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Everyone wants the soft life, the flowers, the baecations, the cute pictures, and the “relationship goals.” But what happens when the rain comes? When your partner loses their job. When grief changes them. When a health scare shakes everything. When life isn’t romantic anymore. Love isn’t only tested in the sunshine—it’s revealed in the grey skies and the storm. This episode isn’t about settling f...

In this episode I’m unpacking three big conversations: the controversy around men asking women for money. Why has this sparked so much outrage? Also Jesus just needs to come get us. Crazy things are happening From there, I shift into a more personal space—oversharing on the internet and what we choose to keep private in a world that encourages constant transparency. Speaking of oversharing, there...

In this episode, I talk about gratitude in real time—what it looks like to appreciate where you are while still still dreaming about where you’re going and most importantly looking at where you’re coming from. Also touched on Brizzo. Him being on tour with B2k.. That lit something in me… Confirmation. Confirmation that dreams are real, and they’re closer than we think. His gratitude to God lit som...

This episode is a real conversation between two friends about life, career (surviving the aviation industry) love, and growth. We explore relationships from both perspectives — the misunderstandings, the expectations, and the importance of honesty with yourself and your partner. It’s not perfect, and that’s the point. Just two people trying to make sense of it all while being real about their expe...

There are seasons of life nobody prepares you for. Not even life itself will prepare you for them. The seasons where things don’t look the way you imagined (The life you thought you’d be living vs reality) The seasons where prayers feel delayed and everyone around you seems to be moving forward. The seasons where you question everything. Just because your life looks different right now doesn’t mea...

So… when are you getting married?’ A question many hear, but few talk about the pressure behind it. As if marriage is as easy as drinking water Thou shall not stress anybody about marriage. I briefly talked about embracing seasons of change, and trusting that God restores the years we feel we’ve lost, because with God, your story is never late — He is the God of suddenly. Love and light Ri

Hey guys Firstly happy valentines Hope you guys were filled with love Secondly No better time to drop an episode with my partner right ? We tackled a couple of things (talking stages, honest conversations etc) answered a few of your questions but most importantly we stressed the fact that love is so eazi and straightforward. I hope you’ll enjoy this episode just as much as we enjoyed relishing it...

Happy New Everyone 🤍 Welcome to season 3 of the HMOS podcast. I hope the beginning of the year is feeling like a warm hug from God. This episode is raw. In the beginning I was scared to record because I didn’t wanna be vulnerable but it’s okay not to be okay right ? Life has been a lot lately . The last two months have been a sad movie and unfortunately I’ve been the main actress. I’ve questioned...

Season 3 Finale… We’ve finally come to the end of this season. This episode is a bit all over the place..,in the best way. I touch on quite a few things, but at its core, it’s a life update. Conversations from Friendsmas sparked a lot of reflection, leaving me questioning life, people, and the lack of authenticity in this social-media era… and more. But you know what? I won’t say too much. I’ll le...

You know how sometimes we utter the words can never be me ? Ohooo I’m sure if you have experienced real life you’ll know that it really can be you. Even tomorrow Read a post to you guys that sums up why you should never say “Can never be me” Enjoy

Hey guys I hope you’re doing well and enjoying December just like your host is. I can safely say the December spirit is upon me Last episode I spoke about how I wasn’t feeling December, Oh hunaaay we are so up now lol December is Decembering Secondly You know how people love to speak about someone when they haven’t even received an updated version of the person they’re speaking about ? Oh “Maria i...

T’is the season to be jolly 🎄 I don’t know if it’s just me or Christmas hasn’t really been the same lately. Maybe because I’m an adult now. Maybe because life isn’t as easy as it was when I was younger. Maybe because I’m not looking forward to Santa. Can’t exactly pin point what it is but I truly want the Christmas spark back. In this episode I’m discussing Christmas as an adult. We’re kinda resp...

