Happiness Podcast

Aging Gracefully (and Happily) Can we increase the odds that our lives will turn out in the later years with more peace, happiness, and tranquility? If we do four things, our ability to end our lives with more pleasure will significantly increase. Discover these four activities. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happines...

When Life Feels Overwhelming Sometimes life can be overwhelming, with no end in sight for release from the situation.   But even in these most challenging situations, we have choices that we can make to improve our situation.  Even if we just create little reprieves from the problem, our lives will be better. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen...

Why "More" Ultimately Never Works Wanting and getting ultimately never works. To fight off this insatiable urge, we can do five things. Don't compare ourselves to others. Don't compare ourselves to our previous selves. Do something for the joy of them. Be careful of hedonic adaptation. Live life with gratitude. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Liste...

Memento Mori (Remember That You Must Die) Death is the one thing that we all, ultimately, have to face.  But what if instead of being something dreaded, we looked at death as our teacher of how to be thankful for every day we live?  Memento Mori, which means "remember that you must die," can teach us many things about living. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psycho...

Life Diversity Leads to a Happier Life (New Research Study) Research has recently discovered a correlation between our happiness and the amount of diversity we create in our lives.  When we enhance our mental and physical routines, our happiness state increases.  Additionally, these diverse activities affect our brain (the hippocampus and the striatum), supporting diversification's positive result...

Putting Your Happiness First (Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs) Dr. Abraham Maslow postulated the "Hierarchy of Needs."  They include physiological needs, security and safety needs, social needs, esteem needs, and self-actualized needs.  In this talk, we explore the benefits of making self-actualized needs our primary focus and see how this positively influences our lower needs. New Happiness Podcast e...

It's All About Kindness There are many ways we achieve success in life, but the one form of achievement that has the most significant impact on our happiness is being kind.  Kindness is the crucial ingredient for a "good life," not only for others but for our well-being too. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Po...

Happiness Achieving Goals When people achieve goals, some prevalent traits are involved in these accomplishments.  Yet these accomplishments may have no or even a negative impact on our happiness. However, the methods to achieve challenging goals are the same for happiness.  The difference is that the results are always positive and beautiful. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Ne...

The Present Moment (Accept It As If You Had Asked For It) It is one thing to work on accepting what is. What if we took this one step further, and whatever the present moment contains, we accepted it as if we had asked for it?   Can you imagine the freedom from stress and worry that we would feel? This approach may be something we all can do. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, New...

Happiness is an Inside Job (A candle doesn't lighten the noon sun) When we look externally for happiness, we must ride the rollercoaster of life.  But when we realize that happiness is found within, we will flow with the vicissitudes of life with equanimity and peace.  Our happiness will be like the sun, always shining, regardless of the circumstances of life. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr...

Most Important Qualities In A Partner (and friendship) As we navigate our journey through life, we pair up with partners and friends who can either add to or subtract from our happiness.   The key ingredients you seek in others should reflect those attributes in yourself.  In other words, you will attract to your life based on how you choose to live your life.  So if you want to be in a fantastic...

Why Am I So Unhappy With My Life (Programmed to be Unhappy) Countless people struggle with debilitating depression.   What is the cause of this pervasive sadness, and is there a potential remedy for this malady?  If we understand the cause of our suffering, then a possible cure is accessible to all of us. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to a...

Being Happy Is An Inside Job Wherever you go, you take yourself with you.  Happiness and sadness follow you, and happiness is an inside job.  We work hard to change or control our external situations to find our happiness, where real happiness is within us. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podcast NOW! https:/...

 Is Happiness Contagious (New Research Says Yes) What if our happiness influences the people around us?  Could you imagine the positive changes we could have on others?  A recent study suggested that not only does our jollity help others feel happiness, but this happiness also spreads to others.  Explore the power of our joyful state. Harvard Medical School. (2008, December 5). Happiness Is 'Infec...

Self-Inflicted Suffering (The Power of Our Thoughts) We can suffer in so many different ways in life.  Sometimes we lose people we love; other times, we face health crises; and sometimes, we get fired from a job we love.  But we can also alleviate our struggles by understanding how our expectations feed our sufferings.   Self-awareness and kindness towards ourselves go a long way in improving our...

Happy Thoughts Happy Life The power of our thoughts regarding our level of happiness or despair is genuinely priceless. Our happiness directly correlates to our beliefs shaping our interpretation of life events. What if we developed more positive reviews? Might our lives become happier? Explore the possibilities in the new Happiness Podcast. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newp...

How to Make Your Life Better and Happier (New Research Study Show What Works) Do our lifestyle choices have any impact on our levels of happiness?  A research study out of the University of Kent and the University of Reading found that exercise and eating fruits and vegetables can positively impact our experience of happiness.  When we make healthy lifestyle choices, our levels of happiness can im...

Unkind Behavior (An Effective Response) One of the most overwhelming experiences we can go through is when another person lashes out at us unkindly.  We are often like deer facing the headlights; what should we say or do?  In this episode, we explore an effective yet easy-to-do response to all unkindness from others. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧...

What Is Happiness (Peace vs. Ecstasy) What is happiness?   Is happiness, ecstasy, "an overwhelming feeling of great happiness or joyful excitement?"  Or is happiness, peace, "freedom from disturbance; tranquility?"  Understanding what happiness is, is the most effective way to help happiness appear in our lives more often. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psycholog...

Planned Spontaneity (Finding Our Happiness Flow) One of the most significant challenges in life is finding a balance between planning for the future and living in the moment.  Yet, when we can do both, then our lives flow.  In this podcast, we explore how to live with planned spontaneity.  New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of t...

Doing Your Best (Creating a Happy Life) There are a lot of benefits to doing your best at something—success, accolades, money, promotions, etc. Unfortunately, the results aren't always what we expect or want because so many things are out of our control. But what would happen if we did our best to be happy people?   Regarding our happiness, we are more powerful and reap the benefits of our efforts...

Financial Happiness (What is Really Important) Worries about financial issues can cause us sleepless nights, no matter how much money we have or make.  Yet, this doesn't have to be the case.  We can find financial freedom from worries when we better understand money's true importance (or lack of importance) regarding our happiness. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach...

When Less Is More (Less Ego, More Happiness) We often miss out on so much of life because we tend to listen to what our culture says we should do and be instead of listening to our hearts.  Learn the importance of adopting a more spontaneous, childlike approach to living. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 🎧 Listen to all Episodes of the Happiness Podca...

When Others Hurt You One of the most challenging experiences that can happen to us is when someone we love and trust hurts us.  What can and should we do when others inflict emotional pain on us?  Instead of healing from these wounds, we often turn towards four unhealthy responses.  But we can, thankfully, heal from these hurts and move on. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newpo...

How Do I Know Who I Am We take on so many labels during our lifetime.  And sometimes, they completely change.  I am a rich person; I am a depressed person; I am a wife and mother.  But what would happen if we stopped identifying with any label and just flowed with life?  Might we find that freedom and happiness, which are always there, come rushing back in?  New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr....