Hey There Adulting

Jeena and Drue tackle one of the most important- and often challenging- aspects of adult life: setting boundaries. Whether it’s with family, at work, or in friendships, establishing healthy limits is so important for your well-being and relationships. Learn how to identify when a boundary is needed and how to effectively communicate it, strategies for setting boundaries with family members without...

Unlock your core memories with Jeena and Drue as they discuss reconnecting with the magic of your own childhood while creating lasting memories with your children. The hosts share personal stories about their favorite childhood memories and how they’re passing them down to the next generation, the power of play, imagination, and tradition in building strong family connections, how to create core m...

Jeena and Drue might tell you if your partner is a walking red flag or not 🚩 These subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) warning signs can make or break relationships, friendships, and even professional connections. Whether you’re navigating a new relationship, re-evaluating an old one, or just curious about the dynamics of human behavior, this episode can be a safe space for anyone who may be, un...

From going through surrogacy at a young age to being on TV shows, Terrell and Jarius Joseph join Jeena and Drue to give a deep dive of their life as two dads with three children. The couple shares their surrogacy journey, their experience on the reality TV show Wife Swap , unexpectedly having twins, and more. We even get some behind the scenes details on their book: Love Out Loud. You will learn l...

Finding your identity is probably one of the hardest things about adulthood. From choosing a career, to dating, to deciding on getting married or having kids, it can sometimes feel like you never truly know who you are. In this episode, Jeena and Drue dive deep into the challenges and confusion of an identity crisis, especially in your 20s and 30s. Through their own personal examples, they discuss...

50% of marriages end in divorce, and I’m guessing you don’t want to be a part of that statistic. Jeena and Drue knew they wanted to be married fast, but is that the reality for everyone? How do you know when you should get married? How do you know who’s the right one? Today’s new episode tackles a very important question for a lot of adults: “Should I Get Married?”  #ShouldIGetMarried #Marriage #M...

You’re lying if you say you don’t get a little happy dropping your kids off when the first day of school comes around! With back to school season being in full swing, Jeena and Drue share their experiences with homeschooling, the challenges and joys of school, and share some stories that will make you think twice about the school you send your kids to. 📚✏️ #BackToSchool #Homeschool #Education #Fi...

Is your job causing you to have poor mental health? Are you wondering if it’s worth it to stay for the experience on your resume? If you don’t have any interests, how should you find what career field is best for you? Jeena and Drue answer these questions and MORE in today’s new episode by sharing their experiences and the insights they’ve gained through their career journey. #Careers #Jobs #Emplo...

Today's new episode is all about Jeena and Drue's perspective of the "Black Wife Effect" trend. Did it work on Drue? Is the "pressure" of high maintenance felt by all spouses? How often does Drue actually moisturize? All this and more in this episode of Hey There Adulting!  #BlackWifeEffect #Marriage #SkinCare #BlackWife #InterracialMarriage Follow Jeena and Drue's...

Jeena and Drue discuss gender roles in today's new episode! Gender roles apply to all aspects of life, whether you are a new adult, a parent, or any other stage of your life. From gender stereotypes they break in their home to how gender norms limit our society. #GenderRoles #Stereotypes #Relationships

Brittany & Joel Muddamalle join Jeena and Drue today on the podcast! Growing up with vastly different cultures, the couple has found ways to infuse both of their cultures into their family and their marriage. They discuss how they make sure both of their cultures are well represented, the struggles of growing up in culturally traditional households, and so much more. #MulticulturalMarriages #B...

Are you stepping into adulthood and feeling overwhelmed by financial responsibilities? You're not alone! This is a common struggle with most adults, which is why the Wilder's share their real-life financial mistakes, experiences, and tips in this episode. Find out which one of them is the saver and which one is the spender, what they prioritize to spend/save for, and how they communicate w...

