Growing In Marriage

Step away from the noise and spend a beautiful weekend with Rich and DeAnna reconnecting with your spouse at the Growing In Marriage Retreat. This is more than just time away, it's a guided experience designed to help you break out of the same old patterns, understand what's really creating distance between you, and learn how to show up for each other in a new way. You'll be equipped with simple,...

Our today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast we have a fantastic conversation with author and marriage advocate Meika Harmon about her brand-new book, I'm Sorry. DeAnna had to sit this one out (she wasn't feeling her best), but that didn't stop the good times from rolling (or the belly laughs) from filling the room. Meika opened up about her own marriage to Paul, the power of forgiveness...

This week, Rich and DeAnna share their favorite things for Fall, cozy candles, chai lattes, board games, pumpkin pie, sweater weather, and more. But this isn't just about personal favorites; it's about how couples can use simple, seasonal joys to connect, laugh, and grow closer. With funny stories (including Rich's shower steamer fail), playful banter, and practical marriage challenges, this episo...

What if your marriage could feel like friendship again—safe, connected, and filled with laughter? In this episode, Rich and DeAnna pull back the curtain on The Team, their Christ-centered marriage community designed to help couples move beyond "just fine" into real intimacy and joy. You'll hear stories from couples who've experienced transformation, discover the practical tools and support waiting...

What if the real reason your marriage feels distant isn't a lack of love, but a lack of safety? In this episode, Rich and DeAnna unpack what emotional safety is—and what it isn't—and show how it becomes the foundation not just for trust and vulnerability, but for laughter, playfulness, and joy. Through real coaching stories, their own marriage experiences, and a simple "safety audit" tool, you'll...

In this episode of Growing in Marriage, Rich and DeAnna unpack why no couple can thrive in isolation and why building a support system is essential if you want your marriage to last. You'll hear examples of couples who looked perfect on the outside but crumbled in secret—and others who found strength, healing, and accountability by inviting trusted friends into their journey. Together we'll explor...

Most affairs don't start in bedrooms—they start in break rooms, chat rooms, gyms, social media spaces, etc. In this episode, we're exposing the subtle workplace habits that can quietly erode trust, intimacy, and faithfulness in your marriage. You'll learn the early warning signs you might already be crossing a line, how to set boundaries that reflect God's Word and your own values, and why protect...

In this episode, Rich and DeAnna are walking you through five small, daily habits that every thriving Christian marriage has—and why skipping them could quietly chip away at your connection. You'll hear real, behind-the-scenes stories from our own marriage (sticky hot breath and all), along with practical ways to build emotional safety, deepen spiritual closeness, and keep the friendship alive in...

This week on the podcast, we are back in the studio with our guest from last week, Monika Farhadi! We're tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recognizing emotional shutdowns, and breaking free from...

This week on the podcast, we're diving deep into the heart of communication with Monika Farhadi! We're tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recognizing emotional shutdowns, and breaking free from un...

Feel closer and more connected to your spouse in just 14 days! This week, we're diving into Embrace —our brand-new resource designed to help couples grow closer and communicate better. We're answering the most common questions from couples who want to know what Embrace is all about and whether it's the right fit for their marriage. If you've ever felt stuck in the same conversations, struggled to...

In this episode, we're tackling two game-changers for a strong marriage—respect and encouragement. If you've ever felt unappreciated or like your efforts go unnoticed, you're not alone! Respect fuels a husband's confidence and leadership, while encouragement reassures a wife that she's valued and cherished. We're breaking down what this looks like in everyday life, sharing what husbands and wives...

In this episode, we're talking about something every married couple craves—feeling emotionally pursued. It's easy to assume love and connection will just happen, but over time, life gets busy, routines take over, and that intentional pursuit can start to fade. So, what does it really mean to feel emotionally pursued? How can you keep that deep connection alive beyond the honeymoon phase? We're bre...

In this episode, we dive into conflict resolution and forgiveness with Tyler and Connie Boyd, exploring how young married couples can navigate disagreements without letting them spiral out of control. They share personal stories of arguments they handled well (and not so well), along with practical strategies for discussing sensitive topics and moving toward healing. We also talk about the power o...

In this episode, we get real with Tyler and Connie Boyd about sex, romance, and staying connected in the early years of marriage. From setting healthy expectations for intimacy to navigating tough topics like porn struggles and vulnerability, we cover it all. Tyler and Connie open up about their own journey—what helped them talk openly about their needs, where they stumbled, and the intentional ch...

We're continuing our conversation with Tyler and Connie Boyd and this week we are talking about aligning your personal and spiritual goals early in marriage to create a shared vision for the future. They share how they've balanced their individual relationships with God while growing together in faith, plus the spiritual habits that have fueled their connection. We'll also dive into the lessons th...

In this episode, we're chatting with Tyler and Connie Boyd about what it takes to build a strong emotional connection in those early years of marriage. From the small daily habits that deepen intimacy to tackling communication breakdowns, they're sharing their real-life experiences and practical tips. We'll dive into the kinds of conversations that helped them grow closer, the ones that tripped th...

This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna sit down with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW, to tackle some of the most pressing and challenging questions couples face. In this episode, Cindy shares her expert insights on topics like how to get help when your spouse is resistant, rebuilding trust, breaking the cycle of emotional shutdowns, and reigniting excitement in a boring relationship. We...

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On this week's episode of our the Growing In Marriage podcast, DeAnna is flipping the script and interviewing Rich about our brand new product, Soulmates. It's designed especially for Christian couples, featuring interactive stories and guided conversations to help you grow closer and deepen your spiritual intimacy. DeAnna asks all the juicy questions you'll want answers to, making sure you get al...

Welcome to this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast with Rich and DeAnna! Today, we explore the profound impact of uplifting your spouse. Rich shares his journey from ignoring DeAnna's pleas for help to taking responsibility for household chores and demonstrating true, lasting change. Discover the difference between temporary modifications and genuine transformation, and how consiste...

We're jumping into the love language of physical touch. From holding hands and sharing hugs to intimate gestures like kissing and back rubs, we'll uncover the powerful impact of physical touch in marriage. We'll discuss the importance of learning how your spouse wants to be touched. Too often, we turn to books, other couples, or general advice, neglecting the one person who knows best: our spouse....

Today, we're diving into the importance of creating a healthier version of yourself. A happy marriage thrives when both individuals are committed to their personal growth and well-being. DeAnna shares how one of her own growth journeys has brought us closer together and positively impacted our marriage. **REGISTER FOR THE HAPPILY MARRIED WORKSHOP**  Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website...

Join as we tackle the inevitable misunderstandings that arise in marriage. Discover how these moments can affect your feelings and learn strategies to navigate them without trying to convince your spouse that your perspective is the only perspective. We'll share the importance of acknowledging and reflecting on each other's viewpoints, even when you don't agree. Rich and DeAnna will discuss how es...

Dive into the heart of what makes each of us unique and how to truly love and appreciate those differences in your spouse! Today, Rich and DeAnna are sharing insights on loving your spouse in a way that makes them feel cherished, quick and fun ways to connect and build intimacy through new experiences, travel, and even a bit of friendly competition. Plus, we'll talk about creating a daily routine...