Aaron

Guys Dealings with Feelings

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For men who say "I'm fine" when they're not. Guys Dealings With Feelings is a podcast about what men actually carry — anger, grief, shutdown, the things they don't say out loud. Aaron Gray, who lost his infant son Joel in 2012, hosts with his childhood friend Jason, a therapist with 18 years of clinical experience. One of them has lived it. The other knows the language. Together they talk about identity, trauma, presence, being a man, and what it takes to feel anything again — without judgment or performative toughness. Also searchable as Guys Dealing With Feelings.

Author

Aaron

Category

Education

Podcast website

i2uthrive.com

Latest episode

Jul 8, 2026

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Episodes

Identity: Who You Think You Are vs. Who You Actually Are 14.01.2026

 In this episode, Aaron and Jason explore identity — how it’s formed, how it gets distorted through experience and conditioning, and why so many people feel lost when the version of themselves they’ve been operating from no longer works. They discuss how identity is often built around survival, expectations, and unprocessed experiences, rather than truth or presence. This conversation invites list...

Grounding: The Key to Emotional Stability 07.01.2026

In this episode, Aaron and Jason discuss the importance of grounding in mental health, particularly for men. They explore how external chaos can affect emotional stability and the significance of being present and aware of one's feelings. The conversation delves into the impact of societal conditioning on emotional responses and the necessity of developing routines and community support for p...

A Short Reflection to Wrap Up Season 2 10.12.2025

In this episode of Guys Dealing with Feelings, Aaron Gray reflects on the journey of the podcast, expressing gratitude for listeners and discussing the importance of self-reflection and personal growth. He previews the upcoming season, emphasizing themes of emotional health, responsibility, and internal happiness. The conversation highlights the challenges men face and the necessity of focusing on...

The Modern Man Under Pressure 03.12.2025

Modern men are under pressure like never before—dating expectations, changing roles at home, economic strain, and a cultural message that tells us to “be strong” while giving us zero tools to actually handle what we feel. In today’s episode, Jason and I break down what’s REALLY going on. We talk about: The brutal reality of online dating Why men are withdrawing and shutting down How emotional expr...

How Your Experiences Shape Your Beliefs 27.11.2025

 In this episode, Jason and I break down how our beliefs are shaped by the experiences we’ve lived through—especially the ones we never fully processed. We talk about why old emotions resurface, how unresolved moments keep showing back up, and what it looks like to finally face them. We also get into the discipline of staying present, staying out of the past and the future, and building a mindset...

The Boxed-In Man: Why We Feel Trapped and How to Get Out 19.11.2025

Most men don’t even realize they’re living inside a box they built themselves. Not a physical box — an emotional one. When we avoid emotions, ignore reflection, and push down anything that feels uncomfortable, those same unprocessed emotions start calling the shots. They become patterns, patterns become beliefs, and beliefs dictate our perception and the direction of our lives. In this episode, we...

Cultural influences can significantly impact communication styles 24.06.2025

In this episode, Aaron Gray and Jason Adams delve into the complexities of men's mental health, focusing on the importance of understanding values, feelings, and communication. They explore how cultural influences and conditioning shape our self-expression and relationships, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and reflection. The conversation highlights the challenges men face in navigati...

Importance of Community 17.06.2025

Jason and I discuss how we have been isolated even further through societal influences. We touch on several areas of helping ourselves understand and achieve real fulfillment. 

Cultural Influences and Impact On Our Values 08.04.2025

Jason and I start exploring all of the impacts that our culture has on our lives. We start out with an overall description of how culture is all encompassing in our lives and specifically how it impacts are values both in what they are and how we try to nurture them.

Why is Personal Growth so Difficult? 22.03.2025

Jason and I discuss why it is so difficult to progress and grow as a human. There is a constant desire to grow and expand ourselves in different ways, but why is it so hard?! 

Understanding Influence: Jason and I discuss the influences driving unhappiness 13.02.2025

Jason and I go through the different internal and external influences affecting our lives. We dive into understanding and reflection as it pertains to be able to identify what is really happening when we find ourselves unsatisfied, unhappy, or both.

