AreYouAFanYet
First Off Podcast
A weekly show discussing being married with children. Raising kids in this day and age musing whether or not our challenges are different from those that came before us. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/areyouafanyet/support
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Ep. 509 - Kids With Business Plans?! John Legend, Pharrell & VisionQuest 26.10.2026 58:01
🎙️ FIRST OFF: LITTLE ENTREPRENEURS, BIG DREAMS & SCREEN TIME! Looks like entrepreneurship runs in the family! This week on First OFF , Joseph and Sadhana discuss their kids' growing entrepreneurial spirit. Are we raising the next generation of business owners, or have our children already figured out how to make money before we have? 😂 Then we're talking entertainment! 🎵 John Lege...
Ep. 508 - Walgreens Sells WHAT?! Audiobooks vs. Reading, Paul Rudd & Parenting 19.10.2026 1:17:30
🎙️ FIRST OFF S5E8: PLEASURE, PAGES & PLAYLISTS! Wait… Walgreens is selling WHAT?! This week on First OFF , Joseph and Sadhana are back with another round of hilarious conversations, unexpected discoveries, and a few debates that might have you questioning everything! Walgreens is selling pleasure?! We discuss an unexpected addition to the pharmacy shelves. Audiobooks vs. Reading: Does liste...
Ep. 507 (Part 2) - Black Wall Street, Screen Time & a BIG Announcement 09.10.2026 40:59
Here is PART 2!!! This week on First OFF , Joseph takes us to Tulsa, Oklahoma , where his trip to the Greenwood Film Festival also gave him an opportunity to visit the historic Greenwood District—Black Wall Street . He talks about the experience of walking through a place with such an important history of Black entrepreneurship, resilience, tragedy, and rebuilding , and what it meant to finall...
EP. 507 (PART 1) - Black Wall Street, Screen Time & a BIG Announcement 02.10.2026 43:11
IT'S A TWO PART EPISODE!!!! This week on First OFF , Joseph takes us to Tulsa, Oklahoma , where his trip to the Greenwood Film Festival also gave him an opportunity to visit the historic Greenwood District—Black Wall Street . He talks about the experience of walking through a place with such an important history of Black entrepreneurship, resilience, tragedy, and rebuilding , and what it m...
Ep. 506 - Houston Horror Film Festival, New Orleans & Family Adventures 07.09.2026 57:32
🎙️ The kids are back for another First OFF Junior—and this time we're talking Houston, New Orleans, movies, food, and family! In First OFF Podcast Season 5, Episode 6 , Joseph, Sadhana, and the kids sit down to relive our family adventures through Houston, Texas, and New Orleans, Louisiana . Our trip started in Houston, where we attended the Houston Horror Film Festival as part of the con...
Ep. 505 - 10 Marital Revelations (Mildly NSFW) 24.08.2026 1:03:39
18 years of marriage. A whole lot of life. And at least 10 things we've figured out along the way. 😂❤️ In Season 5, Episode 5 of First Off , Joseph and Sadhana celebrate 18 years of marriage by looking back at the lessons, surprises, challenges, and revelations that come from building a life together. We share our 10 Marriage Revelations — the things nearly two decades together have taugh...
Ep. 504 - On the road ... again. 03.08.2026 37:57
It's another airport episode! This time, Joseph is on his way to Atlanta , and the drive sparks another candid conversation about family, life, and everything in between. In this episode, we reflect on the inspiring charitable organizations we've recently encountered, including the incredible work of ElevateMed and the fundraising event we attended. We discuss why supporting organizatio...
Ep. 503 - Parenting Through Distance, Family Travel & Diarra from Detroit 20.07.2026 51:10
What happens when parenting continues... even from thousands of miles away? In this special episode of First OFF , Joseph drives Sadhana to the airport, and what begins as a routine trip becomes an honest conversation about traveling away from the family, the emotions that come with being apart, and the responsibility parents feel even when they're miles from home. Together, they discuss the...
Ep. 502 - From Detroit to Widow's Bay 13.07.2026 59:44
This week on First OFF , we're back with another fun, thoughtful, and wide-ranging family conversation. For Screen Time , we discuss the hit series Diarra from Detroit on Paramount+ and Widows Bay on Apple TV+, sharing what stood out to us and why they're worth watching. We also continue our ongoing debate about what it really means to be an introvert —is it about solitude, energy,...
Ep. 501 - Season 5 Premiere | Family, Mental Health, Movies & Memories 08.06.2026 41:09
Season 5 of First OFF is here, and we're kicking things off with a fun, silly, and surprisingly insightful episode featuring some very special guests — our kids! This week, we share our Parenting Score, discuss what we're watching during Screen Time, and dive into conversations about estate planning, home-going wishes, and what each of us plans to do this week to support our mental healt...
Ep. 413 - Emotional Intelligence, Parenting Through Disappointment & Finding Joy 27.04.2026 1:12:14
In this episode of First Off , we dive into one of the most important parts of parenting— how we respond when our kids feel like they’ve disappointed us . We explore ways to nurture emotional intelligence , build trust, and create a safe space where our children feel supported, not defined by mistakes. We also share what we’re currently reading, highlighting books that are shaping our mindset ...
Ep. 412 - Maryland Film Festival Recap (S.O.S. Saturday Crossover) 20.04.2026 38:06
In Episode 412 of First OFF , Sadhana and Joseph Vivens recap their experience at the Maryland Film Festival , sharing highlights from the premieres of S.O.S. and The Solanges: Angels of the Sun . This special crossover episode with #SOSsaturday dives into the filmmaking journey, the power of the theater-going experience, and what it felt like to hear audiences react in real time. From laug...
