it. I’ve been there. But I love you too much to leave you there. We’re talking about what it means to...