Heartbreak and Healing with Chennaisixtyeight

Don’t set yourself on fire to make others feel warm… When you start to live your life to make others happy or please them, you are moving out of integrity with yourself, your goals, passion, and life’s mission. A lesson for life… ❤️

If this hit you hard in the right spot, I can tell you that you are not alone. Some memories never vanish, they stay there forever, they have no shame, no guilt, there is no healing process for it. They just stay deep inside your heart and never go. Learn to accept, accommodate and live with it. Some use those memories as a fuel for growth, and some keep them as life lessons. What’s key is to have...

On Valentine’s Day while rest of the crowd is speaking about love, happiness, togetherness, romance and stuff. Here there are people who are deeply in love, but in silence. They know how much it means to them, but they also know it’s too far and complicated. Feelings like this are not easy to pass, but it also puts them into the purest form of love with no expectations. Love like this are not ofte...

Have faith in your intuitions and listen to your gut feeling. Because, that’s your super power. Hold on to it. If not now, eventually it will push you into the right direction… You know what I am saying ❤️

There comes a time where you have to stop crossing oceans for people, who can’t cross a puddle for you…. Loving someone who will not love you back is like going to war with an open arms asking to be killed.. Never get too attached to anyone until they feel the same. It helps a lot for your mental health…

Intimacy is being seen and known as the person you really are… True intimacy is when nothing exist between 2 people, no space, no inhibitions, no lies and it’s important to know that intimacy is not purely physical

Some dreams are never told out loud, but it stays deep in heart while we cover it with a sheet of success.. and deep in our heart we know what it really means to us… It could look simple, but all the heavy days, hard works, sacrifices everything goes and connects to the roots of that dream. “Your secret dream”…

There is an old quote that says; God could not be everywhere so he created mothers. If you can’t burst out in front of her, where would you?.. Sometimes we think there is no one to share our pain, but the fact that she is home is a privilege that we forget often. If you get a chance to meet her everyday, talk to her. You got it all. Keep going ❤️

Tired of life and things around. All of a sudden you feel exhausted like the world has drained you for everything you had.. Being mentally tired is way too different from being physically tired. It’s hard to understand, it hard to see and most of the time it’s ignored. No body cares.

Ambiverts are flexible individuals who thrive in both solitude and company, they can make great communicators and as well be good listeners… A rare gem to find 💎

Not every beard and a long hair might have a story, but they definitely have an intense emotion behind it. And most of the time, it’s untold… They don’t care to impress the world. They don’t care if someone likes them. They don’t.. Because they have nothing to lose or nothing is gain. They have understood to live life in solitude to their heart.

Adulthood is learning and accepting the fact that not everyone likes you, nor wants you to win. It’s always your individual perseverance and determination, that will help you succeed. Anything above that is just a bonus that the universe is kind to you….

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What better compliment someone can get than this. “I wish I had seen you earlier”… “Unnai therindhu kolladha andha natkalai; meetka mudiya villai”.. Go ahead and let them know.

If you have to beg for someone’s love or attention, then it’s not love. Never ask for attention, commitment, time or effort. You should never ask for someone to come back or stay. Begging is demeaning and degrading. If someone doesn’t want to give you all this with their arms wide open. Then they are not worth it. No one at any circumstances is worth begging for…

We just don’t look for the right traits, that’s the issue. Good people are everywhere and we don’t recognise them. A common trait in all good branded humans: - The respect they give for others - And the love others have for them.. It has nothing to do with fancy dress, expensive mansions or cars. Everything else is just an eye wash. Understand humans to understand the world.

When an over-thinker opens up, just make sure you know how scary it is for them to be that vulnerable. They take a huge leap of faith when they consider a friendship, relationship or family. It’s not an easy life for them. And will never be…

Because only you know that “Silence is an answer too”.. An answer to yourself, your worries, pain, struggle and everything else. A hidden silence…

Sometimes the most therapeutic things do in life is to call that loved one out on a random evening, and go for an endless chat…. Life is strange that although you meet 1000s of people everyday, and nothing changes, but a few minutes meet with that one person, and everything heals for a life time. Share this with them and plan your next catch up ❤️

Things change, time change, people change and life changes. You only got your actions to live and die with, That’s what matters… Your impact in this world can outlast your existence. Nothing else does.. Everything and everyone else are going to change. Adan unma.

It’s very hard to express certain things although you know that’s the truth. You know the world ain’t sunshine and rainbows. It has its beauty and pain, but still you long for a future where everything you lost can be restored. As humans, we know the reality of life, but we also understand we have a heart that feels and we hear that often unlike anything else.

Keep this saved, so you can hear whenever you feel down or giving up. All you have to sometime is just take a break and chill. Yellam Sari Ayedum… Chill Pannu 😎

They say; it’s better to be cry than angry. Anger can hurt others, but tears flow through the face and cleanse your heart. It heals in silence. The most painful tears you had, are the tears you had in silence. Because every silent tears comes from hopeless, lonely battles… May be that’s why it has a lot of questions and lot of answers all by yourself. So called war in silence, which turns you into...

You are in war with your dreams and silent with your soldiers, your heart is broken and life is shattered, your days have become short and nights have become long, sometimes you can’t believe when someone says “There is hope, carry on”…. And you still say, you are ok?? So today, “How are you”; share and ask them too..