GRIND TOGETHER

Why did you fall in love with your spouse? Are they the same person that you married? Have they changed? We answer all of these questions in this episode! Listen to learn a new perspective of dealing with your spouses personality and how that might actually be the reason you love them! Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok! @grindtogether.podcast

We LOVED being able to talk about how we have decided to live authentically in our lives. It has taken us a long time to get to a point where we finally decided to live how we wanted to.  It is very hard to be yourself and live true to you with so many opinions in this world. We invite you to find out who you really are and start living the life YOU WANT! Make that person in the mirror proud!...

We could've gone on and on about everything that our spouse never has to worry about! From body suits to getting hit in the nuts, we cover a lot of things that we go through on a day to day basis that the other will just never have to experience! Come listen and laugh with us.

Sit down with you spouse and talk about the things that you accomplished, the things that were hard and the things that you want to do together going forward. We have an honest conversation about how our year really went and help each other grow from and reflect on the past.  Join along with us this year as we have put together fun content, amazing interviews and a few extras surprises for ya...

In this week's episode, we sat down to dive into our mindset for the new year, and more specifically how we're setting goals. We hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas yesterday! If you're like us, goal setting is the next thing on your mind. Let's dive into how we set goals personally and as a couple. 

If you joined us for our discussion on expectations last week, then you can't miss this episode. Just when we thought we'd mastered this... life happened. Needless to say, we had some relationship problems come up this week and so we snuck down into our basement, turned on our camera, and started talking through it. Come listen to us have that conversation in real-time.

The relationship truth we're tackling this week is: expectations will always equal resentment . How many expectations do you put on your spouse? How many do you put on yourself? We've recently discovered the magic of taking all of those expectations off of our relationship and watching resentments melt away. In this episode, we're telling you guys the story of how we got there.

We want to talk about the ups and downs of trying to have a baby. We have 3 kids and are trying to have our 4th and we are not having much luck! Even though we have 3 beautiful kids, this has been a hard time for us to navigate through.  We feel for those that have been in this same situation or in situations that are even harder.  In this episode we touch on what is was like when we had...

Think about how open and honest you are with your best friends. You'll tell them everything, shoot the shit with them and piss them off, but at the end of the day you'll still be best friends with them. Why can't a marriage and a relationship be just like that. We know it can. *SHOP CHRISTMAS COUPLES CONNECTION BOX:* https://grindtogetherpodcast.com/

Thanksgiving, Chistmas and New Years are the times during the year where we as a couple would always experience the most tension in our relationship. We could never agree on what we wanted to do, or where we wanted to go, or who we wanted to spend time with. The thing about it was, we were never doing things for ourselves and we were always focusing on other people.  This Episode goes over ho...

Why have we not been intimate lately? Why don't you ever take me on a date? Why can't we figure out how to be happy? WE KNOW that you have once in your relationship asked these questions. Guess what, ITS YOUR FAULT. We go over all the blame that we put on others and talk about how we have been able to feel more connected to each other by owning up to EVERYTHING in our lives! SHOP CHRISTMAS COUPLE...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!**  https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe  If you've ever wanted to know who we are or why we are doing this, LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE.  You get the full truth about our relationship, our pasts, and our struggles and failures in life. We got to a point in our relationship where we were done. We had been lying to ourselves and...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe In this episode we talk about sex and some of the things that have helped us become closer as a couple.  Sex is an important factor in a relationship, and we want to challenge any out that that is in a relationship to come closer with your significant other this next month of September! We go o...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe HAPPY HALLOWEEN!  Ya'll spoke and we are sharing! Sadly a lot of people out there had some scary misconceptions about sex and stories that we couldn't stop laughing about.  Intimacy is a very serious topic that we don't take lightly, and we share these thing in effort to help others not co...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe What if there was a different way of dealing with the stresses of everyday life than we are used to?! Would you try something new?? We incorporate meditation, breathing, yoga, and energy work in our daily lives to help us better connect to ourselves and to everything around us.  It is when you...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe Do you realize how often we talk ourselves out of doing something, or going somewhere, or living how we want?! At any given moment we can feel so deeply about the change we want to implement in our lives but then immediately our head starts saying that we aren't good enough, or that it's a bad idea....

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe Quit people pleasing, quit doing things YOU don't want to do, quit draining your tank just to fill up someone else's. BE SELFISH in every decision, show up for yourself, chose you, and support yourself 100% of the time. We far too often look for others for validation or try and compromise when that...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe If you want a fair fight, don't fight me. Right?! We all have been there, when we disagree with our spouse and we end up fighting. What type of fighter are you? Do you lay it all out on the table and try and settle things quickly, or do you walk out and let time do the "healing". Every fight or hard...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe Do you remember the feeling you had at the beginning of your relationship when you first held hands, or the first time you kissed?? You had sweaty palms, got butterflies in your stomach and went home all giddy! Let's bring that back in our relationships, let's find a way to fall in love with our spo...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language Go to this link to take the Love Languages quiz to find out what your love language is!  We talk about what has helped us connect, communicate and give and receive love better in our relationship.  We did this by recognizing what each others...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe Ever had a sex story that you may not share openly, but is too funny not share?! On This episode we share some of the best stories that were sent into us by YOU. Don't worry..... we keep names out of it! We have such a fun time going through the multiple messages that have been sent into us and we a...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe IT IS LAURENS 30TH BIRTHDAY!!! In this episode we go over things that have helped us learn from the past and look toward the future. Lauren talks about some key topics thats she has realized have helped her become who she is today.  A lot of times we continue to do things/please people because...

**Subscribe to our exclusive episodes and email list!** https://anchor.fm/matthew-griner2/subscribe **TRIGGER WARNING** This episode contains content that may be alarming to some listeners. Please check the notes below for more detailed descriptions and take care of yourself.  If you or anyone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts please call or text the suicide and crisis hotline at...

Welcome to the Grind Together Podcast, a space to create growth through real conversation. Let's talk about sex, parenting, depression, relationships, and everything else we are all afraid to talk about. The more vulnerable we get about our real life situations, the more we can improve on ourselves. We are here to get it all out there and have fun while doing it!