Get Real with Jasmin

If I have to go back and talk to the 23y/o me that was crying on the yoga mat every day, wondering if this was how the rest of her life would be, I’d tell her, “it’s not about him anymore. It’s about you.”I spent too much time blaming, dwelling on people, seeking certainty that I’d never get. And that’s why it’s so hard to move on. If you are like me, always struggling to let go, this video will h...

There is s a very common belief about confidence that the more you do, the more confident you get. Because confidence is built from action. While that is true is most cases, it wasn’t the case for me. By the age of 24, i moved to a new country alone, walking on the street to deliver my resume in person, overcame my social anxiety by working as a waitress. And yet, i still feel like i didnt achieve...

Hitting rock bottom is the most painful period of my life. I was out of a job, heartbroken, and moved back in with my parents. And to be very honest, I had no idea how I was going to get out of it. All I could feel was shame and pain, and all I could see was darkness. But I tried anyway .And bit by bit, days started to feel easier to get by. I started to cry a little bit less. Most importantly, th...

The most common problem I notice from people around me is the lack of action, and that really bothers me. Not because they are lazy, but because they are not. They are hard-working, and yet, there is always one thing stopping them from pursuing what they actually want — fear. Dreaming big is such a beautiful thing, but at the same time it's vulnerable. So I get it, why you still couldn't t...

you know what, let’s stop lying to ourselves about feeling behind. Be honest, have you ever stopped feeling behind? i know, i know, you are supposed to trust your timeline. But even after understanding this, sometimes i still can’t help but look at other people’s life and question what the hell am i doing with my life. This makes me realize, what if no matter how much we progressed, we will still...

If I have to choose one word that define my early 20s, that would be: shame. The shame of not living up to people’s expectations, the shame of being ghosted by guys, the shame of not getting promoted at my job. Today I talk about the mistakes I made that actually ruined my early 20s. The hardest part wasn’t fixing the mistake, but admitting I was making one. So I hope the video can encourage you t...

If you are in your lonely chapter right now, this one is for you. Loneliness has been a huge topic on this channel. But it never occurred to me that loneliness might be good....until now. We have been taught to resent the idea of loneliness, but what if, the reason you're lonely is because you are brave enough to leave an environment that you no longer fit into? What if loneliness is necessary...

So I received a missile strike alert. Multiple, to be precise. Interestingly, it is during the moment when my life is completely out of my control that I finally received the clarity. In this episode, I talk about how to shift your mindset when things are not going your way. Maybe you got rejected by your dream job, maybe you have a terrible boss, maybe your relationship ended, or maybe it's e...

Let's be honest, no matter how independent you are, feeling isolated sucks. But what if this season isn’t here to break you, but to change you? In this episode, I share how spending a year in isolation completely shifted my life and the way I see myself, connection, and independence. If you’re in a season of isolation right now — whether you moved to a new place, outgrew old relationships, or...

My 2025 didn’t go the way I expected. It felt like a year of lack of achievement — but it taught me some of the most important lessons about growth, courage, and self-trust. If this year felt slow, quiet, or disappointing for you too, this episode is for ending 2025 with more hope and love. 【Get Real with Jasmin’s Podcast】 🎧Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-real-with-jas...

I had an encounter with penguins in Abu Dhabi that makes me re-think self-worth. Somewhere along the way, we are led to believe that we are only worthy because of our achievements, not our existence. But here's the good news, if we have learned worth is what needs to be earned, we can also un-learn it. 【Get Real with Jasmin’s Podcast】 🎧Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/g...

I wrote this episode in the middle of the night, when I just couldn’t shake the feeling of loneliness from my mind. As someone who has felt alone for most of her life, I guess you could say I’ve become a bit of an expert in it. In this episode, I open up about my own journey with loneliness — from locking myself in my room for years, to finally making meaningful friendships only to be forced to le...

Let’s talk about the pressure to be in a relationship — because honestly, I’m tired. In this episode, I’m sharing what happened at a recent work event that triggered  everyone  to start asking me about my love life (or lack of it 🙄). Spoiler: I’m single, and I’m not ashamed of it. This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt like being single means you’re behind, broken, or “less than.” We’re unpac...

