Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Gender: A Wider Lens

Society EN ↓ 353 episodes

In this podcast, now in its fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests in...

Author

Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.widerlenspod.com

Latest episode

Feb 25, 2025

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Episodes

Premium: How Do I Roll Back on Affirmation 28.07.2023

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124 - A Culture of Desistance: Schools and Gender w/ Alex Capo 28.07.2023

Alex Capo, LMHC, is the Executive Director at The Charlton School (TCS) in Burnt Hills, NY. Alex has over 25 years of clinical experience in working with children, adolescents and families in various clinical/therapeutic settings as well as schools. He has facilitated trainings for administrators, mental health professionals, teachers and students for over 10 years. He has been with TCS in various...

Premium: Dinner Party Conversations with Calvin Lunt 21.07.2023

Sasha and Stella continue the conversation with Calvin Lunt by asking him “how do you talk about gender issues in real life?” Calvin shares how far he’s come in his ability to speak fearlessly about this issue, based on his own experience. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com

123 - Drag, Drinking and Taking off the Mask with Calvin Lunt 21.07.2023

In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome Calvin Lunt, whose life journey encompasses a remarkable exploration of identity, the challenges of addiction and recovery, and a commitment to personal growth and spiritual wellness. Growing up, Calvin was essentially a feminine gay boy, but never particularly gender dysphoric as a child. He became a dancer and later a drag queen. You’ll hear him share ab...

Premium: Help! My Teen is Hounding Me for Hormones 14.07.2023

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122 - We Wrote a Book: When Kids Say They're Trans | A Guide for Thoughtful Parents 14.07.2023

There are so many books available for parents who want to help their kids transition, right? Of course there's no shortage of affirmative guidebooks for parents. But there are very few books written for parents about how to actually encourage critical thinking, how to slow down, exercise caution about the medical interventions and focus on developmental health first. Family dynamics and attachment...

Follow-Up Episode: 116 Part II - Retraction w/ Dr. Michael Bailey 12.07.2023

BONUS EPISODE coming in hot! We’re changing things up a bit this time around, in a few ways actually. Consider this some special mid-week bonus content for our dedicated listeners and the many, many professionals following the gender paper trails. And not only is it a surprise extra conversation for the week, you’ll notice that our dear Stella O’Malley is flying solo without her charismatic co-hos...

Premium: Advice for Encouraging Use of Legal Name for Professional & Educational Endeavors 07.07.2023

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121 - Practical Advice for Managing Gender Identity in Schools with Dr. Kate Goonan 07.07.2023

Episode 121 - Practical Advice for Managing Gender Identity in Schools with Dr. Kate Goonan In this episode, Sasha & Stella spend time with Dr. Kate Goonan, an advisory and advocacy specialist with Genspect. Together they discuss the importance of building a strong support system for young individuals experiencing gender dysphoria. Kate shares about her approach for navigating gender dysphoria...

Premium: How Do I Explain Period Products in the Boy’s Restroom to My Young Son? 30.06.2023

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120 — Pioneer Series: Researching Sexual Behaviors with James Cantor 30.06.2023

This is a unique episode in that it features a conversation that was originally recorded back in 2022 with Dr. James Cantor. We intentionally decided not to release the episode at that time. You’ll hear Sasha and Stella introduce the conversation by sharing more about why they chose to withhold the episode for all this time and why they have opted to release it now, over a year after recording. Dr...

Premium: Bridging Gaps Between Beliefs Through Conversation With My Medicalizing Adult Child — What Can I Say/Ask? 23.06.2023

Plus, BONUS -- Thoughtful, non-radicalized pushback around books in the U.S.? Curiosity reflecting on Stephanie Davies-Arai's remarks at the recent Genspect: The Bigger Picture Conference in Killarney, Ireland. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com

119 — Who Gets Embroiled in the Gender Debates 23.06.2023

In this episode, Stella & Sasha explore the different kinds of ways people engage in the gender debates. You will hear them touch on the various kinds of characters and/or archetypes of people who imbed themselves deeply into the “gender world.” And you may also notice that there are many varieties of voices not referenced as well. Today’s episode takes shape a little differently than a typica...

Premium: Bonus Content with Zhenya Abbruzzese 16.06.2023

In this bonus conversation, Zhenya sheds some new light on the Christine Jorgensen story along with some eye-opening research and data from a man named Hamburger. Hamburger's paper can be accessed here: https://academic.oup.com/ejendo/artic... This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com

118 - Prioritizing Expensive & Invasive Interventions: American Healthcare w/ Zhenya Abbruzzese 16.06.2023

In this episode, Sasha and Stella sit down with Zhenya Abbruzzese, a healthcare researcher, analyst, and the author of several widely read peer-reviewed publications about pediatric gender medicine. Zhenya Abbruzzese papers include “ The Myth of Reliable Research in Pediatric Gender Medicine ,” “ Reconsidering Informed Consent for Children, Adolescents, and Young Adults ,” and most recently, “ Cur...

Premium: Surviving Pride Month 09.06.2023

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117 - Gender, Parents, and Public Schools with Kate Parker 09.06.2023

This episode is the first of several episodes dedicated to exploring what is happening with gender in schools and education systems. Schools are becoming more and more of a focus for parents and citizens who pay close attention to identity politics. In this episode, Stella and Sasha chat with Kate Parker, a high school educator and library director at a private school with over 16 years of service...

Premium: Is it Cruel to Ask My Trans Child to Look at the Research? 02.06.2023

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116 — Identity Politics vs. The Pursuit of Knowledge with Dr. Michael Bailey 02.06.2023

In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome guest, Dr. Mike Bailey, who recently published a paper with co-author, Suzanna Diaz about reports of ROGD kids. Their paper is important because it essentially corroborates Dr. Lisa Littman’s study from 2018. During the conversation, Dr. Bailey shares about the possibility that the paper could be retracted due to activist backlash. He also explores the fin...

Premium: I Helped my Child Transition & Now I'm Wracked with Guilt 26.05.2023

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115 — How Online Communities Shape Thought, Desire, and Doubt about Transition: with Eliza Mondegreen 26.05.2023

In this episode, Sasha & Stella chat with graduate student and Substack author Eliza Mondegreen, who is dedicated to the study of online trans and detrans communities. She also studies the knowledge, attitudes, and beliefs underpinning affirmative care. The conversation with Eliza begins with a deep dive into what led to her intimate exploration of gender. She shares how her history with eatin...

Premium: How to Provide Information about Gender to Other Adults in your Child's Life 19.05.2023

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114 — The Dutch Protocol: A Deprivation of Sexual Development with Julia Mason and Stephen Levine 19.05.2023

In the wake of such comprehensive exploration and analysis around the foundational medical research cited time and time again regarding child and adolescent gender transition, the Dutch Protocol, we extended an invitation to Dr. Stephen Levine and Dr. Julia Mason to join us in a discussion about their most recent paper, co-authored together with Zhenya Abbruzzese in a thorough critique of the Dutc...

Premium: What do you do when your teen is worried that therapy "Is a trap"? 12.05.2023

Please note that GETA is now Therapy First. You can learn more here: https://www.therapyfirst.org/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com

113 — Gender A Wider Lens LIVE from Ireland 12.05.2023

Sasha and Stella are together in the same place! Joined by Lisa Marchiano, this live episode was recorded in Killarney, Ireland, and the Genspect Bigger Picture Conference on April 28, 2023. [22:20] Question from Helen Joyce [32:13] Question from Colin Wright [47:35] Question from Maya Forstater [51:50] Question Jessie Mannisto from Third Factor Magazine [57:00] Question from Lisa Selin Davis [1:0...

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