Girls and the City

Twenty-something girls: friend… or foe? In this conversation, we discuss girls in their 20s versus 30s and dating guys who are good on paper. Join us as we explore the pitfalls of focusing solely on resumes and financial success in relationships and dive into the importance of genuine connections and friendships over superficial checkboxes, as such approaches may lead to short-lived partnerships.

This week, we address a simple but important question: How do you know if you are good in bed? In this episode, we dive deeper into relationships, boundaries, and self-worth. We explore Carrie’s search for validation (according to Zuzana), how crucial it is to stick to your boundaries, and the impact of compulsive habits on the way we experience love. We wrap it up by discussing what actually mean...

When you date someone, how many people become emotionally involved? When you sleep with someone, are you screwing the family? In this episode, we explore the themes of anxiety, relationships, and family dynamics. Explore the complexities of dating men with baggage, and the impact of family expectations on relationships. The conversation explores how family dynamics can impact romantic relationship...

Are we dating the same person over and over again? In this episode, we get real about our dating patterns and the messy in-between. We talk about the whole “roster” culture, friends-with-benefits situations, and how our childhood and past relationships shape the way we show up now. Following the next Sex and the City episode on our list, “The Fuck Buddy,” we unpack when “casual” dating and hookups...

Do you have to play games to make a relationship work? In this episode, we dig deeper into a conversation about therapy, its stigma, as we explore the concept of games in relationships, questioning whether they are necessary. Join us as the discussion delves into the dynamics of love bombing, emotional availability, and the importance of communication and vulnerability in fostering healthy relatio...

As Carrie once said, the most exciting thing about love can be its exquisite pain . But how much pain is too much? In this episode, we dive into the messy side of modern romance, emotional masochism, fetishes, and the lengths we go for love. Carrie spirals back into her obsession with Big (again), Charlotte channels her passion into shoes, and Miranda endures some painfully public PDA. From obsess...

Are we evolving past relationships? Explore the evolution of relationships as we discuss the importance of seeking substance over appearance, personal experiences, and the dynamics of masculinity and femininity in modern relationships. Dive deep into unpacking topics around reproductive health, societal expectations, and the emotional complexities of dating, ultimately concluding that while relati...

We’re digging into the messy reality of love, money, and power, because yeah...relationships aren’t just about feelings, they’re about who holds the cards. Why is it so damn hard for us women (and men!) to own our success without guilt? How does money really change people? And how does a “caste system” play a role in dating? We’re also breaking down the awkward “I love you” power plays and whether...

Can you change a man? Navigate the intricate dance of love as we explore how grief, change, and communication reshape our more personal bonds. Join us to uncover how setting boundaries, understanding personal routines, and embracing evolving expectations are key to a lasting relationship. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Grief and Relationships 00:05 Cultural Reflections and Humor 02:07 Summarizing Life...

Are we willing to believe anything to date? Still believing in relationship myths ? Join us as we unravel the complexities of cliche love myths, while navigating friendships and age gaps to uncovering the surprising truths about emotional connections and self-discovery.

On a date… and makes out with another woman? Cheating or just how dating works now? In this episode, we dig into what actually counts as cheating today. Not just the obvious ones, but the quieter betrayals too: the lies you tell your friends, your family, even yourself. We talk about why going back to a toxic ex is (still) a bad idea, and why it doesn’t matter if you're gay or straight, the princi...

Join us as we explore the complexities of relationships, emotional health, and personal growth. Reflect on Miranda's struggles with success and loneliness, Charlotte's romantic misadventures, and Carrie and Big's rekindled connection, ultimately emphasizing the importance of relationships in our lives.

Is it better to fake it than be alone? This week, we dive into the insecurities that come with not being in a relationship (especially after a confidence-crushing breakup). From getting stood up to overthinking our own desirability and debating if being in an okay relationship is better than none at all, we’re asking the hard but important questions. We also get into why female pleasure still feel...

Join us as we navigate the modern dating scene, from decoding dating app dilemmas to questioning why 30-something singles are sometimes labeled "freaks." We also tackle everything from societal beauty standards to the age-old debate of genuine connection versus algorithmic matches. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 02:57 Life Updates and Personal Experiences 06:00 Dating Experience...

Are there some things that are better unsaid? In this episode, we dive into the messiness of honesty in relationships. We get into the awkwardness of dirty talk, unsolicited period predictions, and whether telling your partner about a harmless crush is respectful or reckless. One of us leans toward radical transparency, the other prefers selective silence. The bottom line? Honesty isn’t one-size-f...

What are the break-up rules?  Join us with our special guest as we navigate the complexities of breakups, particularly during Valentine's week, and explore the unique challenges of dating in big cities, while we reflect on established "rules" for breakups. The discussion also touches upon potential differences in how men and women process emotions and approach trust in relationships. Furthermore,...

Are relationships the religion of the nineties? Catch up with us and delve into the complexities of relationships, exploring themes of emotional intimacy, religion, societal expectations, and the significance of family dynamics. We ponder if there is tension between personal desires and familial rituals? There is surely an evolving nature of relationships as a form of modern religion, and the chal...

How often is normal? Sorry we ask, but doesn’t everyone want to know? Those who are in a dry spell are particularly curious, and then there are those who simply can’t get enough. We also cover bedroom etiquette because we all have fun stories of how we let something slip.

As I watched Laney tear open a terry cloth baby bib with the same enthusiasm she once reserved for tearing off rock stars’ pants, I couldn’t help but wonder, was I next? This time we discuss the topic that has been on every woman’s mind at least once in their lives, motherhood. Some consider it to be their ultimate divine calling and others don’t want to be anywhere near a child. But it’s more tha...

In a city of great expectations, is it time to settle for what you can get? We live in a world of an overwhelming amount of options, making dating exhausting. In this episode, we discuss if it’s better to simply settle for someone who loves you more than you love them.

“Were threesomes the new sexual frontier?” According to Carrie, everything seemed to come in threes: first class, business class, and economy or full fat, low fat, and skimmed. Is the saying "good things come in threes" applicable to relationships? Join us as we try to figure out if this notion still holds up and if we are getting it totally wrong with monogamy.

“In a city like New York, with its infinite possibilities, has monogamy too much to expect?” We are coming in with another portion of hot takes. But this time are talking about being exclusive and if we are in a world where situationships are the norm and exclusivity has become a cumbersome investment. And on the other hand, we discuss what we are willing to give and get in return.

“How many of us out there are having great sex with people we’re ashamed to introduce to our friends?” Some of us have feelings for people we are ashamed to be seen in public with or introduce to our friends. But it so happens that secret relationships sometimes offer a deeper kind of intimacy because they are so hidden and sheltered from the rest of the world.

“Where’s the line between the professional girlfriend and just plain professional?” Buckle up because this is a spicy one. We talk about the different powers people use to get what they want and of course, we touch upon the power of money and the power of sex and the occasional relationship between the two.

“Are men in their twenties the new designer drug?” Join us in trying to understand when it’s right to date someone your age, older, or younger than yourself. As we shadow the SATC characters through their romantic adventures, we explore the different roles one might take depending on the age difference in either direction between them and their partners.