FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

Eclipses were terrifying to ancient peoples who didn't understand what they were. So too can we feel terrified when we are creating new lives for ourselves, or ushering in a new phase of evolution. Use this meditation during partial or full eclipses to feel calm during your dark night, and to usher in a fresh new start.

Use this short meditation every time there's a New Moon so you can get comfortable showing your dark side, setting intentions, and creating a new beginning for yourself.

If you are anything like most of the women I work with, you are an amazing woman who tries hard to do things right. You’ve done the heavy lifting in your relationship, responsibly taken care of everyone and everything that needs taking care of, and you’ve always done your best. On the outside, you probably appear to be confident too. But are you worthy of messing up? Do you feel worthy of being a...

Affairs rock your world and change your life. But they also help you understand deeper truths such as why you love the way you love, how family history and epigenetics impact relationships and separations, and how to resolve conflict – sometimes without even talking about it, but by dealing with your family imprint instead! It all has to do with subconscious patterning and dismantling destructive...

This week we’re bringing you a very different show! We’re bringing you a full hour of universal, channeled, wisdom to help you on your betrayal recovery journey. Lora channels a group of entities known as “The Librarians.” The Librarians are keepers of universal wisdom for the earth plane and their messages are meant for seekers of light. Take it slow, pause when you need to pause, and if you like...

Like 9-11 and COVID, survivors of infidelity mark time with “before D-day” or “after D-day.”. Yet unlike 9-11 or COVID, you are profoundly alone in your D-day trauma. Which it makes it vitally important to create your own anniversary “celebration” or way to mark and memorialize all that you have been through. No matter how many D-days you have had, no matter if you are happily married to your chea...

So often we hear about healing after infidelity, affair recovery, or healing from betrayal. But do you want to heal, or do you want to transform? Healing means getting back to how you were before, and most of the women I work with want something better than what they had before. Something more honest, more real, and intimate. Interestingly, the most difficult part of “transforming your life” is ty...

Life is unpredictable, and while there are steps you can take to protect yourself, none of us can prepare for what’s to come perfectly. We will get hurt. We will make mistakes. Bad things happen to good people. Which is where self-empowerment comes in. Not in a buzz-wordy way, but in deeply powerful type of way. Being fully self-empowered means being okay with what is as well as what will be, beca...

Betrayal takes many forms, but its impact remains significant. And even the seemingly “old traumas” and incidents from childhood have an effect on our present lives and relationships. Today’s guest is a spunky young woman who is wiser than women twice her age and is not afraid to do the hard and often times messy work of loving herself while daring to live from a place of joy. Top take-a-ways: Lea...

ave you ever felt like your cheating partner “ruined” your idea of love and relationship, leaving you bitter and hardened? Whether it’s unpacking your own childhood trauma or processing the impact of your partner’s childhood trauma (that then impacted you) the good news is that whatever you learned, you can unlearn. Top take-a-ways: Why unhealthy patterns from childhood get replicated in adult rel...

Have you ever wished you could sit down with a cheater (whether your partner or somebody else) and ask them what the heck was going on in their minds when they cheated? Why they did it, what they thought, or what it said about them or you? Now you can. In this mind-blowing interview you will learn why men cheat, especially when they love their partners. Using a sample collected from the online dat...

Are you having trouble deciding whether you should stay or go? Is part of that indecision because you are afraid of what divorce might do to your kids? Then this is the show for you! As Kate says, “Do not let the promises be the things that keep you in the relationship. Let the actions be the things that bring you back.” Top take-a-ways: Excavating yourself and getting back in the front seat of yo...

Are you afraid that you are too broken to recover from your partner’s infidelity? You are not alone, and although the journey is arduous to be sure, the truth is, you can recover and thrive after infidelity. In fact, your life and relationships can be better than ever before. Top take-a-ways: Identifying and healing shattered expectations. Uncovering how your worldview was ruptured and rebuilding...

