Growing Up Married

This week, Chino and Rebecca dive into the concept of generational habits, breaking down the difference between what people often label as "generational curses" and the habits passed down through families. They discuss how many of the struggles attributed to curses are actually patterns of behavior and beliefs that can be identified and changed. Tune in as they offer insights and practic...

In this episode of Growing Up Married , Chino and Rebecca dive into the importance of keeping the spark alive in marriage. They share personal stories and practical tips on how regular date nights, intentional time together, and small gestures of love can keep a relationship spicy, fresh, and thriving. Whether you've been married for years or just starting out, this episode offers valuable in...

In Chino & Rebecca's latest podcast, Rebecca dives into the power of self-reflection and the importance of taking inventory of our hearts. Rebecca touch's on how the heart can hold onto past experiences, emotions, and traumas, and how carrying these unresolved issues into the future can negatively affect our personal growth and relationships. Through introspection and letting go of p...

In this powerful episode of Growing Up Married , Chino and Rebecca dive deep into the often-overlooked impact of trauma on our daily lives and relationships. Drawing from both personal experiences and years of mentoring, they explore the importance of confronting and moving past the negative thoughts that stem from our past wounds. Whether it's childhood trauma, past relationships, or life’s...

In this heartfelt and insightful episode titled "Let's Talk About Sex," Chino and Rebecca dive deep into the realities of maintaining a sexual relationship over 20 years of marriage. With their signature blend of humor, honesty, and practical advice, they explore how sexual dynamics evolve over the decades and share personal stories of their own journey. Whether you're newlywed...

In the latest episode of Growing Up Married , Chino and Rebecca dive into "The Art of Compromise: Building Stronger Relationships." With 19 years of marital experience, they share their insights on how to navigate the delicate balance of compromising in a healthy and constructive manner. They discuss practical strategies to ensure both partners feel heard and valued without losing their...

Join Chino and Rebecca on this transformative journey, and discover how to make the most of life's shifts with resilience and a positive mindset. Whether you're dealing with a significant life transition or seeking inspiration to handle everyday changes, "Navigating Life's Shifts: Embracing Change" offers valuable insights, practical advice, and a sense of community. Tune...

Join Chino and Rebecca as they share candid reflections on the importance of wives respecting their husbands and husbands loving their wives. They discuss how these reciprocal acts of respect create a harmonious dynamic within the marriage, fostering trust, intimacy, and lasting connection. But the discussion doesn't end there. Chino and Rebecca also shine a light on the impact of parental be...

Join hosts Chino and Rebecca on a candid journey beyond the glitz and glamour of wedding planning, as they delve into the true essence of preparing for marriage. In this episode, they shed light on the often-overlooked aspects of laying a strong foundation for a lifetime together. From discussing long-term goals to navigating the intricacies of finances, Chino and Rebecca emphasize the importance...

In this heartfelt episode of "Growing Up Married," Chino and Rebecca open up about the emotional rollercoaster that birthdays can bring. Titled "Birthday's Was the Worst Days," Chino candidly shares his personal experiences navigating the ups and downs of his own birthday celebrations, reflecting on the mixed emotions that arise as another year passes by. From moments of j...

In this episode of "Growing Up Married,"  Chino and Rebecca dive deep into the intricate web of relationship dynamics, shedding light on the multifaceted nature of marriage. Contrary to the societal narrative that paints marriage as the ultimate pinnacle of life, Chino and Rebecca bravely challenge this notion, highlighting how marriage is merely a layer of their identities rather than t...

Through vulnerability and honesty, we reflect on the moments when we felt overwhelmed and uncertain, as well as the strategies that helped us overcome those obstacles together. We discuss the power of communication, the value of seeking support, and the significance of leaning on our faith during difficult times. But most importantly, we offer words of encouragement and glimpses of hope to our lis...

Through heartfelt conversations and intimate reflections, Chino and Rebecca share their experiences of encountering Jesus not just as a figure of Easter Sunday, but as a constant companion in their everyday existence. From triumphs to tribulations, they've found solace and guidance in his love, allowing them to navigate through life's most challenging trials with grace and perseverance....

