Growing Yet Grown

Success in corporate America isn't just about working hard. It's also about career growth, workplace visibility, office politics, professional relationships, and knowing how promotions actually happen. In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, We share the career lessons we wish we knew earlier. From navigating office politics to finding the right mentor and sponsor, we explain why doing exc...

Why do so many adults stop doing the things they once loved?  In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, We explore why childhood hobbies disappear as we get older, and how losing those hobbies can impact our happiness, mental health, stress levels, and overall life satisfaction. Many adults find themselves trapped in a cycle of work, responsibilities, parenting, bills, and endless productivity. Somewh...

"Is your inability to say 'no' to family expectations actually a sign that you haven't built your 'boundary muscle' yet?" In this episode of Growing Yet Grown, Doyin and Simone tackle one of the "spiciest" topics in African adulthood: how to set boundaries with the people who raised you, sacrificed for you, and still expect things from you that you can&...

65% of Americans are stressed about money and most of it starts way before adulthood. In this episode, Doyin and Simone discuss how our relationship with money is formed from childhood and why they quietly shape every financial decision we make as adults: including who we choose to marry, who we stay friends with, and how we handle money in our families. They break down: The 4 money personalities:...

We were raised strict but with our own kids, we are parenting differently.  Today, 98% of millennial parents now talk to their kids about mental health, compared to just a fraction of their own parents. In this episode, We get into what it actually looks like raising black children in America  as millennial West African women. We discussed the difficulties we experienced in talking to kids about r...

56% of adults in the US have no estate planning documents whatsoever. If that's you, this episode is the push you've been waiting for. In this eye-opening episode, We dive into the emotional and practical sides of estate planning, revealing why so many avoid it and how to start the process without feeling overwhelmed. This episode isn’t just for the wealthy, it’s for anyone who cares abo...

Many women are now earning more than ever, and this is causing a shift in traditional marriage roles.  Even while this is  happening, so many couples still hold on to old expectations.  What happens when the breadwinner is the woman? And how do stay-at-home dads challenge the norms?  In this episode, We have an honest conversation about these dynamics in households, and how they are reshaping marr...

Most of us get stuck in feeling like changing our minds is a failure but what if it’s actually a sign of growth? In this episode, We explore why changing your mind isn’t weakness, but rather a powerful indicator that you’re learning, growing, and refining your understanding of what’s right for you. We explore the delicate balance of making bold decisions in marriage, navigating fears, and respecti...

85% of working mothers left full-time employment within 3 years of having a baby — even though 98% of them said they wanted to go back. This is mostly Because the practical realities of motherhood from child care costs to work flexibility and societal expectations often make fulfilling career ambitions feel impossible.  In this eye-opening episode, we explore how organizations unintentionally side...

More women are realizing the power of financial protection before marriage and demanding prenups.  Simone and Doyin discuss the purpose of prenups, how they impact trust, and why more women are asking their partners to sign them even in cultures where the idea still feels taboo. We discuss how modern women are reshaping the story around marriage and money.  This episode is perfect for women in the...

Most of us are caught in the quiet storm of unmet expectations, making us feel like we're falling short despite all our efforts. If you're grappling with where you thought you'd be by now, this episode is your wake-up call.  In this episode, Doyin and Simone get honest about one of the most common but least talked about feelings among women in their 30s. They uncover startling resea...

Most people secretly struggle with discussing their income, yet they also miss out on valuable insights from friends who understand their financial realities. What if honesty about money could unlock better opportunities, deeper trust, and smarter decisions without judgment or shame? In this eye-opening episode, Simone and Doyin share personal stories, from Nigeria and Cameroon to the US, revealin...

In this season finale, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's world. Dating in your 30s feels harder than it should be. You have the career and some stability - But finding a serious relationship still feels impossible. We have an honest conversation about the challenges of modern dating, marriage, red flags, money, boundaries, dating apps, arranged marriages, and how to choose the...

In this conversation, Doyin and Simone explore the multifaceted concept of building wealth, emphasizing the importance of financial freedom, flexibility, and the various strategies one can employ to achieve financial stability. They discuss the significance of understanding personal definitions of wealth, the impact of lifestyle choices, and the necessity of making informed financial decisions. Th...