Girls in Real Life

Happy Monday girlies! It's my wedding week, so I thought it fitting to talk about my celibacy journey as it is quickly coming to a close. Choosing celibacy after already having sex, living with my partner, and becoming a mom wasn’t an easy decision. I battled with guilt, shame, and the feeling that maybe it didn’t even matter anymore. But deep down, I knew that honoring God with my body wasn’...

Happy Monday girlies! This episode is just as much for me as it is for you lol.  The problem isn’t that you can’t stay on track. The problem is that you keep choosing habits that work against you. A lot of times, self-sabotage looks like giving up completely just because you slipped up once. You missed a workout, so you stop going altogether. You had one unproductive day, so you throw the whole we...

Happy Monday girlies! We celebrated Ace's second birthday this past weekend, and I've been feeling so emo 😭. Two years into motherhood, I’ve learned a lot—what works, what doesn’t, and what was worth it in the long run. In this episode, I’m sharing 7 things I don’t regret doing as a first-time mom. From sleep training to screen time, these are the choices that have made my journey smoot...

Happy Monday girlies! Missed you so much last week, and I'm glad to be back ❤️  Today's episode is about downplaying our calling. How many times have you dismissed your assignment from God because you thought it wasn’t a big deal? How often have you let doubt, pride, or fear convince you that what God asked you to do doesn’t matter? Too often, we minimize our calling, forgetting that God...

Happy Monday girlies! For the longest time, I prided myself on being independent. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to take my husband’s last name, I struggled with the idea of submission, and the thought of “domesticating” made me uneasy. But as I prepare for marriage, God has been softening my heart and renewing my mind about what it truly means to be a wife. In this episode, I’m getting real and vulner...

Happy Monday girlies! Like I mentioned a few episodes ago, life feels like a lot right now. And if you’re overwhelmed, just know you’re not alone. Lately, I’ve been trying to find ways to get organized, reduce stress, and actually feel like I have my life together (at least a little bit). In this episode, I’m sharing things I’m personally implementing, like Notion, digital planning, and prioritiza...

Happy Monday girlies! Feeling like your prayers are going unanswered? Like the fruits of your labor are nowhere to be seen? In this episode, we’re diving into the comforting truth that God has not forgotten about you. Through heartfelt stories from the Bible and real-life reflections, we’ll explore what it means to trust God in seasons of waiting and uncertainty. You’ll hear how God’s silence does...

Happy Monday girlies! Have you ever prayed for something, received it, and then found yourself feeling overwhelmed by the very blessing you asked for? In this candid episode, I’m opening up about the weight of answered prayers and the unexpected challenges that come with them. From career opportunities to relationships, parenting, and personal growth, blessings can sometimes feel heavy — but that...

Happy Monday girlies! In this episode, we dive deep into the truth that God’s calling on your life doesn’t disappear when you make mistakes. Drawing inspiration from the story of Saul in the book of Samuel, we explore how even after falling short, God’s anointing remained on his life. Using biblical principles and real-life examples, we’ll discuss how sin and shortcomings don’t disqualify you from...

Happy Monday and Happy New Year girlies! We all know that life can feel overwhelming, but what if I told you it’s really not that deep? In this episode, we’re talking about how to stop magnifying your problems and start putting them in perspective. It’s easy to feel like life’s challenges are all-consuming, but by shifting your mindset and leaning into faith, you can find peace and clarity even in...

Happy Monday girlies! 2025 is here, and I’m sharing my vision for the year ahead—what I’m praying for, believing God for, and the goals I’ve set to align with His purpose for my life. This isn’t just about resolutions; it’s about walking into the new year with intention and faith. Whether you’re setting goals of your own or looking for encouragement to approach the year ahead with faith and intent...

Happy Monday girlies! As 2024 comes to a close, I’m taking a moment to reflect on the year that’s passed and all the moments that shaped me. In this episode, I’m sharing my personal victories, lessons learned from the challenges, and how this year has impacted my growth. From unexpected blessings to hard-fought battles, join me as I look back on what this year has taught me and how I’m preparing f...

