HER Thoughts

There are some days where you may feel like everyone has a friend group of friends and you're wondering what is wrong with you... why are you the only one that's alone? If you've felt like this, you're in the right place. VIDEO ON YOUTUBE: @TavinaMartha

Procrastination is something that we all go through no matter if it's related to school, jobs, creating something or anything else that you can think of. It's something that i am currently struggling with and i know many of you might as well. INSTAGRAM: Main: decembertav podcast: htpod_ YOUTUBE: @TavinaMartha

Likes on social media can be overwhelming sometimes. Especially if you let it determine your worth. I struggle with this. It's normal to crave human attention, we are all humans. Likes on social media shouldn't determine your worth. It will hurt you deeply as time goes on. INSTAGRAM: MY MAIN: decembertav MY PODCAST: htpod_

I usually don't speak about politics on my podcast but this topic is very important to me and it needed to be talked about. {This speaks about the recent 2024 election} I'm back everyone! I needed a long break away from creating and posting episodes but I have returned lol. ALSOOO Happy 1 year of HER thoughts!! I can't believe it's been 1 year already. My first episode was created on September 30t...

"Never stop being a good person even to the unkind ones." - - - INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

"Be the person you would look up to." INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

"focus on the step in front of you, not the whole staircase" (YOU ARE AMAZING) INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Just keep dreaming.. Don't give up Just keep dreaming. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

This is a much much shorter episode but i just wanted to be honest with you guys in this episode. Season 2 will premiere on.... MARCH 30TH!!!!!! INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Lately i've been fearing death and it won't leave my mind. It's something that i've been thinking about again recently. I've always thought about what would happen after life and what would i see afterwards. Death scares me. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Overthinking is sooo draining. I've always been someone who always overthinks about something and i would stress out about it later. It was very exhausting.. the key is changing our MINDSET. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

My 2024 outs is a long list but i want to spend this episode talking about my eight 2024 outs. In the past year, I had so much going on and I didn't really stop to reflect on myself and my thoughts. These are my 2024 outs. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

A couple of days ago i was thinking to myself what is my purpose on earth and how will i know what i'm good at. Having an existential crisis is a very weird and scary thing to go through. Let's dive in this episode together. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

This episode is a very important one. There are certain parents who don't understand what mental health means and they don't know how to approach their children when they're struggling with mental health. It's very imporant to always be there for your child or anyone else when they're struggling inside. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Happy new year everyone!! It's finally 2024 and it's already January six. I hope 2024 can be a year of growth and change for everyone. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

I'm twenty and i've never been with someone romantically. Growing up and still now, i've always been embarassed especially since i haven't had experience yet in that aspect. It's totally OK to be single at 20 or any age. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Christmas this year doesn't feel the same for me. I don't know how anyone else is feeling about Christmas but this year just feels very different for me (like some past years). I see alot of people being festive and singing about Christmas but i don't feel the same as them. I LOVED Christmas when i was younger, but now that i'm older it feels very different for me. Christmas is different for every...

2023 is slowly leaving us. I don't know how i feel about it. I have so many wishes for 2024. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

I've always struggled with finding out what being a woman was. To be honest, it's always hard not to compare ourselves to others and allowing the negative thoughts to creep in. Let's dive into this episode. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

How has this year flew by so quickly!? I still remember celebrating new years so vividly. (most times i barely remember what i did in the beginning of the year so that's a shocker). Anyways 2023 has been a good year and at the same time i struggled this year. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

I can't believe i'm almost 20. The truth is i'm scared of change and getting older but i'm excited at the same time. I'm learning each and everyday and it's hard. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Focusing on my body, especially growing up has always been something i would struggle with. We each struggle with many different problems but today i want to talk about body image. In this episode, let's dive into the views of negative body image. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

why is self love hard??? It's always easier to hate yourself and bring yourself down but when it comes to loving yourself and uplifting yourself it's always an unnecessary battle to get through. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Where do i even begin.. Feelings and emotions are hard to deal with especially when you don't know why you are feeling this way or can't pin point where this feeling is coming from. It's ok to feel your feelings and emotions. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav

Relationships come in different forms such as friendships, romantic relationships, co-worker relationships, family relationships and more. Recently i've been thinking about romantic relationships and dating. Here are my thoughts.. INSTAGRAM: PODCAST: htpod_ MY MAIN: decembertav