In a world where hurt often begets more hurt, Chino and Rebecca defy the norm by choosing a different path. Rather than succumbing to bitterness or seeking revenge, they have consciously decided not to reciprocate the pain inflicted upon them. Through their stories, they demonstrate the transformative power of empathy, compassion, and forgiveness. Support the show Connect with us: Instagram: chino...

Join hosts Chino and Rebecca as they navigate the tumultuous waters of chaos, offering insights and reflections on how love serves as an anchor amidst life's storms. From patience and kindness to perseverance and hope, this episode explores the timeless wisdom of 1 Corinthians 13, illuminating the path towards resilience, growth, and flourishing even in the midst of chaos. Tune in for a soul-...

Join hosts Chino and Rebecca in this transformative episode as they delve into the profound topic of letting go of the past. In a heartfelt conversation, they share personal stories, insights, and 5 compelling reasons why releasing the grip of yesterday can pave the way for a brighter tomorrow. Discover the power of renewal and how embracing change can lead to personal growth and freedom. Chino an...

Join us in this eye-opening episode as we delve into the financial rollercoaster that Chino and Rebecca, a married couple of 19 years, have ridden together. From early missteps to overcoming unexpected hurdles, their journey is a testament to the ups and downs that many couples face when navigating finances in marriage. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about love, growth, and the profound unde...

From the early days of sleepless nights to the teenage years filled with rebellious spirits, Chino and Rebecca candidly share their experiences and wisdom gained along the way. As they navigate the ups and downs of parenthood, listeners will discover practical strategies for fostering a strong family bond while maintaining a mindset for growth during some of the different phases of parenting. But...

In this candid conversation, Chino and Rebecca guide us through the key elements that have fortified their relationship over the years. With humor, vulnerability, and genuine love, they unveil a ten-point strategy, they found on social media for nurturing a healthy and thriving marriage. From the importance of "date nights" to "forgiving quickly", Chino and Rebecca share person...

Chino and Rebecca embody the mindset of looking forward with purpose rather than dwelling on the past. They share their personal opinions and the thought process that led them to adopt a mindset centered on intentionality and optimism. Throughout the episode, they impart practical tips and strategies for couples and individuals alike on how to cultivate a shared vision, set meaningful goals, focus...

Join us on this reflective episode of 'Reflecting on 2023", where hosts Chino and Rebecca delve into their transformative experiences navigating the highs and lows of 2023. In this engaging conversation, they candidly share their personal journeys of embracing a growth mindset amidst the challenges faced throughout the year. Support the show Connect with us: Instagram: chinoarboleda Inst...

Listeners can expect an engaging discussion filled with insight, and actionable advice. Chino and Rebecca delve into real-life examples, illustrating how these patterns manifest in different relationships and cultures, emphasizing their theory of applicability. Support the show Connect with us: Instagram: chinoarboleda Instagram: rebeccaunplugged Tik Tok: chinoarboleda Tik Tok: rebeccaunplugged

In this deeply intimate episode of Forgiveness Unfiltered, we delve into the inspiring and heartfelt journey of Chino and Rebecca. Join us as they candidly share their story, unraveling the complexities of pain, betrayal, and the transformative power of forgiveness. Chino and Rebecca shed light on the pivotal moments that marked their struggle with hurt and the profound impact it had on their live...

Join Chino & Rebecca on an eye-opening journey as they delve into the compelling reality behind the age-old adage, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." In this episode, Chino & Rebecca unravel the intricate layers of how words possess a profound impact that extends far beyond physical wounds. Contrary to popular belief, our words hold immense power...

Chino's story is one of resilience, growth, and the transformative power of forgiveness. As a preteen and teenager, he faced a strained and tumultuous relationship with his father, marked by misunderstandings, miscommunications, and unresolved conflicts. Their fractured connection left a profound impact on Chino, shaping his perspectives and relationships as he ventured into adulthood. Chino...