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Human beings seem to know when something is of benefit to them.  This applies to sex.  However, generation after generation has rarely questions why we have sex and why it is important to improve why, when and how we have sex.  Why is there a myth women do not like sex and why men looooove sex? 

It is not uncommon (at some point in the marriage) for a husband or wife to make excuses not to sleep with their spouse. It can be painful to a any of the parties in the marriage, so it’s important to understand why this happens. There are many reasons. Sex is more than a biological or physical release; it is emotional. Spiritual. It is ultimately about connecting on a deep level. This is the reas...

The penis has often been thought of only as a tool to have sex, but science has shown that it is also a window to a man's health.  How well do you know your penis?  How well do you understanding its link to your mental, physical and emotional health? Tune as a professional practitioner gives a more information on Men's Sexual Health 

Let's dig a little deeper into what intimacy is in marriage, you don't want to miss this one

The marital race is one where you need to run with a supporting cast, a cast that shares your visions, hopes and desires. No rat can run with a cat, nor frog with a snake. Run with those that will pick you up, motivate you, and inspire you in your marriage.  The question is who are you surrounded with?  

Your marriage becomes poor if you do not add the necessary value. Without value you open it up to people without values to step in and steal from your marriage.

Bring back the 30 second kiss, 3 minute hug, the back rub. When couples quit touching, hugging, and kissing except as a prelude to sex, the passion in the relationship usually dies. Do non touch each other just for sex but for the enhancement of intimacy' and affection

Every marriage is a reflection of the mindset of the couple involved 

Old wounds have many ways of stealing into relationships. They can disrupt a connection, prevent a connection from reaching take-off, or slowly pull at a relationship until it’s gasping for air. Everyone is capable of having a connection that is loving and life-giving – a relationship that allows each person to be completely seen, stripped back to bare, presences gone, flaws and vulnerabilities on...

Ignorance is the lack of knowledge, Ignorance is the catalyst for separation.  If you don't take the time to get to know you spouse, then you are only setting your relationship for problems and possibly failure. 

How does pride destroy relationships?  Pride in marriage refuses to bend, refuses to give grace, refuses to see value in what the other person knows and can teach.

Where there is no vision people perish. 

To pursue growth in your marriage without tools is one of the most frustrating things in a marriage.  To Strip yourself naked to one who is not equipped is a dangerous route to take.  Couples could do themselves a great service by equipping themselves for what their other half will reveal to them. 

Every love scene in a movie eventually falls into place with the perfect timing, perfect words, expressions.  It is just flawless and easy.  But in reality achieving, true intimacy and love is not that easy, it is just about hard work.  The real truth is we need to develop a thick skin, and patience to achieve true intimacy, in spite of the realities in out life 

It is not the physical act that makes great sex but the mental, spiritual, intellectual and social connection the couple shares that makes sex great

Most of us don't want to own up to our part in the problems our marriages face because we are busy blaming others for them.

Many a marriages are dying a slow silent death. Indifference kills many marriages and most of us see but too in a trance to react

Many marriages exist in a sour atmosphere, not because one of them has failed but both have failed.  The question is who sets the agenda and mood in your home?

Marriage is like a tree in a storm. Only trees that are deeply rooted are better suited to survive storms. Is your marriage rooted to overcome storms.

What is your ultimate achievement in your marriage?

99% of the time most of us assume intimacy is sex. However intimacy is not sex. So then what is intimacy. Can a married couple be happy without intimacy?

Being unemployed can take self esteem, sense of value, self worth. But being unemployed does not mean you have lost but it's an opportunity to discover skills you may have dormant and discover ways to bring in income

COVID-19 and the consequent economic effects have meant significant job losses for masses worldwide. Many families have been affected, and our future generation (the youth) are affected both immediately and in the long run. The impacts of unemployment on families include poverty and hardship, strained relationships, poorer health (although the causal relationships are not always clear), and housin...

Family support is important to individuals for a variety of reasons, most of which are related to your personal well-being. Family is important to individuals because it provides benefits to your physical, emotional, and mental health that can't be found anywhere else. Hence no person can be without the support of family 

Africa: a dangerous place to be poor, black and a woman.