Parenting is no easy task, and when you're outnumbered, the challenge can be even more daunting. In this episode, Kora and Andre Duke join Jeena and Drue as they talk about how they navigate a family of ten. From not planning a big family to fostering a relationship with all 10 of their children, the couples cover it all. Whether you're managing a household with no kids or more kids than t...

Naming your baby is an important decision, and it’s something that Jeena and Drue keep private on their social media. Listen to today's new episode to hear their reasoning behind giving their kids animal nicknames, there reactions to some of the most interesting celebrity baby names, and more. #BabyNames #NickNames #HeyThereAdulting

We’re joined by Courtney ‘s mom, Amy, in today’s episode! This inspiring mother of 7 shares all her advice and insights about having a big family, what it meant to her to be a mom, and so much more of her life before raising her kids and how she’s still currently doing so! Jeena, Courtney, and Amy engage in a fun and inspiring conversation that is helpful to moms, soon-to-be moms, and simply all w...

Walk down memory lane with Drue and Jeena as they reminisce on their dating journey and how it could've been different in today's dating world. From the traditional form of dating face-to-face, to early matchmaking websites like Match.com and eHarmony, to the swipe culture of Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, the evolution of dating has had a huge impact on the world. Jeena and Drue describe thei...

🎉WE ARE REBRANDING🎉 Welcome to Hey There Adulting, where people who can’t adult find a diverse inclusive community to figure life out with. We’re so excited for this change and we hope you are too because our first official hey there adulting episode comes out this Sunday at 11 AM!

How much is too much when it comes to arguing with your significant other? See how Jeena and Drue navigate disagreements in their relationship, their longest argument, how often they argue, and more! Leave a comment on what boundaries you set with your partner when arguing. Don’t forget to give a review for the podcast if you enjoyed this discussion and subscribe! #NavigatingDisagreements #CoupleA...

Jeena and Drue sit down with Brad and Sarah Williams in today's episode, content creators who share their inspiring journey of open adoption, fostering, and transracial adoption. The William's highlight that families do not have to match as they discuss welcoming their adoptive child's birth family into their home and lives, their efforts to take care of their children's hair, and...

How does your attachment style impact your marriage? In what ways do they shape our relationships, confidence,  or decision on who to marry? Tune into Jeena and Drue's discussion on how the four attachment styles influence us, from understanding your own attachment style to recognizing patterns in your relationships. See how understanding attachment styles can empower you to build stronger, mo...

What do you consider cheating? Liking bikini or gym pics? Confiding in a friend other than your partner?  Going to strip clubs? Jeena and Drue are joined again by Kolter and Dominique Bouchard to discuss what is cheating and what is not. Kolter and Dominique, parents and content creators, are the first guests to appear twice on the podcast! Both hilarious couples share stories they know regarding...

Hold on to your hats, everyone! We're getting a little controversial in today's episode. From controversial rules to societal expectations, Jeena and Drue candidly discuss their parenting hot takes. No sleep-overs, inviting the entire family to birthday parties, not forcing their kids to hug their elders, and more. Whether you're a seasoned parent or preparing for the journey ahead, yo...

Get a little glimpse into the life of a multicultural family in today's new episode. Jeena, Drue, and the amazing guests Rhianna and Jon Schoeller share their unique experiences, challenges, and joys of diversity within a family. Rhianna and Jon are content creators, vloggers, world travelers, and most importantly transracial adoptive parents. They document their family experiences and trips o...

Should grandparents be allowed to spank your kids? Who's side are you taking when your wife and your mom get in an argument? How do you set boundaries with your parents about your own parenting styles? Jeena and Drue go deep into these questions and others as they discuss how to navigate relationships with in -laws. From establishing boundaries to fostering open communication, they share pract...

Jeena and Courtney discuss the transformative journey of adulthood as an adoptee with our guest, Melissa Guida-Richards! Melissa is a transracial adoptee born in Bogota, Colombia, raised in New York. She found out she was adopted at 19 years old, and she shares her experiences with this late discovery and how it impacted her identity, familial relationships, and other aspects of her life.  She is...