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Show notes: 00:07 90% of people with a penis who are between 35 and 55 have struggled to get an erection firm enough for intercourse 03:17 What is Erectile Self Efficacy? 03:40 Autonomous sexual erections aren’t realistic 04:42 The alternative to panicking and apologizing 04:52 The "Good Enough Sex" Model 05:26 It's almost always the man's choice to stop having sex 07:32 Where did we go wrong in h...

Who's leveling up in the game of life? Raise a toast and light some virtual candles because GETSOME turns one today!   Listen to the three knowledge bombs dropped over the past year that expanded our minds like cosmic jelly beans. Disclaimer If our lens on sex resonates with you, Michelle’s first book— Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer — is now available on A...

How would you answer "How do you do oral sex?"  without going into graphic detail about how you actually do oral sex? We came up with the best analogy. Tune in to feel all warm and fuzzy. Also, if you are looking for great oral sex tips and tricks check out; Coral:   https://getcoral.app/ OMGyes:   https://start.omgyes.com/join Disclaimer If our lens on sex resonates with you, Michelle’s first boo...

Today, we are going to take you on a journey exploring the intersection of eating disorders and sexuality. This episode will not only be helpful for clinicians but also for people who have struggled to experience pleasure in their body stemming from complicated relationships with food and body image. We sit down with Kelli Young, the only Certified Sex Therapist in Canada with a combined expertise...

Ever wondered how sex workers balance personal and professional lives? Are you curious about their clients and partners? Our highly-anticipated guests Elizabeth Weisz and Katherine Van Meyl from Season 1  are back and ready to get personal. Ever heard of the term Internalized Whorephobia? You're about to. This is a conversation you won't want to miss. Show Notes: Who are the clients? Sliding scale...

De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar  is Missouri's first Black Christian AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, who helps clients navigate the intersection of faith and sexuality, particularly for those who may be struggling with guilt or shame around their sexual desires and behaviors. We talk about how De-Andrea removes shame from conversations around sex by using scripture that supports pleasure, a pro choice, o...

Lisa and Michelle play Six Degrees of Sue Johanson  Sue’s first birth control clinic at Don Mills Collegiate was where Michelle went to highschool Michelle and Lisa reminisce about their personal sex education memories from high school Lisa meets the lovely and still spunky Sue Pregnancy and sex Getting acquainted with your vulva after giving birth Disclaimer If our lens on sex resonates with you,...

Curious about the difference between mainstream porn and ethical porn/feminist porn? Do you even know where to find it? Who better to ask than the engaging and dynamic Sonya JF Barnett, RP.  It’s rare to find an ethical porn producer/director, turned intimacy coordinator, (yes, we’ll talk about that) turned sex therapist!  Show Notes: 0:24   Playboy Magazine 02:06 Risk Aware Consensual Kink RACK 0...

Join Canadian Certified Sex Therapist, Michelle Fischler as she embarks on a mission to inspire humans to embrace their sexuality, igniting a sexual revolution that spans across cultures, belief systems, and lifestyles. Disclaimer If our lens on sex resonates with you, Michelle’s first book— Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer — is now available on Audible. &nb...

If you are having sex you should know about Sensate Focused Therapy, a widely used technique amongst sex therapists. This form of therapy helps support clients in getting out of their head and into their bodies when giving or receiving touch. It can be useful for a range of different relationships like those with a history of pelvic pain, people with penises experiencing anxiety around getting an...

Various organizations across Canada are advocating for the decriminalization of sex work. This includes the Canadian Association of Social Workers, who’s code of ethics seeks to balance the protection of individuals and the principle of doing no harm with autonomy and self-determination. The advocacy only applies to the selling of sex between two consenting adults. Today’s guests, Elizabeth Weisz...

A revolutionary anti-government protest in Iran was sparked on Sept 16th, 2022, after 22-year-old Iranian woman Mahsa Amini was picked up and detained by Iran’s "morality police" for showing too much hair. About three months have passed, and innocent lives have been lost yet the people of Iran continue to hold their ground and fight back. For women, for life, for freedom.  We invited our guest “Ir...

Has anyone ever told you that your sexual concerns are all in your head? Well, that’s not always the case. There is another treatment option worth exploring. Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy can help treat sexual and pelvic concerns such as painful intercourse or penetration, early or delayed ejaculation, and can also support the recovery from gender affirmation surgery. Excited to learn more?  We invit...

Sexual liberation is not a fresh concept these days. But, when we mention a sex club, what comes to mind for you? A space that allows curiosity to unfold surrounded by like-minded people?  This time we invited Fatima Mechtab (a.k.a. ‘Miss F’) to introduce us to the sex club, Oasis Aqualounge – a water themed, adult private membership spa and lounge in downtown Toronto.  Shownotes: 01’47 Oasis Aqua...

Did you know that the average person will spend a third of their life in the menopause transition? We invite Certified Sex Therapist Nicole Schroeder this time to talk about ways to get comfortable with this stage of our life; How Generation X is pushing forward the conversation about menopause more than any other generation and, where to go for help when you are struggling with symptoms of perime...

Fatima Kamenge (She/Her), an Auntie, Human, and Joybonbon, is the founder of Social Ausum, a consulting firm based in Toronto, Canada that helps business owners build more socially responsible enterprises.  What does this business consultant do in their spare time you ask? A sensuality workshop of course!   Fatima is a true entrepreneur In this episode we talk about: Burundian Culture and Sex How...

The politics of sex in Mexico contradict its modern metropolis. I speak with Sexologist, Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano and Sex Therapist Dr. Maria de Lourdes Martínez Staines about how traditional religious and patriarchal belief systems in Mexico continue to reinforce the prevalence of gender based violence, incest, abortion access, and LGBTQ hate crimes. Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano e...

Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT), also sometimes referred to as sexual surrogacy, was first introduced by sex researchers, Masters and Johnson. They introduced the concept of sexual surrogacy to support un-partnered individuals to work towards sexual goals with another person in a controlled and supportive environment. A Certified Sex Therapist trained in SPT has the ability to refer a client to a...

Do you ever wonder about how the intergenerational consequences of Apartheid continue to influence South Africa's dating scene? I speak with Rahim Thawer, currently living between Johannesburg and Cape Town as a visiting international scholar about how dating and socializing continue to be impacted by racial divisions that have yet to be dismantled.  Rahim is South Asian (Indian), Muslim, and Quee...

Show Notes 00:26 What is a sexual narrative? 01:02 Sexual facts Vs interpretations 01:44 Adding flexibility to your sexual narrative 02:24 Sex therapy topics that come up in my practice 02:38 Fear of sex 02:48 Arranged marriages 03:13 Open relationships 03:23 Low sex relationships 03:26 Affair recovery  03:53 Sex addiction 04:37 Gender Journey 04:41 Sex therapy clients and their personalities 05:2...

Show Notes 00:00 Introducing Michelle Fischler 00:24 Modeling vulnerability  00:43 Building Trust 00:50 Master’s Degree in Social Work 00:54 Oppression and disparities in power 01:07 South Africa during apartheid 01:12 Sun City 01:17 Anti-oppressive framework 01:20 Racism 01:31 Complicit in ongoing systems of racism, inequality, and injustice 01:42 Current knowledge and research on sex is based on...

Show Notes 00:15 Sex therapist lead up 00:33 Psychotherapy practice  00:45 Humour and Optimism 01:01 What kind of sex life do you want? 01:05 Culture 01:15 Providing Sex Therapy for ten years  01:24 For audiences 18 and older  Disclaimer If our lens on sex resonates with you, Michelle’s first book— Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer — is now available on Audib...