Healed and Holy

What does it really mean to love like Jesus in marriage? The Bible gives us a blueprint — and when we follow it, our spouses should be able to testify that they feel loved like Christ commands. Not just in words, but in action. 📖 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 reminds us love is patient, kind, not self-seeking, not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs. 📖 Galatians 5:22–23 shows us the fruit of th...

Forgiveness isn’t easy… but it’s powerful. In Acts 7:56–60, as Stephen was being stoned to death, he prayed, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” Even in his final moments, he chose forgiveness. And then Scripture says he fell asleep — he had peace while dying, because he trusted God completely. Imagine how much more peace we could have while living if we gave our anger, offense, and frustra...

This episode is a love letter— To my husband. To God. And to anyone believing that marriage can be beautiful when it’s built with Him at the center. 💛 Over the years, I’ve watched my husband grow into the man I prayed for—and I’ve grown right alongside him. His patience, his thoughtfulness, the way he sees me… it’s not just romantic—it’s holy. ✨ But here's the truth: This kind of love doesn’...

In this episode I'm diving into my top FIVE marriage hacks. It's everything you need to shift NOW in order to get one step closer to being the man/woman GOD is calling you to be in your marriage so that he gets the glory. We're going to have fun on this journey to building a dream life and dream marriage. Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyP...

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we're continuing the conversation about TRIGGERS, how to move through so that you don't give the enemy a foothold to create contempt in your marriage. Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠ This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠ , jewelry curated to...

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we're diving into what it means to feel TRIGGERED and how to work through in a healthy way. The enemy wants to kill your joy, steal your peace, and destroy your marriage with triggers-- but we can't let him win! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠ This episode of Healed and holy i...

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we’re continuing our an in depth character analysis of one of my favorite TV show characters, RIP Wheeler. While the show doesn't ever discuss the topic of religion, RIP Wheeler is a character from which we can all learn from on how to show up and be an example of God's LOVE in action for our spouse. The Scriptures for this episode : Philip...

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode I'm diving into an in depth character analysis for one of my favorite TV show characters, RIP Wheeler. While the show doesn't ever discuss the topic of religion, RIP Wheeler is a character from which we can all learn from on how to show up and be an example of God's LOVE in action for our spouse. The Scriptures for this episode : Ephesians...

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this first episode I'm diving into why the name change and what you can expect moving forward. We're going to have fun on this journey to building a dream life and dream marriage. Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram @HealedandHolyPodcast This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by Hazel Jane Collection , jewelry curate...

Marrying a Divorcée : Practical tips (and insight) for the never been married tying the knot with a divorced significant other.

Listen, marriage has its tough moments! Often times we we want to start by pointing the finger at our partner but today I’m challenging you to do something different! This episode is for sure going to be a game changer for how you show up in your marriage + how you can truly work together to build the marriage of both your dreams.

In this episode we discuss how to actually get in alignment with your spouse on the journey to co-creating the marriage of your dreams. Scripture: “Do everything without complaining and arguing,” Philippians 2:14 NLT “Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose.” Philippians 2:2 NLT

In this episode we talk about understanding the POWER in submission and how to win at marriage every single day. Scriptures referenced: In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over” 1 Peter 3:1 NLT https://bible.com/bible/116/1pe.3.1.NLT “And furth...

If you haven’t watch the #RedTableTalk episode featuring Ayesha Curry you should check that out first. These are my very non-judgmental thoughts and response to everyone with a mouthful to say in response to this young woman’s need for validation. She never once says she wants it from others or anyone in particular. For all we know she simply needs it from herself. But what we won’t do here is jud...

Welcome back to another season of Wife Talks! I’m so excited for what God is going to do this season and how he’s going to grow us to become even more amazing wives! This season is already planned out and you can expect so much more from me! I’m taking listener questions! If you have questions or something you want to chat about just shoot me a DM or leave me a question @WifeSupport on Instagram!...

Too often as life passes us by we forget to share with our partners what’s really going on. Stop hiding in your marriage so that you can stay connected and in love! This episodes opens with an activity and provides tips on how to build more vulnerability into your marriage without even trying!

Marriage goes through many seasons and not all of them are sunshine and rainbows. This week I'm taking you deeper behind the scenes of my own journey through a rough season in marriage and giving you 5 ways to bounce back from your rough patch. Winter doesn't last forever (unless you're in Wisconsin) haha! References: The 4 Seasons of Marriage x Gary Chapman

In this episode I'm spilling the beans. This week you'll learn the 5 things I realized were hurting my marriage tremendously and how God corrected me with a quickness! Your spouse cannot be your EVERYTHING-- that's what Jesus is for (John 10:10) which is the scripture I totally bombed midway through! Thank you for taking the time to laugh, learn, and GROW with me this week on Wife Talks.

The words you speak over your husband to his face and behind his back affect the man he becomes in your marriage. Learn how to use the power God gave you to bless your husband AND watch him become the man of your dreams!

Honor is huge part of marriage that goes unaddressed. Respect, Regard, Communication, Intimacy, & Love are all areas of your marriage that are affected when you do not honor your God, honor your mate, and your position. In this episode we're going to dive deep into what it means to express HONOR in your marriage.

Single women spend their time praying for a good man, get married, then start prayimg for a new man! Girl get it together! He can be the husband of your dreams but are you even ready for what you're asking God for? Find out in this episode!

Your husband says you're nagging him. You're just trying to get the trash taken out. But is your persistance hurting your marriage? Let's talk about it. Proverbs 15:1

The first episode of the "Shut Up Series" is all about transforming your perspective on how you respond in the heat of a moment. Respond in love and without a single word. How you ask? Don't worry sis, i got you! Today we’re reading 1 Peter 3: 1-5

It’s the welcome episode to your new favorite marriage podcast! Get to know Shayla and find out why you’ll love this show!