Ep. 411 - The Return of BlackPlanet's THINK-REAL. 06.04.2026 1:03:58
Topics Covered: BlackPlanet nostalgia & the “Think-Real” identity Why boredom might be a hidden privilege Parenting reflections & self-evaluation What we’re watching right now (Screen Time picks) This week on First Off , Joseph taps into his BlackPlanet roots and introduces his alter ego, “Think-Real,” setting the tone for a deeper, more philosophical conversation. Joined by Sadhana, th...
Ep. 410 - Eat your heart out Eric Carle 30.03.2026 54:41
First OFF — Raising Leaders, Costumes & Screen Time In Episode 10 of First OFF , Sadhana and Joseph Vivens talk about raising leaders in today’s world and the importance of building confidence, responsibility, and character in children. Joseph shares how he accidentally dressed up like The Very Hungry Caterpillar , and dive into this week’s Screen Time — discussing Good Sports and Mal...
Ep. 409 - FO jr., Awesome-Con, and living in the future 23.03.2026 28:26
In this episode of First OFF , Sadhana and Joseph Vivens recap their experience at Awesome Con in Washington, DC — from the costumes they wore to the incredible looks they saw throughout the convention. They share highlights from the event and reflect on the importance of spending quality time together as a family. A fun and heartfelt conversation about pop culture, creativity, and making memor...
Ep. 408 - WifeStyle!!!! 😂 09.03.2026 1:04:12
In this episode of First OFF , Sadhana and Joseph Vivens talk about embracing “MomStyle,” navigating the feeling of disappointing our parents, and the music that moves us emotionally. For Screen Time , we discuss the new series All Her Fault and Guillermo del Toro’s Oscar-nominated Frankenstein . A thoughtful and honest conversation about parenting, identity, culture, and the stories that s...
Ep. 407 - Is it Hard or Too Much 02.03.2026 47:49
In Season 4 Episode 7 of First Off , we reflect on the parenting traits we inherited from our own parents and how those lessons shape the way we raise our children today. From communication to compassion, we explore the values that carried over—and the ones we’re learning to rethink as modern parents. We also discuss whether parenting is hard work or a lot of work. We also dive into an honest conv...
Ep. 406 - Dress like you love me 23.02.2026 44:48
In this episode of First OFF , Sadhana and Joseph Vivens reflect on taking their kids to a live musical, recap Valentine’s Day, and share thoughts on Weekend at Bernie’s . They also discuss how clothing affects confidence and mood, and break down their weekly Parenting Score, highlighting the wins, challenges, and lessons learned along the way. An honest, fun conversation about modern family lif...
Ep. 405: Love, Service & Real Romance (V-Day) 15.02.2026 55:20
In this episode of First Off, we talk about Valentine’s Day, romance, and what love looks like in real life. We reflect on being of service to those in need, finding our parenting core at a camp for children who are cancer survivors, and exploring what romance truly sounds, feels, and looks like beyond the clichés. It’s an honest, heartfelt conversation about love, purpose, and connection. 🎧 List...
Ep. 404 - It's not Blockbuster it's VIVENS VIDEO 08.02.2026 48:09
In Episode 404 of First Off , we take a fun and honest look at life’s everyday challenges and traditions with laughter, nostalgia, and real talk. We begin by reminiscing about going to Blockbuster Video and the joy of browsing old movie aisles—a reminder of simpler times before endless streaming took over. From there, we dive into the modern challenge of too much screen time . We also revisit...
Ep. 403 - Ms. Jackson if you're Nice-Nasty 02.02.2026 57:52
In Episode 3 of First Off , we jump between the everyday and the existential. We talk about work emails and how they affect our mental load, the importance of protecting mental health , and what it really means to stay present in a world that’s constantly pulling us backward and forward. The conversation also takes a fun turn into time traveling , and why being grounded in the now can be so...
Ep. 402 - The Return of BenX & EeVeE 26.01.2026 35:24
In this episode of First Off , we switch things up and invite our kids to join us for a fun, laughter-filled game of “Do You Really Know Your Family?” What starts as a playful challenge quickly turns into surprising answers, heartfelt moments, and a few unexpected revelations. This episode is all about family connection , communication , and the joy that comes from simply spending time togeth...
Ep. 401 - Hello, '26. 19.01.2026 41:25
Season 4, Episode 1 | Happy New Year Welcome to Season 4, Episode 1 of First Off — and Happy New Year! In this episode, we kick off the new year by catching up on life, family, and everything that’s been happening behind the scenes. We talk about our kids teaming up to surprise Sadhana for her birthday, reflect on our parenting score , and share some laughs around gift-giving, games, and t...
Episode 307 – MIPCOM, Solo Parenting, & the Fine Line Between Providence and Coincidence 25.10.2025 39:22
This week on First Off, we unpack an incredible trip to MIPCOM—what we saw, who we met, and how global storytelling is evolving. We also dive into the realities of solo parenting, the emotional and logistical challenges, and how it shapes our creative drive. Then, a deep look at two powerful projects from Joseph’s company: 🎬 The short film S.O.S. – a genre-bending thriller. 🎥 The Solanges: Angel...
Ep. 306 - Theme Songs, Math Tutoring & Why We Love Severance 04.10.2025 34:50
In this episode, we’re celebrating the little wins and the big joys: 🎉 Our all-time favorite TV show theme songs (get ready for some nostalgia 🎶) The ups and downs of math tutoring with kids 📚 Taking a moment to pat ourselves on the back for progress 🌱 And a deep dive into why Severance has become one of our favorite shows on Apple TV+ 🍎📺 It’s a mix of parenting, music, and TV talk—w...
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