Heartbreak and Healing with Chennaisixtyeight

Who saw you, where no one did… Especially when the love with in you was empty. And they attempt to show you…. There is a say which goes like “You should be hugged and kissed often by someone who knows how”…. Otherwise how would you know warmth of love? Because love is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity.

Tears and anger are not always expressed with everyone we meet, it comes out rare and very personal. If you have a relationship with someone where you could express both without the fear of being judged, misunderstood or used against. Then you are definitely lucky to be close.

They say, speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will always regret. What you say out anger defines who you actually are and what you really mean. So words spoken should not be words of regret.

We already know Life’s biggest lessons comes after a ‘broken trust or a broken heart’…. And to add more and an ‘empty pocket and disrespect’ can also be a better teacher than you could ever imagine. And only the lucky few get to attend these classes. Are you the lucky one??

Never take people for granted, no matter how much they love you. Eventually they will get tired. We all are given chances and you never know when the last chance May be…. Respect the ones that respect you and your presence in their life.

Now you told me “nothing is going to affect you”…. So be right there, stick to your word. You are stronger than you think you are…

Sometimes we wish we could find the right words, but we don’t realise that it’s just the gesture of letting the other person know “I’m here for you”, “I care about you”, or “I will keep you in my prayers”, would mean the world to them.

Keep your face always towards the sunshine and the shadow will fall behind you. Just believe in yourself and all that you are; that’s all is required.

“Come home to know me better”, is not a saying. It’s fact. There are only 2 ways to know someone better. Either by observing their circle of friends or by going home with them. Because ‘Home’ is an emotion and it’s raw. Your bedroom walls don’t lie and your mirrors can talk. Home can be an attachment, and it plays a huge part in your mental health journey. How your home looks and feel is how you w...

This story is a tiny sample of what handling with love can be. Anything can distrust a relationship, problems are meant to occur. It’s not the problem free life we pray for, but the grace to handle every situation that life throws at us. Learning to be wise and understanding others with empathy and patience will help you survive life. Handle with love ❤️ because that’s the only reason you started...

When someone you love becomes a memory; memories become treasure. Losing someone when you loved them the most is the heights form grief. Unfortunately life is full of grief to a degree to which we allow ourselves to love other people.

Neither sad, nor happy, or in pain… Everything feels so empty. So does silence and chaos.

In search of happiness, we get lost. Pope Francis was right on spot when he said happiness is more in giving. It’s better when you know others are happy and the reason is you. What more do you need as a human, other than making someone’s life better and knowing it for sure. Life is beautiful when you understand you are in this world for a reason, and it’s not about you.

Forgive or forget? …. Life isn’t worth carrying those heavy baggage’s. Let it go and sink in peace.

Men in love are underrated. Good hearts, good soul and good men deserves respect and appreciation. Hope this message is shared with all those good men out there who moves with best intentions and create hope in this world.

When William Shakespeare wrote this: “You say you love rain, But you open your umbrella. You say you love Sun But you find a shadow spot. You say you love wind But you close your windows. This is why I am afraid, when you say you love me.”

If you consistently focus on ruminating and make it a habit, it becomes a loop. If your Attachment doesn’t come with a layer of detachment, then as an over-thinker you get to pay the price. You start to live too much into your mind. Detachment is an art of loving something while always being open to the possibility of losing it someday

Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. But the larger question has always been, how do you know it’s the right person…. You don’t know, but you feel it.

Peace is not absence of conflict, or avoiding life situations that’s thrown at you. It is the ability to handle conflict, situations and circumstances by peaceful means.” “To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart”…. However, choosing peace over chaos is the ultimate act of strength. So every single time ask your gut instinct if that’s peace or chaos… If it’s the second,...

Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy It doesn’t end at 18, it doesn’t have to be in a format taught by the previous generations, it doesn’t matter you couldn’t figure out yet. Enjoy the journey, live by the process, breathe the present. Being anxious is never the answer or would give you one. Relax and get going. Learn fr...

Never feel bad for being an emotional or sensitive person. It’s a sign that you have a big heart and you are not afraid to let others see it. Being emotional is also a sign of strength. Emotional people cant fake a relationship that they care, and that’s why they often end up staying away.

It is not possible for a man to be elegant without a touch of femininity in his life, and beauty of feminine comes from her soul, her expressions, emotions and love. Deal with it or live with it.. Is your decision, but all I can tell you is you can’t deal with something long enough. If you don’t start to live with it :)

Sometimes being grateful for what we have in life is all we need to recover and be on track. Missing tiles syndrome- may not be a common statement, but if we think about how human mind operates, it’s not surprising that we only receive what we deserve. The tendency to run behind what we can’t have is what keeps us in grave and dark. If you allow the mind to switch and think about everything else w...

Your thoughts are your control. How you want to handle it or drive it needs to be determined by you. Being happy is a choice. Choose wisely. Because your thoughts will decide who you would become.

A father is neither an anchor to hold us back nor a sail to take us there, but a guiding light whose love shows us the way. Happy Fathers Day ❤️ Let the dad’s know, they don’t get to hear this often.