Give It To Me Strait

In the season finale of  Give It To Me Strait , we tackle the ultimate relationship landmine:  the exes . Can you ever truly be friends with your ex? If yes, under what conditions? And is this something only the gays do… or can the straights survive it too? Joining Tim are  Kelvin , affectionately known as  SaltyPotato , and Dave from Spain/ Japan , as they unpack boundaries, emotional maturity, j...

In this unforgettable episode of  Give It To Me Strait , we sit down with  Shawn Lim , queer and gender fluid founder, creator, podcaster, and writer behind  @mediumshawn , for a raw and deeply moving conversation about identity, resilience, and the courage to live authentically. Shawn’s story begins in their teenage years. Arrested twice by the age of sixteen, involved in gang fights, and familia...

What does it mean to belong everywhere and nowhere at the same time? This week, we sit down with Nicholas Chan, former Managing Director of Tatler Asia and TimeOut, to talk about growing up as a Third Culture Kid and how that shapes identity, ambition, relationships, and the way we see success. From moving between Sydney, Vancouver, Berlin and Singapore, to navigating reverse culture shock, changi...

On this episode of  Tim and Ben, Give It To Me Strait , we sit down with someone who changed Tim’s life in ways he’s still discovering — the iconic Shareen Wong. This conversation goes deep into what success really means, whether it ever feels like enough, and why we keep chasing the next milestone only to wonder if we’re any happier when we finally get there. Shareen opens up about her early radi...

After a short break,  Give It To Me Strait  returns with one of our most personal and heartfelt episodes yet — a raw reflection on life, time, death, and family. When the world keeps moving even as we stand still in grief or heartbreak, how do we make peace with it? Ben opens up about his most difficult breakup — one that turned his whole life upside down and forced him to confront loneliness and...

This week on  Give It To Me Strait , we lace up with Hib Shamir — founder of Singapore’s pioneering run club  Run.jpg and a man on track to become one of the youngest finishers of all six world major marathons. Nicknamed  “The Flash” , Hib opens up about running past stereotypes, what it means to defy expectations as a Malay athlete, and the untold scandals of run clubs (spoiler: some runners don’...

This week on  Give It To Me Strait, we’re talking about friendship — not the surface-level kind, but the deeper energy that defines our connections. As we get older, time feels more precious, and it matters who we choose to spend it with. It’s not always about shared interests or common ground. Sometimes it’s about how someone makes you feel when you’re in the same room — the energy between you. W...

In this episode, we speak with Viviane Then, a movement specialist who discovered her  demisexuality  later in life. A life-changing accident pushed her to leave behind a successful corporate career and step into an entirely new path — one that she’s now thriving in. Viviane shares how movement, when done right, can subconsciously shift your headspace and unlock clarity. Her story is one of resili...

Jörg Dietzel, former Global Head of Brand and Creative at Audi, has lived all over the world but still calls Singapore home. After 25 years here, he handed in his PR and reflects on what that chapter meant. From moving here at 39 to navigating success, setbacks, and the corporate climb, Jorg shares what he’s learned about ambition, identity, and what life really is when the titles fade.

We’re all chasing something. Success, happiness, maybe just a nod of approval from our 16-year-old selves. But what does “making it” actually look like? Is it ticking off society’s checklist and then wondering what’s next? Is it all downhill once you’ve done it all? Season 2 is here with a brand new studio and fully filmed episodes. We’re diving into life’s big and sometimes ridiculous questions f...

In the heartfelt finale of "Give It To Me Strait," we explore how hobbies can transform your life. From simple activities like walking to luxury pursuits like collecting watches and sneakers, discover the profound impact hobbies have on mental health, purpose, and identity. Join us as Ben shares his journey as a sneakerhead, turning a $200 investment into a $2000 per pair collection with...

Fall In! National Service Chronicles Get ready to LOL as we dive into the wild world of National Service, the mandatory rite of passage for every Singaporean man—gay, straight, or bi. In this episode, our dynamic duo, who first bonded in the army, take you on a rollercoaster ride through their National Service days 17 years ago. Relive the laughs, the challenges, and the unforgettable moments that...

Pride isn't just about parties - it's a fight for equality. In this episode, we’ll explore what pride means in 2024. Let’s consider that there are still many countries where being gay is illegal and even fatal, meanwhile other countries are legalising gay marriage and repealing archaic laws like Singapore’s 377a. Tim, despite not getting involved in Pride parties, will share why Pride rema...

Pride Month is just around the corner, and we're celebrating with our first-ever "Give It To Me Strait Quiz Off: Lingo Edition!" In this special episode, our producer Stuart Crowley takes on the role of quiz master, putting Ben and Tim to the test with lingo from both straight and gay communities. Will Ben spill the "tea"? Will Tim throw some "shade"? These words,...

In this episode, we chat about the delicate topic of being gay at work. We'll share tips on how to have respectful and supportive conversations with gay colleagues, including what questions to ask and which to avoid. Is it tough being gay and navigating the workplace? Should you come out to your colleagues right away, or take your time? Will people judge your lifestyle? We'll discuss these...

Is dating truly challenging in Singapore today? In an era where numerous options are just a swipe away, one might wonder whether the convenience of dating apps makes it easier or harder to forge meaningful connections. Are spontaneous, romantic "meet cutes" at places like the gym or train station still a reality, or have digital devices doomed these serendipitous encounters? For straight...

In this riveting episode, Tim reveals a startling story of coming out to his parents—and his landlord as well! For those growing up straight, life seems straightforward—no grand declarations required. But what intense drama and unexpected turns await during a gay person's 'coming out' journey? Why is representation so transformative? And how can it profoundly influence those on their p...

In the debut episode of Give It To Me Strait , hosts Tim and Ben dive headfirst into the quirky stereotypes of gay and straight men. They explore not just the quirky contrasts but also the delightful commonalities that bind us. Having met 17 years ago in the army, their paths diverged only to converge again through mutual heartbreaks. Now, whether gay, straight, or anywhere in between, Tim and Ben...

Strap in for 'Give It To Me Strait' – a rollercoaster of love, laughs, and life's curveballs with two Singaporean pals. Army buddies turned soul-searchers, we dive deep and dish out the real talk, spiced with humor. From heartache to hilarity, it's the no-holds-barred podcast that connects and cracks you up. Ready to join the ride?