Matthew Bivens

Having It A.L.L.

Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share...

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Author

Matthew Bivens

Category

Education

Podcast website

www.matthewbivens.com

Latest episode

Nov 18, 2025

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Episodes

How To Connect With Your Inner Beauty - Practical Self Love Tips To Transform Your Life With Michelle Khouri 06.09.2017

In today's episode I have an awesome conversation with Michelle Khouri about connecting with your inner beauty, seeing the beauty in others, practical self love tips, and all around how to level up your life.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Unspoken Truth About Seeking An Abundant Life 30.08.2017

In this episode I'm shining light on something that frequently happens when we seek an abundant life. It's not always talked about, and often is judged. However it's completely natural and common and happens to pretty much everyone who is seeking to experience more abundance in their life. I'm talking about abundanc-itis.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Embracing Life’s F**k it Moments - Why Taking A Leap Of Faith Changes Everything 23.08.2017

Today I wanted to talk about those moments that come across our path in life where you just have to say "f**k it!" and take a leap of faith (sometimes, literally). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Law Of Attraction - A Down To Earth Approach To Positive Thinking 19.08.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing my thoughts on The Law Of Attraction. I talk about why it's controversial, share my thoughts on it, and give you some practical advice on how to put The Law Of Attraction to use in your life.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Often Overlooked Step Of Goal Setting & Making Sure You Can Actually Chew What You Bite Off 16.08.2017

In today's episode I'm recalling some significant, and almost missed lessons from a recent client call. What I share is applicable to everyone, whether you're working in a corporate setting, a stay-at-home parent (holla!), or grinding away in school. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What You Need Versus What You Want - How To Feel Okay When Life Hands You The Unexpected 02.08.2017

In today's episode I'm referencing the well known saying that you are given "what you need, not what you want". I explore this belief and share a story of a recent encounter when this belief was shared with me first hand. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Stay Focused In Life To Achieve Results 27.07.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing tips on how to focus your life to achieve results. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Asking For Help Is Hard - A Simple Way To Practice Asking For And Receiving Help 21.07.2017

  In this episode I'm sharing with you a few common examples of when the universe places people or things in our path that are there to help us, and yet we refuse the help. For me, asking for help has been a challenge since I was young. I don't really know when I started to feel like I needed to take care of things on my own, but that belief follows me to this day. I'll say "no" to an offer of ass...

How To Be More Consistent When Building Healthy Habits 13.07.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing an example of consistency that I experience in my life every week. His name is Robert Monroe and he has been on this podcast before. In the episode titled "“You Have To Move Your Feet”: A Story About Seeing the Beauty in All of Life’s Circumstances", Robert shares his inspiring story and message about moving through life's circumstances. This past week I received a l...

What I Liked About Tim Ferriss's Latest TED Talk On Fear 21.06.2017

In today's episode I'm breaking down Tim Ferriss's most recent TED talk titled "Why you should define your fears instead of your goals". In this TED talk, Tim shares a simple exercise he calls "Fear Setting" which helps him break out of the paralyzing grips of fear, and focus on what he can control in situations.  In the episode I share a personal example of using this Fear Setting Exercise to wei...

Unraveling The Be-Do-Have Paradigm 14.06.2017

In this episode I'm breaking down the Be-Do-Have paradigm from the book Beyond Body Beyond Mind by Dr. Sukhi Muker.  Two friends introduced me to this book, and I'm extremely grateful they did, because in it Dr. Muker helps me finally grasp my mind around a concept that has been eluding me for some time -- what it means to BE something. You've probably heard someone say something along the lines o...

The Most Powerful Way To Practice Self Love 12.06.2017

In today's episode I'm talking about self love, but not in the way you're probably used to. Self love conversations are ubiquitous these days. Everyone's talking about. But beyond "positive self affirmations" and "choosing healthy foods" do we really know what self love means? Do we understand what the essence of self love is and how certain activities that we do, many times without thinking, are...

The Secret Behind Delayed Gratification And Success 31.05.2017

In this episode I'm exploring Delayed Gratification, and how it's linked to success. I discuss the famous Stanford Marshmallow Study, describe my relationship with delayed gratification in key areas of my life (relationships, business, gardening), and reveal why I think we have been looking at delayed gratification in the wrong way.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Getting More Out Of Life By Working Smarter, Not Harder 24.05.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing with you my tried and tested process for being more productive and feeling more fulfilled, by working smarter and not harder. I have been somewhat obsessed with productivity and work efficiency ever since graduating college. Once I jumped into the working world and realized that I could easily eat up 12 hours of my day on menial tasks and still not feel like I had re...

