Happily Even After Betrayal with Life Coach Jen

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I discuss money and why it is so important to have discussions about it.  We share some of our mistakes as well as our successes. Money can be complicated but it doesn’t have to be.   What is your money story? Communication around money is so important and it is a skill worth working on to have a healthier relationship with your spouse and family.  We hope you love liste...

Send us Fan Mail This episode Kevin and I discuss how friendship has been a difficult path for us.  I share several experiences that lasted for years and how I was able to change my mind and realize I had lots and lots of friends.  I was able to have a mind shift and instead of looking outside of myself for friendship I turned inward to discover how to be a 21great friend.  We give some tips and t...

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I have known Molly and Vic long before they had children and before they were even married.  Thirteen years ago they experienced every parents worst nightmare. Their 2 year old daughter Lucy choked on an apple in the church parking lot- to hear more of their story  https://www.mollybicejackson.com/   I still remember where I was standing the moment we received the phone...

Send us Fan Mail This week we are answering some questions sent in from listeners about how to handle your In-Laws. Kevin and I have never lived in the same state as our parents but they have come and visited a lot over the years as well as we have had my two brothers live with us several times over the years.  So we definitely have a lot of experience with this subject matter.  We discuss creatin...

Send us Fan Mail Happy Valentines Day! February is one of my favorite months. I love, love and hearts and romance- so I especially love Valentines day. It is my birthday month so I love to celebrate getting older, NOT. Sometimes it is Chinese New Year and I love to celebrate that too. It is a great month. Kevin and I are talking about how to keep romance alive in your marriage.  We are super passi...

Send us Fan Mail This week Kevin and I share our experience we had with our family over Christmas and New Years.  We spent 2 weeks with Family Humanitarian Experience in Uganda and Kenya.  It was an amazing experience that we wanted to share with our listeners. We hope you enjoy it.  We hope you love listening to this podcast as much as we enjoy creating it- as always follow us @relationship411pod...

Send us Fan Mail This week we continue our sex talk and move over to the women.  Amanda is very candid and shares a few personal stories as well as books that can help you create a better sex life. Amanda Louder is a certified Life Coach (like me) who helps women from a conservative Christian background love their sex life!  She helps women embrace their sexuality to help them strengthen their rel...

Send us Fan Mail This week Kevin and I had our first guest on our podcast. We had a great conversation about sex. Amanda shared her expertise with us and she answered all our questions.  Amanda Louder is a certified Life Coach (like me) who helps women from a conservative Christian background love their sex life!  She helps women embrace their sexuality to help them strengthen their relationship w...

Send us Fan Mail Today, Kevin and I discuss what a dream killer is and how to become a dream fulfiller.  What are you? Kevin and I share some personal experiences with how we have been both in our marriage with each other and our children.  Good news, it is possible to change. Start today, listening to your partner's or children's dreams and be curious about them instead of shooting them...

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I share a very personal story about the time we almost got divorced.  Kevin had moved out- I filed for divorce- at first I was out for "EVERYTHING" then I had a change of heart and decided to get divorced and at the same time try to save our marriage.  Miraculously it worked!  For that I will be forever grateful.  I learned it was possible to get divorced from...

Send us Fan Mail It's 2022 and what a better time to discuss goals than today. I share how to uncover your goals by doing some writing exercises and ways to implement them in your life. We discuss how we make a vision board every year and keep them in our closets.  We share times we have been good at goals and other times when we haven't. What are your goals for 2022?  We would love to h...

Send us Fan Mail -This episode was another topic one of our listeners asked us about.  We hopefully gave some helpful questions to ask someone you are dating.  Kevin and I have learned a lot of what not to do in marriage but I believe all of our mistakes have made us who we are today and we have created a partnership that is truly connected, alive and stronger than ever. Communication is key so as...

Send us Fan Mail This week we discussed the topic of comparison.  This was a topic one of our listeners asked us to discuss. We realize comparison is an issue with the social media so popular however every generation and human has compared themselves to someone or something. It is human nature however will not bring you happiness.  The idea is to start paying attention when you start comparing you...

Send us Fan Mail Today Kevin and discuss the difference between having an abundant mindset and a scarcity mindset. We share stories to illustrate and challenge each of our listeners to find ways they can live more abundantly.   In honor of living abundantly and keeping with the spirit of giving- Kevin and I are giving, 1 person, 2 tickets to the Rose Bowl- January 1,2022- where the University of U...

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I talked about how we have rebuilt trust in our marriage. We share ways couples break trust in their marriage and ways to regain the trust.  We want to give couples hope that it is possible to feel and have trust again even after infidelity or other serious betrayals. We also discuss building trust with your children.  Trust comes from your thoughts and is a feeling howe...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Kevin asks me some questions about becoming a life coach and what that is.  I was certified earlier this year through The Life Coach School and I plan on focusing on helping women in their marriage as a "Relationship and Infidelity Coach".  A life coach in my opinion can be life changing.  I have totally transformed my thinking by using the model I learne...

Send us Fan Mail This week Kevin and I discuss what a limiting belief is and how it prevents us from many things in our lives.  We discuss some limiting beliefs that Jennifer has or had in her life (Kevin somehow couldn't think of any he had) How working through them has enriched her life and made it better. We all have beliefs we think are true but when we peel back a few layers we realize t...

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I discuss some do's and don'ts of parenting, when your children become adults and start making their own decisions.  It can be difficult but also such an amazing feeling to connect with your children in a new way.  We give experiences we have had - we have 2 daughters who have moved out of the house and are learning to ADULT.  Kevin somehow uses one of his favo...

Send us Fan Mail In this week's podcast Kevin and I discuss a concept that I learned from Brooke Castillo from the Life Coach School.  It is called the "Want Match" What this means is sometimes in our relationships we want one person to meet all of our wants and needs, however if we realize this is not realistic or healthy we would be able to find better "matches" to meet...

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I discuss the emotion of shame.  We give the definition and explain the difference between shame and guilt. Shame is a toxic emotion that everyone experiences in life.  It makes people so uncomfortable that they try to blame others for their actions. We quote Brene Brown a lot.  She is a shame researcher and expert on this topic. www.brenebrown.com . We share experiences...

Send us Fan Mail This week we discuss the do’s and don'ts of fighting. Every couple is going to have disagreements in their relationships. We discuss healthy ways to disagree so it doesn’t damage your relationship. We even discuss creating a fight plan before you ever are having a fight.  Comments or thoughts can be emailed to lifecoachjen2.0@gmail.com Please follow me on instagram and facebo...

Send us Fan Mail Today, Kevin and I discuss the topic of people pleasing.  Most people at one time or another have said yes to something they didn't actually want to do. We discuss why this is destructive and learning to check in with yourself first is the best way. Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a fr...

Send us Fan Mail Kevin and I share stories and examples of teaching from fear as well as love.  Kevin shares a story about the wolf you feed will always dominate, a concept he heard from Dr. John Lund. Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 30 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for...

Send us Fan Mail Today Kevin and I share why so many of us struggle to be happy in the now and are instead feeling anxious about the future.  This causes many problems in people's lives and it creates the inability to truly be happy. Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 30 min. clarity call via zoom....

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Kevin and I discuss 4 ways to connect with your spouse.  They are physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual.  As we talk about each of the ways we share ideas and experiences in our own marriage to create and develop true connection.  We share a quote from Brene Brown that says, "The energy that exists between people when they fell seen, heard and valued...