Happy Monday girlies! Today's episode is all about fasting and the important role it plays on our spiritual journey. It's more than just skipping meals—it’s a powerful spiritual discipline that strengthens our connection with God and allows us to remove distractions and seek clarity. We dive into the "why" and "how" of fasting, how it impacts our spiritual growth, and...

Happy Monday girlies! It's officially December which means 2024 is coming to a close, but the year isn’t over yet! In this episode, we’re diving into how to do an intentional end-of-year reset that will leave you feeling refreshed, focused, and ready to conquer 2025. We’ll reflect on the highs and lows of the year, tie up loose ends, revisit your goals, and prepare your space, mind, and heart...

Happy Thanksgiving week girlies! In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of discipline and why it’s essential for aligning with God’s purpose for your life. Together, we’ll explore the differences between obedience, self-control, and discipline—and why true discipline goes beyond fleeting motivation or desire. Discover how to root your discipline in something greater than yourself,...

Happy Monday girlies! Today we are discussing something that almost everyone (if not everyone) experiences (or has experienced) - imposter syndrome. The feeling of not being good enough, doubting your abilities, and questioning your position. Mariah dives into 3 simple mindset shifts that will change the way you view imposter syndrome forever. You'll learn how to embrace your unique gifts, st...

Happy Monday girlies! Today's episode is all about the waiting season. Many of us find ourselves in a limbo state between blessings, wondering when our next breakthrough will finally come. It's never easy or fun, but it is necessary. In this episode, Mariah explores why waiting seasons are essential for growth, faith, and preparation for what's to come. She uses the the journey of t...

Happy Monday girlies! Today is a special episode because Mariah shares something she's been keeping a secret for the past month 🤫 Listen as her and her fiance divulge their engagement story and share insight on what the experience has been like for them both.  SHARE YOUR STORY: Want your story featured on an upcoming episode? Head over to our website and tell us everything: www.girlsirlpod.c...

Happy Monday girlies! The time has come for our annual Spooky Season True Crime episode 👀 I have my dear friend  @TRUECRIMEKEN   join me to tell us the story of a military man who murders his pregnant wife in order to run away with the life insurance money. Sound pretty cut and dry right? Think again! This story is filled with twists, turns, and betrayal 😳 I hope you enjoy this 'Crime Junki...

Happy Monday girlies! Do you ever find yourself reminiscing about the "good old days" and feeling like your best moments are behind you? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the trap of romanticizing the past and why it’s preventing you from embracing the beauty and potential of your present and future. Using the story of Job as our foundation, Mariah explores the dangers of consta...

Happy Monday girlies! In this episode, Mariah dives deep into the complexities of modern relationships, especially for Christian women. In today’s society, the lines between dating and marriage have become blurred. Men often want the perks of a wife without making the commitment, and women feel pressured to give everything in order to prove their worth.  Join Mariah as she opens up about her own e...

Happy Monday girlies! Feeling like the year has slipped through your fingers? Ready to hit the reset button and make the last three months count? In this episode, we dive deep into how to take advantage of the remaining months of 2024 and set the stage for an unstoppable 2025! 💪✨ We’ll reflect on what’s worked so far, realign with your goals, and reignite the fire to finish the year stronger tha...

Happy Monday girlies! Today's episode is all about the importance of growing p emotionally and spiritually by learning the art of self control. Mariah dives deep into how impulsive decisions often lead us away from our purpose and can derail your life. With a focus on obedience to God, we'll discuss practical strategies to strengthen your self-discipline, resist temptation, and align you...

Happy Monday girlies! Today, Mariah is sharing her advice as it pertains to moving in with your partner. This episode will focus on the struggles Mariah faced when it came time for her to move in with her boyfriend, why the transition was so difficult, and what she wish she knew before ever moving in with him. In addition, she also offers advice on how to navigate the quirks and challenges that co...

Happy Monday girlies! If you've been a long time listener of the pod, then you know that one of our core values is to live a fearless life. But what does that mean? What does it look like?  Today, Mariah discusses the differences (or similarities rather) of fear and faith, how to stop letting fear paralyze you, how to strengthen your faith, and SO much more! You’ll discover practical tips and...