For the longest time, I lived in a cycle of burnout. Work hard. Burn out. Feel guilty for not doing more. Then push myself again… just to end up in the same place. Even when I was physically and emotionally exhausted, I felt ashamed for resting. I hated myself for “doing nothing,” even when I had nothing left to give. I knew I  should  rest—but I didn’t know  how . Or more truthfully, I didn’t bel...

I’ve always felt like I was a little too much, or maybe not enough. Like I just didn’t fit in anywhere — not in school, not in social circles, not even in spaces where I was  supposed  to belong. For a long time, I thought something was wrong with me. In this episode, I’m opening up about what it means to be the outsider, the misfit, the one who walks a different path. I talk about the quiet stren...

I wrote this episode after a terrible driving practice, who knows a breakdown on a bridge can turn to a lifetime of realisation. In this episode, I talk about the beauty of releasing control and let the Universe take care of the rest for you. Most importantly, understanding that the act of trying is everything. Your failure doesn’t define you, trying does. You are valuable at this very moment. ✨...

Having spiritual awakening is definitely one of the best thing that's ever happened to me. In this episode, I talked about my journey of exploring spiritual path during the darkest time of my life and the life-changing lessons I've learned along the way. The book I mentioned:https://www.amazon.ae/Hay-House-Universe-Your-Back/dp/1401946542 【Get Real with Jasmin’s Podcast】🎧Apple Podcast:...

Hi, I recently moved to Dubai, and let’s just say… it’s been a wild ride.  😳 From unexpected luxuries to things that straight-up confused me, I’ve experienced  some serious culture shocks  in my first two months here. So today, I’m giving you my  brutally honest, unfiltered thoughts  about Dubai—no sugarcoating, just real talk. Some things  totally blew my mind  (McDonald's table service?! 🚨), w...

In this episode, I share a personal story about the shame I carried after a humiliating experience in high school and how it shaped my perspective on self-worth. I dive into the invisible weight of shame, how it holds us back, and the power of recognizing its roots. You'll hear insights on how shame often stems from our values, why it’s important to let go of others’ judgments, and how embraci...

Once you get to understand you are abundant, you will know that you have more than enough to pick yourself back up again✨ 【Get Real with Jasmin’s Podcast】 🎧Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-real-with-jasmin/id1772832530 🎧Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4DPFQd7tNvkWONndkaZCB0 Want more of the real stuff? Find all the behind-the-scenes chaos, unfiltered moments on:...

I get it—making decisions can feel overwhelming. I’ve been there too, stuck between options, afraid of choosing wrong, and letting fear take over. In this episode, I share my own journey with decision-making, what I’ve learned, and how you can start trusting yourself to make choices you’ll feel good about. 【Get Real with Jasmin’s Podcast】 🎧Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/g...

A raw, personal journey of discovering I'm a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP). From childhood struggles to finding strength in sensitivity, this episode explores how being highly sensitive shapes our experiences and why it's actually our superpower. 【Get Real with Jasmin’s Podcast】 🎧Apple Podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-real-with-jasmin/id1772832530   🎧Spotify:  https://open.s...

What if pain had a purpose? In this episode, we explore the idea that even our hardest moments carry lessons and meaning. I’ll take you through the process of uncovering the hidden wisdom in your pain, helping you understand how it shapes your perspective, strengthens your resolve, and deepens your understanding of yourself. Healing isn't about forgetting—it's about growing through the pain. Perfe...

My mom just got manipulated into buying expensive bread she didn't want, and it triggered my customer service PTSD! 😤 After working at a 5-star hotel in Australia, I'm spilling ALL the tea about what dealing with "fancy" people taught me about life and success. Featured in this episode: my sweet mom getting manipulated at a bakery, entitled guests trying to leverage their "important" titles for d...

From fancy degrees to MBTI types, we're surrounded by labels. But do they define us, or confine us? In this episode, I'll take you on my personal rollercoaster ride of shedding unnecessary labels - including Asian’s MBTI obsession - and finding freedom. Prepare for some real talk, a dash of humor, and a whole lot of "aha!" moments. It's time to peel off those labels (yes, even your beloved ENFP ba...