Matthew Bivens
Having It A.L.L.
Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share...
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Nov 18, 2025
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Episodes
A Simple Method For Feeling More Courageous In The Face Of Anxiety 30.10.2017 20:38
In this episode I'm sharing a very simple and effective practice for not only building your courage in the face of anxiety and current challenges, but building your overall sense of belief in yourself that you can overcome any challenge or obstacle that you're presented with. This episode was inspired by The O Project - a powerful photography project that aims to "[break] down the barriers of fema...
7 Must Haves For Stellar Relationships (They Are Not What You Might Think) 25.10.2017 29:40
In today’s episode I’m sharing with you 7 must haves for healthy, sexy, thriving relationships. This list is not what you may be expecting. I’m not listing off things like “Be an effective communicator”, or “Spend more time looking into each other’s eyes”. Nope, I’m giving you ingredients that get to the core of who YOU are, so that you are as powerful as you can be before you enter into a new rel...
Unleashing Your Personal Potential and Achieving Greatness with Chris Perez - Part 1 18.10.2017 18:23
In today's episode I share with you a fantastic conversation I had with an incredibly inspiring man, Chris Perez. Chris is all about empowering leaders to "Unleash Personal Potential" through emotional, physical, and spiritual balance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Getting More Out Of Life By Working Smarter, Not Harder (Rebroadcast) 09.10.2017 46:14
In today's episode I'm sharing with you my tried and tested process for being more productive and feeling more fulfilled, by working smarter and not harder. I have been somewhat obsessed with productivity and work efficiency ever since graduating college. Once I jumped into the working world and realized that I could easily eat up 12 hours of my day on menial tasks and still not feel like I had re...
Health, Success, Relationships & Fear: My Greatest Lessons From 100 Episodes of Having It A.L.L. 27.09.2017 47:26
In today's episode I celebrate reaching the 100 episode milestone and share the four greatest lessons I've learned throughout the run of the show. The 4 areas which spoke to me on this episode were health, success, relationships and fear. Each of these topics represents an area of profound transformation for me, an area where I've experienced breakdowns and breakthroughs. Learn more about your ad...
How To Know When You’re On The Right Path - Seeing The Signs When You Are Out Of Alignment 22.09.2017 24:19
Today's episode I predict will be a powerful one for many. I'm talking about how to know when you're on the right path in life, and how to see the signs when you are out of alignment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
A Pragmatists View On Affirmations - How To Get Positive Self Talk To Work For You 13.09.2017 25:32
In this episode I'm talking about affirmations and positive self talk, and giving you my perspective as a self-diagnosed pragmatist. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Star Wars, Hypnobabies and Kiddie Pools: Our Home Birth Story (Rebroadcast from Doing It At Home Podcast) 11.09.2017 23:22
Today I have a special BONUS episode for you. 1 year ago today, on September 11, 2016, my daughter Maya was born. Sarah and I welcomed here into the world in a planned home birth. We shared the entire birth experience on our podcast Doing It At Home, and today I thought it would be fun to share that conversation with you all. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How To Connect With Your Inner Beauty - Practical Self Love Tips To Transform Your Life With Michelle Khouri 06.09.2017 52:50
In today's episode I have an awesome conversation with Michelle Khouri about connecting with your inner beauty, seeing the beauty in others, practical self love tips, and all around how to level up your life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Unspoken Truth About Seeking An Abundant Life 30.08.2017 21:54
In this episode I'm shining light on something that frequently happens when we seek an abundant life. It's not always talked about, and often is judged. However it's completely natural and common and happens to pretty much everyone who is seeking to experience more abundance in their life. I'm talking about abundanc-itis. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Embracing Life’s F**k it Moments - Why Taking A Leap Of Faith Changes Everything 23.08.2017 16:16
Today I wanted to talk about those moments that come across our path in life where you just have to say "f**k it!" and take a leap of faith (sometimes, literally). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Law Of Attraction - A Down To Earth Approach To Positive Thinking 19.08.2017 20:53
In today's episode I'm sharing my thoughts on The Law Of Attraction. I talk about why it's controversial, share my thoughts on it, and give you some practical advice on how to put The Law Of Attraction to use in your life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Often Overlooked Step Of Goal Setting & Making Sure You Can Actually Chew What You Bite Off 16.08.2017 27:47
In today's episode I'm recalling some significant, and almost missed lessons from a recent client call. What I share is applicable to everyone, whether you're working in a corporate setting, a stay-at-home parent (holla!), or grinding away in school. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What You Need Versus What You Want - How To Feel Okay When Life Hands You The Unexpected 02.08.2017 27:35
In today's episode I'm referencing the well known saying that you are given "what you need, not what you want". I explore this belief and share a story of a recent encounter when this belief was shared with me first hand. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How To Stay Focused In Life To Achieve Results 27.07.2017 15:05
In today's episode I'm sharing tips on how to focus your life to achieve results. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When Asking For Help Is Hard - A Simple Way To Practice Asking For And Receiving Help 21.07.2017 15:03
In this episode I'm sharing with you a few common examples of when the universe places people or things in our path that are there to help us, and yet we refuse the help. For me, asking for help has been a challenge since I was young. I don't really know when I started to feel like I needed to take care of things on my own, but that belief follows me to this day. I'll say "no" to an offer of ass...
