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If you are in need of some soul food, nah not the kind that puts you into a food coma, I’m talking the kind that fills you up so good, you ain’t ever needa eat again! Ok but on a serious note, Pastor Woodgete gave us the WORD this week! We are still benefiting from the gems of wisdom that he spoke into us. Who are we to keep it to ourselves?! We trust you will be just as blessed, challenged, and a...

Welcome back everyone! These next episodes are not for the weak! If you a real one, join us as we open up about church fatigue, what it means to remain holy yet relevant, and redefining our relationship with God and people alike. It’s all about honesty in this space so sit back and enjoy the tea. Oh and any (honest) questions or contributions you have, leave in the comments and we may, someday, re...

We’re back, and we are so excited to be here! In this episode, we’re breaking it all down—what’s coming in these next few seasons, why we’re doing things differently, and what you can expect from us moving forward. Real talk about faith, identity, community, and the beautiful chaos of life—no filters, no holding back. ✌🏽❤️🪮

This week, we couldn’t stay silent. What’s happening in Chicago right now — the ICE raids, the fear, the tension — has left us deeply disturbed. Under the false promise of “cleaning up” neighborhoods and making communities safer, families are being torn apart, and men, women, and children are too afraid to even step outside their homes. In this episode, we talk about what’s really going on — not f...

In this episode, we dive deep into the unseen — the countless spirits that move through our atmosphere, influencing our thoughts, emotions, and relationships. This isn’t just a mental or emotional struggle; it’s a spiritual one. Every day, we’re challenged to keep these spirits from entering our system — to resist the pull toward bitterness, division, and pride, and instead choose unity, understan...

We’ve got a little treat for you today — something different, something special! 🎤Camille’s stepping out of her comfort zone and sharing her a piece of her slam poetry. She almost kept it to herself, but she felt a strong pull to share it — because honestly, it speaks to all of us in some way. It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s straight from the heart. So take a minute to listen in, feel it, and let i...

In this powerful episode, we dive into the truth that Jesus was not passive — He was a divine activist. When the temple was filled with money changers and corruption, He didn’t stand by in silence. He acted. With righteous authority, He turned chaos into cleansing, reminding us that God’s house — and our hearts — were created for prayer, justice, and worship. We’re called to that same higher stand...

In this episode, we confront a hard but necessary truth — the silence within the Church can be just as destructive as the sins it refuses to name. Ignorance, especially in a place meant to be led by truth, becomes a breeding ground for mistrust, division, and spiritual decay. If we truly claim to follow Christ, then we are called to seek wisdom, pursue understanding, and confront what’s wrong — ev...

Payton and Camille sit down to reflect on their summer — the highs, the hurdles, and the grit it took to make it through. From moments that tested their strength to the laughter that kept them grounded, this conversation is all about resilience, sisterhood, and growth. And of course, we couldn’t forget an exciting update on Sophia’s wedding! Tune in as we share the joy of her beautiful day, the lo...

In this special World Afro Day episode, we celebrate the beauty, power, and boldness of the fro — a crown that represents freedom, heritage, and unshakable pride. The Afro is more than a hair-do; it’s a movement, a statement, and a story of resilience woven into every curl and coil. Join us as we embrace the beautiful chaos of the Afro — its unapologetic volume, its symbolism of solidarity, and it...

We’ve got our little cousins on the mic this week! They’re in their teen years, figuring out life, family, and all the ups and downs that come with it. It’s real, it’s funny, and trust me—we laugh LOUD. This one feels just like sitting in on family time.

Introducing Zion Strong, a young entrepreneur from our very own community whose vision is to build unity and create spaces that bring people together. Through his business, 4everlasting, Zion is helping to lead an important and revolutionary work to strengthen the love and purpose in our community.

In this episode, we sit down with author Keichelle to celebrate the release of her brand-new book Title. She shares the heart behind her writing—exploring the power of knowing and embracing your true place in the world, no matter the cost. We dive into her grand imagination, the wisdom woven throughout her work, and her journey of finding the strength to write through her unique lens of life. Tune...

In this episode, we uncover the disturbing link between school literacy rates and the prison pipeline that continues to plague our nation. This system, designed to profit a wealthy few, mirrors the destructive “spirit of Cain” in the Bible—brother against brother, community against community. Together we discuss how breaking this cycle requires unity, vision, and a new system built on wisdom, stre...

One year ago, our family’s world shifted with the news of our mom’s stage 4 rectal cancer diagnosis. In this heartfelt conversation, she shares her harrowing yet hope-filled journey through a year marked by faith, love, and the unwavering support of friends, family, and God. Together, we reflect on the lessons learned, the strength found, and the power of trusting that everything unfolds just as G...

Today, we’re spotlighting a remarkable young author, Tyler the Reader, a 4th grader who went from learning how to read to publishing his own book—all within a single year. His journey is a powerful example of what’s possible when acknowledgment, love, engagement, and cultivation meet community. Surely this could not be possible without the ALECtion method implemented by the Real Black Excellence I...

In this episode, we sit down with Marquel—a young man whose passion for community and purpose is reshaping the lives of the next generation. Once a young boy searching for his place, Marquel was guided by men who poured into him and helped him discover his value. Now, he’s paying it forward by leading his own young men’s meetings, creating safe spaces for boys to grow, heal, and step confidently i...

In this episode, we dive into Jane Elliott’s groundbreaking “Blue Eyes/Brown Eyes” experiment and the profound effect it had on the children and young adults who experienced it. What began as a classroom exercise became a powerful demonstration of how quickly people can internalize superiority or inferiority based on arbitrary traits. We explore how this social experiment exposed the raw truth abo...

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Uncle Muncle as he reflects on growing up as the youngest of three brothers—our dads included—and what it meant to find his voice and calling among two larger-than-life overachievers. We also explore a deeper conversation on the tension in the Black community between outward confidence and inner self-worth, and how that disconnect impacts our ability...

In this episode, we challenge the misconception that acknowledging our history means adopting a victim mentality. We unpack why telling the truth about the past—through the correct narrative—is not weakness, but a vital step toward healing, identity, and progress. It’s not about blame; it’s about clarity, context, and reclaiming our story.

In this episode, we’re joined by two of our youngest brothers, Isaac and Jesse—the passionate, rough-and-tumble, competitive duo who love to think deep, speak loud, and lead strong. From hilarious childhood memories to serious reflections on finding their voice as young African American men, we dive into what it means to grow up, speak up, and stand up for the next generation.

This episode dives into the Wilmington Massacre of 1898 — when armed white supremacists stormed a thriving Black community, burned it down, and overthrew a legally elected government. It was the only successful coup in U.S. history — and yet, most of us never heard a word about it in school. That’s not by accident. We’re calling out the systems that whitewash history and digging into the truth the...

In this episode, we girls sit down to unpack the powerful messages and emotional moments from the movie Sinners. We share how it challenged our perspectives, stirred our hearts, and sparked meaningful conversations. Join us as we reflect on what Sinners meant to us—and maybe, what it could mean for you too.

In this episode, we share how we wrote our life stories in just three days—not to impress, but to prove our calling to teach through the transformative process of ALECtion . More than a clever play on “the chosen one,” ALEC stands for Acknowledgment, Love, Engagement, and Cultivation. Join us as we break down each step, reflect on our breakthroughs, and motivate you to step into your own chosen pa...

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Auntie as she shares the powerful story behind founding her business, Negasi . Through deep personal loss, a path of healing, and an unwavering hope for the future, she transformed pain into potential and purpose. Tune in to hear how resilience, faith, and vision led to the birth of a brand rooted in legacy and love, and oh so much food.