Learning How to Choose Happiness and Create The Life You Want with Heather Gray (rebroadcast) 21.05.2017

Today's episode is a rebroadcast of an amazing conversation I had with Heather Gray. The original podcast episode is titled "Learning How to Choose Happiness and Create The Life You Want". There’s a fundamental belief that separates the people who feel like they have it all from the people who don’t, and that’s the belief that you have the power to CHOOSE. It’s all about CHOICE. That’s the differe...

How I'm Moving From Grief To Gratitude 11.05.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing a very personal recent experience of having to say goodbye to our family dog, and how I have been able to shift my feelings and emotions from those of grief to gratitude. I missed publishing an episode last week. It's only the second or third time that's happened in the 12+ months of this show. I felt bad knowing that you all were waiting for a new episode, however I...

Envying Others' Successes 28.04.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing something that I am working on doing less of in my life, and that's envying others successes. It's been something that happens almost automatically at times. I might see someone who has more money than I do, a [seemingly] more in tact family than I do, has achieved more business success than I have, and the gut reaction I have is slight envy. I want what they have. ...

The 5 W's Of Radical Self Awareness 21.04.2017

In this episode I'm giving you the 5 W's of radical self awareness. Each of the 5 W's will give you questions to ponder about your life: the people you surround yourself with, the environments you place yourself in, the path that you're currently on, the destination you want to make it to, the catalysts that will inspire you to leave your safety net.  Now, the credit for this episode has to be giv...

A New Way To Think About Life Balance 14.04.2017

In today's episode I'm introducing a simple and new way to think about life balance. It's called "The Body Vehicle" and in the episode I'm breaking down exactly what the Body Vehicle is, what it reveals about life balance, and how you can apply it to your own life. This concept of The Body Vehicle is not of my own creation. I learned it through the YourDay Balance Game (a health and fitness game g...

The 8 Habits Of A Humble Badass 04.04.2017

On this episode I'm joined by my wife Sarah as she breaks down the 8 habits of a Humble Badass. What is a Humble Badass you ask? Well you'll have to tune in to find out! The premise of this show is looking at how we can create more ABUNDANCE and LOVE in our LIVES so that we can have the experience of life we truly desire. Sarah's message aligns perfectly with that because her approach to wellness...

A Story of Healing: Using Curiosity and Courage to Find Yourself with Monique Ruffin (Rebroadcast) 30.03.2017

Today's episode is a rebroadcast of an episode from the first few weeks of the podcast. In it, I'm having an amazing conversation with Monique Ruffin. Monique Ruffin is a celebration of living. She is one of those people that folks say has “A beautiful soul”. And I completely understand why. Monique grew up in the neighborhood of Watts in Los Angeles. Yes, that Watts. It's where Sanford And Sons w...

The Real Benefit Of Intermittent Fasting 23.03.2017

In this episode I’m talking about my experience with intermittent fasting - a pattern of eating and fasting that has become popular in the health and fitness community lately. I have been doing intermittent fasting for the past 4 years, yet my reasons for it are probably much different than most. Intermittent fasting most recently came into public awareness by Terry Crews - the actor and former fo...

The 3 Mindsets That Have Transformed My Confidence, Relationships and Wealth 15.03.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing with you three mindsets that have been the biggest catalysts for my personal transformation over the past 4 years. From my self confidence, to the quality of my relationships, to my ability to attract money and create wealth, these 3 things have been the spark for them all.  This episode was inspired by a question I was asked last week, "What would you attribute to t...

How To Stop Making Fear Based Decision 07.03.2017

In today's episode I'm sharing with you some steps to help you to stop making fear based decisions in your life, especially around major life decisions, and to start deciding from a place of love. I think we all know what it's like to be at a crossroads, and to choose the path of fear. I've done it countless times in my past and each time it left me feeling regretful, shameful, guilty or another o...

The Secret Consequences of Being Authentic and Transparent with Paul Colaianni (Rebroadcast) 02.03.2017

This episode is a rebroadcast of a powerful conversation I had with Paul Colaianni -- host of The Overwhelmed Brain Podcast and author of "The Overwhelmed Brain: Personal Growth For Critical Thinkers". Paul Colaianni has not always led an authentic life. Experiences as a child taught him that authenticity and self expression were detrimental to his health and the health of those around him, so he...

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