God Attachment Healing

Send Me Questions on Attachment Reading through the book of Genesis, specifically through the first four chapters, I found that one of the first emotions experienced after the fall was shame. I then noticed that there were 3-4 characteristics of shame, and these are each experienced by us through different experiences in our lives. As I pondered this earlier this year, I made the decision to chang...

Send Me Questions on Attachment The Gospel. The most important truth a person needs to believe and accept as part of their lives to become a Christian. Then, they must live in obedience as they learn to make Jesus not just their Savior but their Lord.  Today, the Gospel has been perverted by many false teachers both from the pulpit and from within the church, and my friend Josh and I discuss how w...

Send Me Questions on Attachment One of the most surprising things I often hear about Christian couples is how they briefly (or sometimes never) discussed the key areas they should agree on before getting married. The three most important ones that I've identified are faith, future, and family.  Most hope that with time these things will just work themselves out, but it often ends up leading t...

Send Me Questions on Attachment For years, marriage has been under attack, and the culture has slowly but surely redefined what it is and what it should look like. Instead of reading the Scriptures and putting into practice the prescription for marriage that has been given to us, many Christians have begun to contemplate that maybe it doesn’t have to be the way the Bible tells us. Maybe it can be...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Church. Politics. Two words that should probably not ever be in the same sentence, but because of where we are in our history, they seem to always be linked to each other in some way shape or form. The concern for me has been, why does it bring so much division? Shouldn’t we be in “full agreement” and of “one mind” when it comes to the issues we must defend and stan...

Send Me Questions on Attachment The fall had a detrimental effect on the history of mankind. Most significantly, it impacted how we relate to God and each other. We find that Adam and Eve's first reaction after the fall was fear and shame, and these feelings are all too familiar for us in relationships today. For us to understand what to do in our relationships, we need to understand how to a...

Send Me Questions on Attachment The Five Love Languages will be impossible to accomplish if the following principles are not established first.  These principles set the right foundation in order for these love languages to be displayed in your relationships. The following passage will set the remainder of this discussion for us.    Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Forgiveness is the most powerful representation we have of Christ living and working through us. It is only through Him that we are able to not only forgive others, but also learn how to love them in the midst of our own pain.  All Christians have learned that God doesn’t call us to do what we can do in our own strength. He calls us to do what requires his power and...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Mental health... 🎭 ...a topic often ignored in Christian circles, but a problem that continues to grow in the church. ⛪️ A couple of factors that I believe are part of the problem are: 1) how we as Christians view mental health, 👀 2) how we view people who seek counseling, 👨‍⚕️ 3) how families and cultural backgrounds associate seeking counseling to weakness, 👨...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Today's episode will explain who you can be pouring into, who can be pouring into you, and how your inner circle is your primary circle of influence. I will elaborate on how your relationship with God is your primary focus in growing as a Christian, and the three areas you'll need to focus on in order to grow in your relationship with Him.  I will also dis...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Today, I will be discussing what we can do when we see our spouse has stopped growing in the Lord. In marriage, we need to be aware of our own walk with Christ to assess where our spouse is in their walk. We must seek to confront and restore our spouse in a loving manner, and then seek to continue in the role God has assigned to each of as husband or wife. As diffic...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Have you often found that we don’t understand ourselves, and because of that, we struggle in being able to understand others?  Even more critical than that is our inability to connect by empathizing with the pain, confusion, and questions others have about life.  But, it is difficult to understand others, if we can’t understand ourselves, and that is where emotional...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Music has a way of speaking into the deepest parts of our hearts, and it is an effective tool used to communicate feelings, thoughts, and experiences to anyone in the world.  Those songs come from the journeys lived by the songwriters so it can be very easy to attach ourselves to people who have experienced the same things that we have.  This is true for both secula...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Can you identify lies that Satan uses to move you away from God? Have you struggled lately with understanding whether God is good, whether He loves you, or whether his instructions from his word actually work in your life?  Tune in as I discuss the types of lies Satan uses, what three lies he tends to use the most, and what you can do about it. Facebook: https://www...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Have you ever wondered why you're suffering? Do you wonder if God is punishing you for past sins? What does it mean when the Bible says that God disciplines his children? Tune in for my interview with my good friend, Travis Formoso, Pastor at West Groton Bible Church, as he defines what biblical discipline means, what some misconceptions about God's discip...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Do you know how your circle of friends impacts you? Would you like to know who you should have in your circle of influence, and who you need in your inner circle to grow in your walk with Christ? Then, this episode is for you. 👍 Tune in to gain an understanding why you may not be growing, and what you can do about it. Essentially, this episode will help you discern...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Do you experience a sense of fear in your relationships with people?  How about with God?  How do you respond to your fear?  Today, we will be learning how fear impacts our ability to relate to people and God.  You will see how fear cause you to have one of three types of responses in your relationships with others and God.  We’ll also discuss how to counter those i...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Why is dating so difficult?  Why does it have to be so complicated, confusing, and painful?  I'll be responding to some of your questions and comments about your ideas or perceptions on dating.  In today's episode, I address your questions and comments on: How much time should pass before officially entering a romantic relationship? Are men willing to take...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Why is dating so difficult?  Why does it have to be so complicated, confusing, and painful?  These are the questions that are being asked in the Christian dating world.  But with Christians having God's Word as a guide to lead us through dating and eventually marriage, what is it that they are getting wrong?   In today's episode, I will... share three fact...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Do you struggle with feelings of shame?  What about shaming thoughts?  If so, you’ll want to tune in to today’s episode. What were the first two things that Adam and Eve did and experience once they ate the fruit?  They were afraid and they felt shame, because they were naked.  So they went and hid.  When they hid and put the fig leaves on, they illustrated one of t...

Send Me Questions on Attachment We will discuss the key role Susan Campbell has in her ministry with the Blue Ridge Pregnancy Center, and also dive into the people she serves.  Since BRPC serves mostly young mothers (and many fathers), I’m interested in knowing more about their perceptions of God and church.  I often find that their views are impacted by their experiences within the church.  They...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Establishing boundaries has been mindset that many Christians have adopted, but I think our understanding of them (which was originally learning how and when to say yes or no to other’s requests of us) has actually morphed into what I call “fear markers”.  This has led to us to establishing “boundaries” that limit our ability to connect.  If, as Christians, we are t...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Welcome back!  This is episode 3, and we’ll be discussing the key role fathers have in teaching their children how to know and experience God through their relationship.  Specifically, we’ll be discussing what we can do for them when they’re young, and how they can know and experience God as a Father so they can grow in their faith.  that they cannot fulfill, and ho...

Send Me Questions on Attachment Welcome! In my first episode, I share with you about my heart behind the podcast.   The core message behind this podcast is that God created us to connect with Him and with others.  I also share some of the key factors that I believe have limited our ability to connect with God and with others.  Lastly, I share a couple of “fun facts” about me so you can get to know...

Send Me Questions on Attachment In today’s episode, I’ll discuss a very common struggle that Christian millennials struggle with. I'll explain what it means to find yourself, how we can't "know ourselves" until we know what the status of our relationship with God and others is, why it's difficult to connect, and what steps we can take to improve our relationship with God a...