Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever

giving (un)bothered

Society EN ↓ 60 episodes

Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Author

Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever

Category

Society

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Latest episode

Jun 10, 2026

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Episodes

Commitment in the age of casual swipes 21.11.2024

In this episode, we’re diving into what it’s like to love intensely in a world that often mistakes passion for love-bombing. Is there such a thing as being too much in modern dating? We share our own stories of loving hard, explore why it can feel so intimidating (or downright scary) for others, and chat about finding the balance between showing up authentically and not freaking people out. Get re...

Part 2: Our sexuality stories 14.11.2024

Part 2: In this episode we're peeling back the layers and diving into our personal stories of discovering, exploring, and embracing our sexualities. Each of us shares the twists, turns, and surprises that have shaped our journeys, from early realizations to game-changing moments. Whether it's the fun, the awkward, or the downright unexpected, we're opening up in ways we never have before. Join us...

Part 1: Our sexuality stories 08.11.2024

In this episode we're peeling back the layers and diving into our personal stories of discovering, exploring, and embracing our sexualities. Each of us shares the twists, turns, and surprises that have shaped our journeys, from early realizations to game-changing moments. Whether it's the fun, the awkward, or the downright unexpected, we're opening up in ways we never have before. Join us for a ra...

Bewitched or bothered? 30.10.2024

In this Halloween special, we’re mixing spooky fun with our usual girly banter! Join us as we play "Bewitched or Bothered?" where each host shares dating stories and personal experiences with a Halloween twist. We’ll dive into scenarios that make us blush or bolt. Are these tales charming—or just plain creepy? Tune in for laughs, chills, and a little Halloween magic! Find us on: - IG: @giving.unbo...

Dating disasters and everything in-between 22.10.2024

In this episode, we’re spilling all the details on our most hilarious and cringe-worthy dating disaster stories. From awkward moments to unexpected mishaps, nothing is off-limits! Plus, we’ll break down some of the best (and worst) pickup lines we’ve encountered. Get ready to laugh, cringe, and relate to the wild ride that is dating! Find us on: - IG: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠ - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unboth...

Likes and lies; social media's toxicity 15.10.2024

In this episode, we discuss the pressure of showing a "perfect life" online and how editing apps like Facetune contribute to unrealistic beauty standards. These trends lead to harmful comparisons, lowering self-esteem and distorting reality. Join us for a discussion on breaking free from online pressures and embracing a healthier digital life. Find us on: - IG: ⁠ @giving.unbothered⁠ - Tiktok: ⁠@gi...

Dating; red flags and green flags 08.10.2024

In this episode, we delve into the essential do's and dont’s of dating by examining green flags and red flags. With a mix of humor and honesty, we share our own stories—highlighting those moments that felt like a breath of fresh air and the warning signs that made us think twice. Find us on: - IG: @giving.unbothered - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered - Youtube: @givingunbothered Hosted on Acast. See aca...

Our last 3 brain cells 01.10.2024

In this episode, we ventured into the wild world of Reddit to tackle some of the most random questions we could find. What started as a lighthearted exploration quickly turned into deep discussions about life, choices, and what it all means. Find us on: - IG: @giving.unbothered - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered - Youtube: @givingunbothered Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Who said 3's a crowd? 24.09.2024

One podcast, three (un)bothered best friends. We’re diving into the highs and lows of dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20's. Join us for candid conversations and chaotic company while we figure it out together 🫶 Find us on: - IG: @giving.unbothered - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered - Youtube: @givingunbothered Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

teaser: giving (un)bothered 19.09.2024

One podcast, three (un)bothered best friends. We’re diving into the highs and lows of dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20's. Join us for candid conversations and chaotic company while we figure it out together 🫶 Find us on: - IG: @giving.unbothered - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered - Youtube: @givingunbothered Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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