A recovery story with Logan Hufford 29.01.2025

Logan and I have a great discussion surrounding his recovery from sexual addiction. His story and tools we discuss are applicable to anyone trying to recover. Logan's IG: https://www.instagram.com/no.longer.in.bondage/

Discussing Enlightenment with Jason Adams 22.01.2025

Jason and I dive into enlightenment. We try to demystify the topic and discuss the beauty that comes with it.

What is the answer to the hard question of consciousness?: A conversation with Dean Graves 07.01.2025

Dean and I have a fascinating conversation. We dive deep into enlightenment, consciousness, and understanding of self. I had an amazing time doing this interview and I am so glad I got to meet Dean. Dean's website where you can find his books and information: https://www.ddeangraves.org/

Rebuilding With a New Focus: a conversation with Alan Lazaros 20.12.2024

Alan and I have an awesome conversation on a range of topics. He too used his rock bottom for a foundation for rebuilding. We cover unhappiness, self work, and emotional health.  https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/business-consulting/

Laughing to Heal: A conversation with Jack Daly 09.12.2024

Jack and I have a great conversation around his path to helping others with their healing. Jack focuses on using laughter, and other methods to heal from past experiences. He is retired Navy and has a very interesting story to share.  Jack's Website:  https://jackdalyauthor.com/

Keys to Developing Self-Confidence: A conversation with Shane Jacob 24.11.2024

In this episode, I sit down with Shane to explore his incredible journey of transformation. After hitting rock bottom and battling alcoholism, Shane used his struggles as a foundation for change. Today, he has rebuilt his life and empowers others through a unique coaching program that combines the healing power of horses with his inspiring message. Tune in to hear how Shane helps people overcome o...

'Its not your fault, but its your responsibility': A conversation with Dan McQueen 29.10.2024

Dan and I have a good conversation based on turning rock bottom into our foundation. After suffering 2 traumatic brain injuries Dan is sharing is road to recover with others to inspire growth. Dan's Website:  https://www.macqueendan.com/

A Cross Country Journey For Suicide Prevention: A conversation with Thomas Brown 13.10.2024

Thomas and I discuss he journey riding a bicycle across the country. After losing his brother to suicide, he and a friend decided to do the ride for themselves and others. We discuss mindfulness, breathwork, and self reflection among other things. Thomas' Website:  http://www.risephoenix.org

How we end up feeling stuck in life: a conversation with Jason 27.09.2024

Jason and I dive into the issues that we face that leading to us feeling stuck in our lives. We cover a wide range of topics, but focusing on self and learning as much about ourselves is crucial. We then begin to experience more and have a stronger understanding of who we are and what we want.

From the Ground Up: Building Emotional Resilience in Men a Conversation with Owen Marcus 13.09.2024

Owen and I have an awesome conversation surrounding men's healing work. We cover so many aspects of growth and vulnerability Owen Marcus is a pioneering coach and author known for integrating emotional physiology and attachment theory into men's emotional connection. His 30-year journey has led him to author a book, feature in a documentary, and start three impactful businesses. Featured...

Men's work: A conversation with Jason Lange 04.09.2024

Jason and I have a great discusion on men's mental health. Jason has been involved with men's groups for 20 years and has some great insight that he shares. Here is the link to connect to Jason:  https://evolutionary.men/talk Book a free exploratory call with Jason to talk about what's going on in your life and how men's work and coaching might support you.

Overall Personal Development: A Conversation with Kevin Palmier 23.08.2024

Kevin and I discuss a range of strategies and tools that he and I utilize to maintain happiness in our lives. Kevin found himself fiscally stable but emotionally struggling. He has turned this into a foundation of personal growth and development. Link to Kevin's coaching page:  https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/group-coaching/

From Crypto To Deep Meditation: A conversation with Eric Mchugh 16.08.2024

Eric and I have a wide ranging conversation that touches on a variety of topics. His experience at the meditation retreat is awesome, the insight he shares is great.  Eric's website:  https://shopx.co/

Time Optimizing Your Lifestyle: A conversation with David Buck 09.08.2024

Join David and me as we dive into an engaging conversation about time management and its impact on our daily lives. Link to David's Time Management Analysis https://infinitylifestyledesign.com/tma/

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