We’re inching towards the end of 2025. It’s been a long year tbh and it’s easy to feel discouraged around this time of the year. Looking at your 2025 goals and realizing you haven’t achieved most of them. That’s okay. As long you still have breath in your lungs. You can always try again but don’t forget to remain grateful. Even for the little things. Second part is advise to my Corporate people. A...

First things first in the beginning of this episode I said we’re six months into the new month. Forgive me , it’s the fatigue. It’s supposed to be 6 days into the new month Secondly Have you ever experienced the worst side of somebody and then you go ahead and witness them display the best side of themselves to somebody else? That is a thing. Especially With relationships but even with friends and...

In my 20s, money has been one of my biggest teachers. I’ve learned when to save, when to spend, and when to live a little. In this episode, I open up about how I’ve handled my finances so far, the lessons, the slip-ups, and the little wins that keep me going. Saving money hasn’t always come easy for me, but I’ve learned a few things along the way. I’ve managed to grow my savings, cutdown on the ex...

In this episode I briefly touch on my health ( currently going through it, pray for me) Also the main topic is loneliness leading you back to people that God has removed from your life. This is a very common thing and I think we don’t discuss this enough. It’s okay to miss someone who was once a part of your life. However missing them doesn’t mean you go back. When God removes somebody from your l...

In this episode I discuss how opening up to my mom led to us healing our somewhat fractured relationship. I had a conversation with my mum about her parenting We were both vulnerable and there was a lot of honesty and comprehension She opened up about her parenting and explained that she came from a place of love. This conversation was everything I never knew needed. The convo also reminded me tha...

At some point, we all feel that pull, the desire to step out of our parents’ house and into a space we can finally call our own. In this episode, I reflect on the beauty of independence and the challenges that come with it. There’s a certain kind of magic in creating your own space and building your life from the ground up. There are so many important things I’ve learned from moving out (especiall...

Gods strongest soldier ? I’m sure you have been on that list at some point. Maybe even consecutively. Sucks I know but it strengthens you. If you’re similar to me and have topped that list quiet a number of times you’ll attest to the fact that you can actually develop PTSD. It’s difficult to re wire your brain to enjoy the good things after constantly going through innumerable hurdles. In this epi...

Isolation if you’re like me is important, especially if you use that time to seek God and hear what he’s been/ is trying to tell you.. The last two weeks have involved some isolation and I’ll explain what God has revealed to me. I won’t get into the intricacies of this episode. More than anything I just want you to listen Love and light Maria Also somewhere between 4:50_04:57 Please Forgive my err...

Eat healthy, exercise and drink lots of water. Being in good health is one of the biggest blessings. It’s not until you fall ill and realize how much of a blessing good health is. This episode is includes a few habits I’ve adopted that have been really helpful to me health wise. Enjoy listening Love and Light Maria

In this episode, we take a hard look at the infamous black tax; the unspoken obligation that often keeps many in our communities from truly moving forward, the cultural expectation that can quietly drain our resources and stall our dreams. While the dream is to build generational wealth and create opportunities for the next generation, the constant financial pull backwards can derail even the best...

Hey everyone, just dropping in with a quick life update! In this episode I’m speaking about how I prayed back in 2022 for my job and now, in 2025, I actually have the job. I also share what it felt like getting exactly what you prayed for and how social media can sometimes make things look way glossier than they really are-because no one sees the struggle behind the scenes. Also the waiting season...

Grooving in your late 20s is a full time job. You wake up fighting for your dear life. Also moving in with a friend? Yay or nay ? For be big nay, I’ll briefly explain why in this episode Happy listening Love and light

Hey Everyone I’m back like I never left. Today I’m diving a little deeper into my waiting season. Not the easiest season but I’m trusting God. If you’re waiting on God for something, please keep the faith. Isaiah 60:22 Also everyone’s getting married.. We’ve really reached that age. Scary, but aging is a beautiful thing. Marriage is a gift from God and it’s a forever thing. Pick your life partners...