Good Moms Bad Choices

This week Good Moms, are joined with F lyana Boss , the pink-haired, elf-eared duo who met on Hollywood Boulevard, dropped out of music school, and built a non-traditional sisterhood and a career together. From following Swedish boys to opening for Janelle Monáe; Join the ladies as they talk about fentanyl birth balloons, fake Karens, buffet religions, and share some of their bad choices. &...

This week, Erica and Milah link up with their Black Effect Network cousins, AJ and TamBam from We Talk Back Podcast , for a conversation about dating YNs, ghost sex stories, living with your partner, and how to stop settling for bullshit. ------------ Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your qu...

This week, Good Moms sit down with Tabria Majors and Mindy from The Thick Podcast and talk  about evolving through different seasons of life.  Mindy opens up about overcoming religious and cultural guilt to embrace her sexuality, while Tabria shares what motherhood has taught her about balance, body image, and letting go of perfection. Timestamps: (08:20) Mindy on coming out and shedding...

The Black Effect Presents... Good Moms Bad Choices! Motherhood doesn’t mean losing your identity, your sensuality, or your freedom. This week, Erica and Milah confront the outdated “perfect mom” stereotype and challenge the idea that motherhood means: dressing conservatively, hiding your sex life, or being ashamed of smoking weed. This episode is a reminder that you can be a lovi...

This week Good Moms explore when it's worth working through challenges in a relationship vs. leaving, why we could all use a bit more discernment , and why you should reframe your natural gifts whenever you feel "stuck". Timestamps (04:00) Women oversharing, friendship advice, and relationship “discernment”. Sometimes, you just need to listen and shut up. (10:00) Why we've normali...

This week, Good Moms unpack the mix of gratitude and outrage that comes with living in the U.S. right now. The ladies debate male + female friendships, confess childhood traumas that resulted in jealousy triggers, the thin line between pretty privilege and “pretty punishment” , and how new moms can still get that BAG!  Timestamps: (02:15) Collective breath & why America f...

What does partnership actually look like when you’re not trying to lose yourself in the process? This week, Good Moms chat about  the pressure of “wife duties,” keeping intimacy alive, the lifelong classroom of mother–daughter relationships, and how to balance it all. You can expect to hear: (04:30) Victoria’s Secret lies, and why pregnancy boobs are both the bes...

Shout out to all the elderly bad b*tches!  This week, Good Moms explore what it means to revisit old passions with fresh eyes, the importance of community support when stepping into new (and old) chapters of your life, and the reality of balancing dreams with everyday responsibilities.  Timestamps: (02:10) gray hair, and the quest for youthful vibes   (10:35) Erica’s retu...

This week, Good Moms question if we're all raising tech-addicted children, why it might be worth ditching the nail salon and switching to press-on nails, and the importance of surrendering to the mess and simplifying your life. Timestamps:   (01:20) Back-to-school chaos + surrendering to the mess Co-parenting differences: Kids act more independent at dad’s houses, while moms someti...

What does it look like to heal your relationship with your mom while raising a daughter of your own? In this episode, Good Moms reflect on healing alongside their mothers, the challenges of letting go of old patterns, and the unexpected lessons that surface when you start to see your mom as “just a girl” too. They talk about caretaking, validation, breaking cycles of criticism, and the...

This week Erica and Milah are joined by artist, author, and one of the first guests on the show, Amina Buddafly . The ladies talk about why self-worth can’t be tied to a bank account, the truth about influencer finances, motherhood, and moving forward when life doesn’t go as planned. You can expect to hear: The reset moms don't talk about and not being ashamed about starting over ...

Sometime Brunch with your friends just ISN'T enough time .   This week on Good Moms , chat about the magic of adult sleepovers and why untimed , leisurely hangouts with friends are just as essential in adulthood as they were when we were kids.   What you can expect to hear: (02:13) Empowering your kids set up their own playdates: “Go get her number on a piece of paper.” (06:2...

This week, Good Moms are joined by attorney, media personality, author, and  the first Black Bachelorette, Rachel Lindsay . From growing up in Texas with a federal judge for a dad to navigating heartbreak, law school, and the search for "love" on reality TV, they get into love, loss, legacy and what she wishes more reality stars knew. You can expect to hear:  (09:00) Growing up in a stri...

Erica and Milah continue their sit down with bestselling author Elizabeth Oveson (AKA Karrine Steffans) as she unpacks the emotional and physical labor of being a truth-teller in a culture addicted to fantasy.   Now two decades removed from the release of Confessions of a Video Vixen , Elizabeth reflects on the hollowness of fame, the cost of being first, and why men should marry the "slut"....

This is a 2 part episode. For early unedited access to Part 1 &  2 of this episode, sign up to Patreon now!  This week, Erica and Milah are joined by bestselling author Elizabeth Oveson (AKA Karrine Steffans) to reflect on the 20-year anniversary of her groundbreaking memoir,  Confessions of a Video Vixen . Elizabeth was one of the first women in the public eye to live unapologe...

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This week, the Good Moms catch up about their recent retreats in Costa Rica , some current events in this chaotic world, and how they moms are surviving summer by sending their daughters off to overnight camp!   In this episode, you’ll hear: Why America is still on its BS (10:00) What went down at the first ever Good Vibe Couples Retreat (28:45) Irie & Luna’s overnight camp er...

Welcome back to Tribe Chat , our monthly bonus episode series!   This week, Good Moms light up and react to a mix of internet clips curated by their team. From INSANE and questionable reality TV shows like “ Who’s Your Daddy ” to parents who are NOT going to deal with their children’s foolishness this summer!    The ladies talk about if cursing is good for yo...

“ Pleasure is not a luxury, it’s your birthright”   This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we’ve decided to call her “Sex Santa” Susan Bratton for a funny and informative look into  pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.   From 12 years of sexless marriage to becomin...

This week, the Good Moms are joined by comedian, and host of " Jess A Couple Things " podcast, Jessie Woo for a layered conversation on family, culture, ambition, and accountability.   From growing up as the oldest daughter in a strict Haitian household to finding her voice in the entertainment industry. The three chat about everything from mother wounds and cultural silence to anime porn, an...

Happy Father's Day Tribe!   Welcome back to Good Mom Bad Choices! This week we are joined by comedian, actor and voice over extraordinaire ‪@TonyBakercomedy‬ ! Tune into the conversation as Tony confesses his favorite sex position, porn category, journey to Hollywood as an extra.   In this week’s episode, we switch gears and deep dive into fatherhood, grief, and the tragic loss of...

This week, Erica and Milah are joined by podcaster, friend, and newwwww author , Mandii B !!     The ladies talk about the process and revelations of writing the book  “ No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power ” written by Mandii B and WeezyWTF.   The three chat about the unexpected connection between shame and true sexual empowerment,...

This week, Good Moms are joined by Kenya Stevens , spiritual teacher, mother, founder of the Progressive Love Academy, and a woman with not one, but four husbands to talk about polyamory, parenting, and partnership.   Kenya shares her journey from monogamous marriage to multi-partner love, and how she had to build the framework for her lifestyle without any roadmap or community to lean on. We...

This week Good Moms are joined with author, and wellness entrepreneur Shelah Marie to chat about friendships in adulthood, being a bonus mom, how mother wounds show up in platonic relationships, and why your growth isn’t selfish—it’s overdue.   You can expect to hear: (04:10) – Why long-term friendships can quietly hold you back, and how to recognize it! (11:30) &...