giving (un)bothered

🚨 Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Are soulmates real… or just a romantic myth? And should you tell your friend when you absolutely can't stand their partner? 👀 In this week’s episode, we're diving into some of the most controversial dating, relationship, and friendship topics that always start an argument. From emotional cheating and closure to love at first sight, queer dati...

We’re back with another Truth or Drink… and this one got a little too honest 😅 From sapphic toxic traits to the most random (and very real) dating icks, plus everything that comes with one-night stands… nothing was off limits. We also get into the importance of being the hottest ex (because let’s be real, it matters.) So grab a drink, press play, and come get messy with us as we dive into queer d...

In today’s episode of giving (un)bothered, we sit down with Roxy Bourdillon, award-winning writer, author of What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story of Sexuality and Self-Discovery, and Editor-in-Chief of DIVA Magazine, the leading magazine for LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary people. Roxy has interviewed some huge names including Emma Stone, Rachel Weisz, and the cast of The L Word, co-hosted a podcast al...

In Part 2 with 2D2M, we’re getting into the chaos with our signature game “Bothered or Unbothered” and let’s just say… nothing is off limits. We’re talking: •Socks on or OFF during intimacy 👀 •Being the “experiment” in a girl’s sexuality •When she refuses to use toys •The craziest things we’ve been asked in bed 😭 •Feet kinks and our experiences •2 months in and still not exclusive 🚩 •When she d...

This week on giving (un)bothered, things get very chaotic with Rose & Ellie from 2D2M (Two Dykes Two Mics) 💥 And this is only Part 1… 👀 Known for their unfiltered takes, they join us for an episode that completely spirals—in the best, most unhinged way possible. And honestly… nothing is off limits. We somehow end up diving into: - s*x tapes - why femmes get more hate in the queer community -...

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re exposing the real sapphic signs you like her more than a friend — from getting jealous (but pretending you’re chill), to fantasising about her in your dreams. Whether you’re in a queer situationship, catching unexpected feelings for a friend, or deep in your bisexual/lesbian awakening, we’re breaking it all down with chaotic honesty, personal stories, and th...

Season 3 is HERE and we’re starting messy, heated, and unapologetically. In this episode of giving (un)bothered, we spiral over our obsession with Heated Rivalry, unpack the tension, the chemistry, and why we can’t stop thinking about it 👀 Then we turn up the chaos playing Just a “Phase”, the queer card game by Ali Saarela, answering all your burning questions about dating,intimacy, friendships,...

As 2025 comes to a close, we’re unwrapping our sapphic dating lives. Think of it as the ultimate end-of-year recap, but messier. In this episode, we dive into our personal “Dating Unwrapped” stats: the unforgettable highs, the total disasters, awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, and everything in between. From ghosting fails to swoon-worthy moments, we’re sharing what this year really taught u...

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re deep-diving into The L Word — the iconic, chaotic, ahead-of-its-time series that transformed queer TV history and paved the way for modern LGBTQ+ representation in media. If you’ve ever searched for The L Word analysis, character breakdowns, or why this show still has such a cultural grip, this episode is for you. We get into everything: ✨ The L Word charac...

Long-distance relationships are NOT for the weak and on today’s episode, we’re unpacking everything that keeps a long distance relationship alive… and everything that can ruin it. From FaceTime dates, to over-communicating vs. under-communicating, to figuring out how to stay independent while still being obsessed with your partner. We’re breaking down the real, unfiltered LDR experience. If you're...

We sit down with Katie, founder of queer-owned s*x toy company Labeless, to unpack labels in the bedroom: top, bottom, pillow princess, and everything in between. Plus, our first experiences with women and the awkward truth about visiting a s*x shop for the first time. Find us on: Instagram: @giving.unbothered Tiktok: @giving.unbothered Youtube: @givingunbothered Find Labeless on: Instagram: @labe...

We’re back with another Truth or Drink, and things got way too real. From sapphic fantasies to virginity stories we probably shouldn’t have shared, this one’s pure chaos in the best way. Grab a drink and dive into the mess of queer dating, lesbian love, and our very own red flag behaviour 🌶️ Find us on:  Instagram: ⁠ @giving.unbothered⁠ Tiktok: ⁠ @giving.unbothered⁠ Youtube: ⁠ @givingunbother...