Recovering from infidelity and betrayal requires you to get all of your needs met. Affair recovery is brutal, on many different levels, and if you are going to survive and thrive, then you must take care of yourself first. Two weeks ago we talked about setting your intention for recovery. Last week we talked about mapping out your journey on how to get where you want to go. This week we are talkin...

Happy 2023! While I’m not big on New Year’s Resolutions (because statistically speaking, only 9% of resolutions are successful) I am big on manifesting and setting intentions. Top take-a-ways: A Resolution is about being resolute, firm, and decisive. The energy around resolutions is harsh and you either succeed or you fail. There is no middle ground. An Intention is a plan, something that you aim...

Intentions are powerful, but without a map of how to get where you want to go, chances are, you won’t! Whether it’s healing from betrayal on your own, building a new relationship, or saving your marriage, you need a solid plan that strikes a balance between giving yourself enough time to process, while still holding yourself accountable. Top take-a-ways: Identifying and executing your most immedia...

Intentions are powerful, but without a map of how to get where you want to go, chances are, you won’t! Whether it’s healing from betrayal on your own, building a new relationship, or saving your marriage, you need a solid plan that strikes a balance between giving yourself enough time to process, while still holding yourself accountable. Top take-a-ways: Identifying and executing your most immedia...

If you’re anything like me, you’ve set, and then failed at, a New Year’s Resolution before. Whether it’s an attempt to manifest your way out of debt or pain, or into a new car or relationship, too many people fail when they really want to succeed. Contrary to popular belief, sticking to your resolutions or manifesting your dream life is not hard! The steps you read about online and in books are no...

We live in a culture that is afraid of the dark, both literally and metaphorically. We celebrate beauty, success, and power and we cover and hide that which is inconvenient, painful, or weak. We don’t like things that are ugly or messy and we tend to shame ourselves and others for not being able to put on a happy face or be perfect all the time. Especially when we are facing infidelity or betrayal...

Betrayal pulls the rug out from under you and makes you question yourself and your reality. Things that you relied on as true, you find out were not, leaving you ungrounded, grieving, and wondering where you can turn to for safety and rest. Which can be especially painful around the holidays, where tradition reigns supreme, and you find yourself in unfamiliar territory with the outside pressure to...

What do you want to know about infidelity, betrayal, and affair recovery but are afraid to ask? Join Lora for an intimate deep dive into the truth about affairs, infidelity, and betrayal. Better yet, if your question was not answered, email Lora at  lora@loracheadle.com  and she will answer your questions during her next Q&A show! Questions Answered in this episode: Is there hope? Is it always goi...

I channel a group of entities called "The Librarians." The librarians provide wisdom for all of humanity, regardless of what each individual is going through or experiencing. Every Tuesday on Facebook and YouTube I go live with a five minute channel. This show is a compilation of those channels for the last month. They are unedited, and even though they were channeled in weeks past, the informatio...

All cheaters cheat for one reason and one reason alone. Because they have a hole inside of themselves that they can’t fill. And because they also can’t identify or describe what’s wrong inside of them, they make excuses, I need time to figure myself out. I don’t know what’s wrong with me… and they have affairs. Instead of looking within, they search for answers outside of themselves and they make...

Infidelity creates turmoil both personally and financially. Not only must you make decisions about yourself and your marriage, but you also must face some very real financial realities. As overwhelming as it may seem, you can learn to make, manage, and grow your money regardless of your marital or motherhood status. Top take-a-ways: Three simple steps to becoming financially literate. The connecti...

Gratitude during trauma, grace during rage, and experiencing the full range of our emotions is what living is all about. Join Lora for an hour of heart-felt wisdom on how to sprinkle gratitude, like an all-purpose seasoning, on everything good or bad in your life, and how to give and live with grace. Not for anyone else’s benefit, but for your own. Top take-a-ways: Integrating gratitude during dif...