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Once you know why something exists! You will know How to use it

For Worse Moments will come in your marriage without fail, thus thinking you will walk away is a poor mindset. For in this world of sin all of us have a for the worse cyclic moments

As a man thinketh in his heart so is he. Many marriages died in the mind before they even died physically. Your thinking will with make or kill your marriage

Selfishness, Self Abuse

Lust is keeping many Christians Prisoner

Lies

Emishado eminengi seyacithwa ngamzwi nje.  Singafundani kulenkulumo ka Seka Brian lo NaBrian

The internet is filled with monetary reports detailing the cost of gender based violence.  But what is the cost?  what release are we paying or losing when a woman is abused?

Trash is material no longer fit for purpose!! Did man lose their purpose somewhere?  What are they doing to regain their value and purpose? 

As many celebrate fathers day, there are equally many unhappy about their fathers being absent.  Absent fathers cause more damage than they will ever know.  Crime, Corruption and many vices would reduce if fathers were present in their children's lives 

Not educating your children about sex has massive consequences, and many parents have lived to see their worst nightmare because of this missed step.  Educating is equipping, equipping is giving your child a tool to work a situation. Alas many children are ill-equipped in the area of sex because parents find it awkward, embarrassing.  Educate your child now before they fulfil the followi...

Sex education, including its spiritual aspects, should be part of a broad health and moral education from kindergarten through grade twelve, ideally carried out by parents

Sex is a beautiful gift given to us by God, however we have over the generations abused it, misused it and many up to now do not enjoy it because of past experiences.  This pauses a challenge upon us a parents to educate and equip our children with sex education that we subscribe to, the best being the one that aligns to God's principles. Educate them before, social media, Hollywood and misal...

Many people suffer low libido, in the bedroom, but no safe space has been created to talk about this low libido.  Some people have high libido and their spouses cannot cope.  What then should happen? 

Many wives are quietly suffering in marriage is there are married to mean who have not left Mommy, but have gone into Marriage with Mommy.   Mommy is so important she is a daily part of the marriage.   What then should wives do if they find themselves in such a situation?

Your spouse will at one point in your marriage fail give you what you want. Be warned don't bring in Peninnah as she may bring tears, depression to your Hannah.

Change is Constant, Change is Inevitable in marriage.  Change is normally not bad, but many end up in divorce court because they have not capacitated themselves to cope with Change

Buying a car can be the trickiest purchases of one's life, year in year people buy cars they can't drive, maintain, fuel, service and insure.  So it is with many marriages.  Many have gone into so many marriages without an understanding themselves and the person they are marrying.  what then should people do to maximise the marriage there are in?

Being different in marriage is a blessing because your spouse was sent to sharpen you and you were also to sent to sharpen them too.  Imagine if a stone was smooth, how would the knife be sharpened?  A rough stone makes a sharp knife, so it is in marriage

Why are modern families busy? If we are to busy what is that we missing out on? And what is it doing to us mentally, physically and many other ways? Have we become too busy to family, to build and grow families that are loving, strong, God fearing and positively impactful in society?

It is important to initiate sex and to know how to do it correctly. This is because, without the act of initiating sex, your spouse may feel unwanted or may even reject you. But In marriage who's responsibility to Initiate Sex, well this week we explore the delicate field of initiating sex, without fear and prejudice 

Why is your marriage got to a boring point? What Went wrong? Who is to blame?  How can we fix this boredom?

Dating in the Christian church is akin to a walking in a landmine field, why?  Instead of the church being a safe place, a place of love and care, it has become a hunting ground, hiding place for uncouth individuals.  This calls for wise view on how one chooses who they date 

We ate a lot more during the pandemic, and some of us are steal eating a lot because of working from.  The question is, how do we lose this weight and begin to eat in a controlled and healthy way?

Experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event can of course affect your mental health. It can turn your whole world upside down and it may be difficult to go about your life like you used to. If you have gone through a deeply traumatizing event and are struggling, you are not alone and there is nothing to be ashamed of.