Hero at Home

Ever felt like a workaholic trying to save the world? You're not alone. In this episode, educator, author, husband and father, Dr. Joshua P Cole and I dive deep into the pressure of leadership and the identity crisis that often follows. Joshua shares his journey from being overwhelmed to embracing a more authentic self, revealing lessons learned from his grandfather. It's a reminder that leadershi...

When the legacy you planned for your family falls apart, how do you move forward? In this episode I trace broken family stories from Scripture to the real-life tragedy of Horatio Spafford—who turned unimaginable loss into the hymn “It Is Well With My Soul”—and pull out five practical steps men can use to rebuild. Designed for husbands and fathers, this episode offers honest encouragement and actio...

In this episode, I explore how the small, steady actions we take create a multiplying legacy. Using Dr. William Leslie’s story and memories of my dad, I argue legacy is motion, not a trophy: consistent, one-degree habits—short prayers, brief Bible stories, intentional conversations—compound into lifelong influence.  Make a simple plan and start this week to shape the current your great‑grandchildr...

In this episode I explore what legacy really means for husbands and fathers—beyond money to the lasting bonds, values, and traditions we leave our families. Drawing on a personal story about a generous uncle who created multigenerational connection, this episode traces how cultural shifts since the Industrial Revolution and changing media portrayals eroded family cohesion. Inspired by David Green’...

In this episode I interview Clint Peregoy , whom I met by chance at a local coffee shop. We quickly realized God had given us the same passion: to live as examples for the Lord through our relationships. Clint shares his journey from seasons of struggle to renewed daily rhythms of Scripture and discipline, and how that shift reshaped his role as a husband, father, and witness in the marketplace. T...

In this episode I unpack the “Purpose of Pain”, share personal stories of failure and restoration, and explore the wilderness seasons that feel like setbacks but are refining us. We draw wisdom from John Bevere’s God, Where are You? and key Scriptures to help you lean into the Lord during hard times.  Resources: Bevere, John. God, Where Are You? Worthy Publishing, 2015. Order a copy Join the Commu...

In this episode, I explore the transformative power of margin in our daily lives. Join me on a reflective journey as I share a story I read of an entrepreneur who discovered the emptiness of prioritizing productivity over meaningful connections. He learns that true success lies in intentional moments with loved ones. We will discuss practical tips for creating margin—setting aside time for family,...

In this episode, I dive deep into the challenges we face in our fast-paced lives, often feeling overwhelmed and consistently pressed for time. Are you running on empty? Together, we explore how the RPM Framework—Rhythm, Pace, and Margin—can offer a roadmap for greater satisfaction and peace. Through personal anecdotes, we examine how to identify the energy drains in your life and structure your da...

In this episode of Hero at Home , we dive into the inspiring journey of Fernando Mendoza , a talented athlete renowned not only for his achievements but also for his unwavering faith and commitment to family. As Fernando reflects on his rise to prominence, he often expresses gratitude, stating, “I want to give thanks to God,” a sentiment that permeates his life and career. We'll explore the de...

In this heartfelt episode of Hero at Home , McKinley shares his personal journey through financial struggles, reflecting on the fears and challenges that shaped him. He discusses the emotional toll of dealing with debt and the importance of self-forgiveness, while emphasizing the encouragement he received from loved ones. With sincerity and hope, he inspires listeners to find their own resilience,...

In this episode of Hero at Home , I explore the essential role of an inner circle in our lives—especially for leaders at home. Statistics reveal a concerning trend: 15% of men and 21% of millennials lack close connections, leading to increased feelings of loneliness and mental health issues. Fostering meaningful relationships is crucial for well-being. I discuss the psychology of social connection...

In this first episode, I share the story that sparked Hero at Home —seeing a friend’s family fall apart after nearly 20 years of marriage. It set me on a 15-year journey to learn how to lead, love, and build a family that lasts. If you’re a husband or father who wants to lead with purpose, this is where your journey begins.