Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Gender: A Wider Lens

Society EN ↓ 353 episodes

In this podcast, now in its fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests in...

Author

Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Category

Society

Podcast website

www.widerlenspod.com

Latest episode

Feb 25, 2025

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Episodes

Premium: Attention from Peers: How Do We Compete with That? 04.03.2022

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65 - Pioneers Series: Gender - The Big Picture with Susan Bradley 04.03.2022

Susan Bradley is Professor Emerita at the University of Toronto. She graduated with her medical degree in 1966 and completed her residency in Psychiatry U of Toronto from 1968 to 1972. In 1975 she became the Founder of Gender Identity Clinic for Children and Adolescents at Clarke Institute of Psychiatry. In 1985 dr bradley handed over the head position to Dr Kenneth Zucker (who we interviewed in e...

Premium: The Kiddie King! 25.02.2022

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64 - Pioneers Series: Psychotherapy Pre- and Post-Transition with Az Hakeem 25.02.2022

Dr. Az Hakeem was born and brought up in North Wales and has lived and worked in London since studying medicine. He is a Consultant Psychiatrist who previously trained in forensic Psychotherapy, Mentalization-Based Therapy and is a Group Analyst. He previously worked within the NHS in Forensic Psychotherapy specializing in Analytic Psychotherapy for conditions relating to sex, gender, sexual perve...

Premium: School Uniforms 18.02.2022

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63 - Pioneers: Mid-Series Analysis 18.02.2022

Sasha and Stella sit down to discuss their thoughts and reflections on the Pioneer interviews they’ve conducted so far in the series. This analysis attempts to synthesize what they’ve learned, what differences in perspective they hold compared to their previous guests, and reiterate the importance of these discussions within the wider context of childhood transition, scientific inquiry, and deep e...

Premium: What Materials Can We Give the School? 11.02.2022

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62 - Pioneers Series: Adolescent Identity with Riittakerttu Kaltiala 11.02.2022

Riittakerttu Kaltiala, M.D., Ph. D., BSc, is a professor of adolescent psychiatry in Tampere University and chief psychiatrist in the Department of Adolescent Psychiatry at Tampere University Hospital. She is a specialist in psychiatry, adolescent psychiatry, and forensic psychiatry. She has been clinically involved in carrying out research on adolescent gender identity issues since 2011 when one...

Premium: Our Son is Leaving for College: What Should We Do? 04.02.2022

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61 - Pioneers Series: Autogynephilia: Myth and Meaning with Ray Blanchard 04.02.2022

Ray Blanchard was the psychologist in the Adult Gender Identity Clinic at the Clarke Institute of Psychiatry 1980–1995. Much of his research in those 15 years concerned transsexualism and milder forms of gender identity disorders. In 1995, he was appointed Head of the newly created Clinical Sexology Services at the CAMH. This unit comprised the Adult Gender Identity Clinic and the Kurt Freund Labo...

Premium: Deciphering a Therapist's Online Profile 28.01.2022

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60 - Pioneers Series: We Contain Multitudes with Stephen Levine 28.01.2022

Dr. Steve Levine is Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine.  He is the sole author of several books: Sex Is Not Simple in 1989 (translated to German in 1992 and reissued in English in 1997 as Solving Common Sexual Problems ); Sexual Life: A clinician’s Guide in 1992; Sexuality in Mid-Life in 1998 and Demystifying Love: Plain Talk for the Mental Healt...

Premium: Helping a 13 Year-Old to Think Critically About Gender 21.01.2022

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59 - Pioneers Series: 46 Years of Treating GD in Kids with Kenneth Zucker 21.01.2022

Dr. Zucker is a registered clinical psychologist in Ontario. He received his Ph. D. at the University of Toronto in Developmental Psychology in 1982. He is a Professor (Status Only) in the Department of Psychiatry, University of Toronto, and in private practice. He was the Chair of the 2013 DSM-5 Work Group on Sexual and Gender Identity Disorders. He is a past President of the International Academ...

Special Extended Interview with Mike Bailey 14.01.2022

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58 - Pioneers Series: Male Sexuality with Michael J. Bailey 14.01.2022

Dr. Michael Bailey is an American psychologist , behavioral geneticist , and professor at Northwestern University best known for his work on the etiology , or origins, of sexual orientation . He maintains that sexual orientation is heavily influenced by biology and male homosexuality is most likely inborn. Dr. Bailey’s 2003 book, The Man Who Would Be Queen , gave an accessible, intimate, and compa...

Premium: Feeling Isolated When Friends Don't Get It 07.01.2022

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57 — Pioneers Series: Male Femininity w/Paul L. Vasey 07.01.2022

Recent theories about gender often describe “third gender” categories found in other cultures. Prof Paul Vasey is one of the world’s leading academic experts on the Fa’fafine. These individuals are feminine males who live “in the manner of a woman” in Samoa. Sasha and Stella have a spellbinding discussion with Paul about how our Western constructs can sometimes completely misinterpret well-researc...

Premium: Cutting & Self-Harm 31.12.2021

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56 - New Year’s Resolutions & Introducing the “Pioneers Series” 31.12.2021

For Sasha and Stella’s last episode of the year, they introduce a very exciting series that will be coming up in 2022. In the “Pioneers Series,” they will be interviewing experienced clinicians, researchers, and other professionals whose contributions to our understanding of gender dysphoria and sexuality are foundational. Consider this a back-to-basics 101 course on gender and sexuality.   Stella...

55 - Who Gets to Decide What's Normal: A Conversation w/ Lisa Selin Davis 24.12.2021

Lisa Selin Davis is the essayist, journalist, and author of Tomboy: The Surprising History and Future of Girls Who Dare to Be Different. Like many other open-minded, liberal Americans, she has undergone a familiar arc in her understanding of gender issues. She has experienced, first-hand, the current trend of silencing those who seek a deeper understanding of childhood gender nonconformity. In thi...

Premium: How do I draw my child out from the screen in their bedroom? 23.12.2021

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54 - Finding a Therapist for Your Gender-Questioning Teen: A Conversation W/ Lisa Marchiano 17.12.2021

In this conversation, Lisa joins the show to talk about the difficult task of finding appropriate therapy for a gender-questioning teen or loved one. What is it like working with indoctrinated clients or those under the influence of a partner, belief system, or ideology? Lisa highlights the parental expectations of what therapy should look like, contrasted against the complex and subtle relational...

Premium: Desperate for a Therapist 16.12.2021

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53 - You Affirmed Your Child's Gender... How to Roll Back 10.12.2021

Sometimes parents come to realize that the affirmative approach hasn’t worked out for their gender-distressed child and they could benefit from alternative approaches. In this episode, Sasha and Stella discuss the many complicated reasons some parents reluctantly affirm their child’s gender and how difficult and brave it can be to rethink the strategy. Parenting styles are explored, and Sasha and...

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