We’re answering your questions about gold star lesbians, baby gays, and queer heartbreak. Real listener confessions, breakup advice, and chaotic first-date stories: unfiltered and very gay. 🌈💔 Find us on:  Instagram: ⁠ @giving.unbothered⁠ Tiktok: ⁠ @giving.unbothered⁠ Youtube: ⁠ @givingunbothered⁠ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back, season 2 of giving (un)bothered is here! 🎉 And we’re starting off strong with lesbian hot takes: all the unfiltered, spicy opinions you’ve been thinking (but maybe not saying out loud). From controversial takes on queer dating to the unspoken truths about lesbian friendships and community dynamics, we’re laying it all on the table. 💌 Don’t forget to subscribe and drop your hottest ta...

Your first lesbian crush? Been there. Obsessed? Absolutely. Over it? …Eventually. In this episode, we dive deep into the sapphic red flags you should run from (👀), the ones we controversially find kinda hot (don’t judge us), and the emotional chaos of getting over your first lesbian crush.  From the seductive mystery of a girl who lovebombs just enough to keep you hooked, to the heartbreak o...

In this unfiltered and hilarious episode, we’re getting real about what happens behind closed doors. From sexting fails to our biggest bedroom icks, nothing is off-limits. We dive into the juicy debate: fingering, scissoring or strapping – which one hits the spot? 👀 Plus, we’re talking threesomes, swinging, and what turns us on vs. what sends us running. Whether you're queer, curious, or just her...

In this episode, we dive deep into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships. We’re joined by Kelsey and Becky, a couple who fell in love 5,000 miles apart after matching on Hinge — and yes, there was a ghosting plot twist 👀 From navigating a transatlantic relationship (UK to LA) to their first in-person meeting, we unpack how they’re making long-distance love work. We talk conflict resol...

This week, we're joined by our friend Amy to talk all things heartbreak, healing, and sapphic dating chaos. Amy shares how she rebuilt her confidence, stepped back into dating, and how it felt getting ghosted by the same girl as co-host Alana 👀💔 We unpack red flags, WLW dating patterns, navigating trust after betrayal, and what healing really looks like. We also dive into spiritual healing after...

In this episode, we sit down with queer writer, artist, and pottery studio owner Megan Elliott-Hewson to dive into the beauty and complexity of queer marriage, building a life in creative partnership, and the unfiltered truth about writing queer fiction. 👉 We talk: 💍 The honest reality of queer marriage 🖋️ Writing queer novels in a straight-centered industry 🫖 Creating safe, soft spaces through...

In this episode, we’re joined by Moe Ari Brown (they / him) — Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert and a licensed therapist—to dive deep into the complexities of queer dating in 2025. We talk about everything from label fatigue to performance pressure on dating apps, and what Hinge has learned about how LGBTQ+ people swipe, flirt, and connect differently than straight users. Moe shares insights on...

Being queer in your 20s means dating drama, messy breakups, and a few…questionable choices. This week, we play truth or drink and confess it all—from kinks to the ex we’re still not over. Find us on:  Instagram: ⁠ @giving.unbothered ⁠ Tiktok: ⁠ @giving.unbothered ⁠ Youtube: ⁠ @givingunbothered⁠ #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelat...

Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people? In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. From spiraling over mixed signals to learning how to show up more securely, we’re unpacking what it really feels like to be in these dynamics — and how we’re slowly breaking the pattern. If you’ve ever...

We're talking all things WLW sex in this weeks unfiltered episode! We answer YOUR most asked questions: - Is scissoring actually a thing? - How do WLW deal with long hair during sex? - What's a myth vs fact when it comes to lesbian intimacy? Plus, we dive into the serious gaps in sex education when it comes to queer relationships, and how growing up without proper info left many of us confused and...

In this episode, we’re joined by queer model, actor, writer and artist Abisha for a candid and inspiring conversation. She opens up about being best friends with her ex-girlfriend—and how her current girlfriend has become part of the friendship too. We talk about meeting her girlfriend online during the pandemic, their bold U-Haul love story, and what it’s really like navigating relationships with...

Sapphic dating is a wild ride and we’ve made every mistake in the book. In this episode, we roast ourselves and unpack the biggest sapphic dating mistakes we’ve made so you don’t have to. From emotionally investing before even meeting IRL, to losing ourselves in situationships with women who never even knew our last names — we’ve been there, done that, and are finally learning our lessons. Listen...