How To Be More Consistent When Building Healthy Habits 13.07.2017 12:02
In today's episode I'm sharing an example of consistency that I experience in my life every week. His name is Robert Monroe and he has been on this podcast before. In the episode titled "“You Have To Move Your Feet”: A Story About Seeing the Beauty in All of Life’s Circumstances", Robert shares his inspiring story and message about moving through life's circumstances. This past week I received a l...
What I Liked About Tim Ferriss's Latest TED Talk On Fear 21.06.2017 29:08
In today's episode I'm breaking down Tim Ferriss's most recent TED talk titled "Why you should define your fears instead of your goals". In this TED talk, Tim shares a simple exercise he calls "Fear Setting" which helps him break out of the paralyzing grips of fear, and focus on what he can control in situations. In the episode I share a personal example of using this Fear Setting Exercise to wei...
Unraveling The Be-Do-Have Paradigm 14.06.2017 26:32
In this episode I'm breaking down the Be-Do-Have paradigm from the book Beyond Body Beyond Mind by Dr. Sukhi Muker. Two friends introduced me to this book, and I'm extremely grateful they did, because in it Dr. Muker helps me finally grasp my mind around a concept that has been eluding me for some time -- what it means to BE something. You've probably heard someone say something along the lines o...
The Most Powerful Way To Practice Self Love 12.06.2017 12:39
In today's episode I'm talking about self love, but not in the way you're probably used to. Self love conversations are ubiquitous these days. Everyone's talking about. But beyond "positive self affirmations" and "choosing healthy foods" do we really know what self love means? Do we understand what the essence of self love is and how certain activities that we do, many times without thinking, are...
The Secret Behind Delayed Gratification And Success 31.05.2017 28:26
In this episode I'm exploring Delayed Gratification, and how it's linked to success. I discuss the famous Stanford Marshmallow Study, describe my relationship with delayed gratification in key areas of my life (relationships, business, gardening), and reveal why I think we have been looking at delayed gratification in the wrong way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Getting More Out Of Life By Working Smarter, Not Harder 24.05.2017 44:51
In today's episode I'm sharing with you my tried and tested process for being more productive and feeling more fulfilled, by working smarter and not harder. I have been somewhat obsessed with productivity and work efficiency ever since graduating college. Once I jumped into the working world and realized that I could easily eat up 12 hours of my day on menial tasks and still not feel like I had re...
Learning How to Choose Happiness and Create The Life You Want with Heather Gray (rebroadcast) 21.05.2017 1:03:34
Today's episode is a rebroadcast of an amazing conversation I had with Heather Gray. The original podcast episode is titled "Learning How to Choose Happiness and Create The Life You Want". There’s a fundamental belief that separates the people who feel like they have it all from the people who don’t, and that’s the belief that you have the power to CHOOSE. It’s all about CHOICE. That’s the differe...
How I'm Moving From Grief To Gratitude 11.05.2017 20:45
In today's episode I'm sharing a very personal recent experience of having to say goodbye to our family dog, and how I have been able to shift my feelings and emotions from those of grief to gratitude. I missed publishing an episode last week. It's only the second or third time that's happened in the 12+ months of this show. I felt bad knowing that you all were waiting for a new episode, however I...
Envying Others' Successes 28.04.2017 11:32
In today's episode I'm sharing something that I am working on doing less of in my life, and that's envying others successes. It's been something that happens almost automatically at times. I might see someone who has more money than I do, a [seemingly] more in tact family than I do, has achieved more business success than I have, and the gut reaction I have is slight envy. I want what they have. ...
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