Finding the Guardian of Your Soul

What You'll Hear In This Episode: How men are not mind readers, and communication is key. Why women should express their needs and desires to their partners, despite conflicting messages The importance of expressing appreciation and guiding each other to be a partners in each others’ life How to let a partner know their importance and suggest ways they can contribute Personal experiences and the i...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: AI technology is revolutionizing online dating by enhancing user safety and security, detecting fraudulent profiles, and improving overall user experience. The rise of AI-generated fake profiles and content highlights the importance of AI technology in helping users identify and avoid scams online. Advancements in AI technology on dating sites, such as chatbots an...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: What does it really mean to be “emotionally naked”? In the same way we get physically naked, we don’t get emotionally naked at all once. It should come off slowly, and piece by piece. Being fearlessly authentic doesn’t mean dumping on the person, nor does it mean too much too soon. Fearlessly authentic means being fearless and not oversharing. There’s a sense of r...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: Men are just as sensitive as women and have needs like women.  The more we can understand each other, the better our relationships will be.  Would a man rather feel alone and unloved or respected? The answer may surprise you.  Most men equate respect with love, so when they feel disrespected, they feel unloved.  Respect is the single most important thing a woman c...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: Building a lasting relationship requires establishing an authentic and emotional connection with a man. What happens when you rush in and push the love part without first establishing a deep friendship?  Great sex alone will not deepen the emotional connection with a man; it is the emotional bond that leads to better intimacy. Rushing into a physical relationship...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: The importance of being present and genuine on a date, especially the first one.  Men love when a woman can foster a lighthearted and playful atmosphere to create a comfortable space for both individuals. How to build trust and establish a sense of safety through humor and playfulness. Men look for the green flag of a woman who enhances and enriches a man's life....

What You'll Hear In This Episode: Both men and women struggle to understand each other in the dating world, but integrating knowledge about male-female differences can hep you bring more compassion to your dates and make deeper emotional connections. Double Standards in breakups, appearance, and expectations regarding who pays for what.  Understanding why men are the way they are can be a game cha...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:  At 63, Meranda reminds us that age should never hinder a rewarding relationship. If a busy woman like Meranda can attend the discovery call on her birthday. You can find time too!  Meranda's advice for making the most significant investment in yourself and finally committing yourself without wavering back and forth.  What changed in dating once she began to work...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: What are the two main reasons that we tend to self-sabotage? Rejection is sometimes painful and scary, so how do we move forward and put ourselves out there? What about if you're scared to get what you want and that you'll mess it up?  What to do if the men you desire aren't attracted back to you, and that is a consistent pattern.   The importance of who you surro...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: Avoid a checklist-like approach when observing a man's emotional availability.  Consider these questions as a loose guideline, rather than a mission to interview or interrogate the man.  Men sometimes need a little longer to think and process, so allow time for reflection when asking deeper questions. You can also tell by the quality of the answer if he's processi...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:  Remember, there's no right or wrong. There's just what feels good to you.  One big issue for men is the value they place on their independence and freedom. If a woman pays for everything and brags about her big, rich life, he may think he will be living her life.  Setting a precedent early on that you are willing to pay for everything will set the tone for the re...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: Nice guys are the opposite of love bombers, but they still may not be great - why is that?  Why are nice guys constantly walking on eggshells?  How nice guys are different from other guys.  The ways nice guys can be calculating and manipulative.  How do you know if a man is truly compassionate and kind, or if it's an act?  Spending time with secure and grounded me...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: What motivates people to stay in relationships? One thing is that the fear of being alone can cause some people to remain in a relationship, even if it's not fulfilling. Others may not realize their negative or critical behavior hurts the relationship and may think they're offering constructive criticism. Discover how to communicate with men in a way that promotes...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: Lisa used the one phrase that caught Patricia's attention like nothing else.  Patricia had done a ton of inner work, but she was feeling frustrated that despite how hard she worked on herself, none of that "work" translated to luck in dating, a familiar feeling for many successful and intelligent women Lisa coaches.  Patricia gives insight into the significant bre...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: There's a reason why the men consistently that you're into aren't interested in pursuing something with you.  Many of the successful women Lisa coaches are incredibly confident and should be. They sometimes need to be more intelligent about men.  We need to be able to attract the men we want to attract, engage those men, and have the skills to engage those men so...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: The world of difference between how Stella felt before joining Lisa’s coaching program vs. how she is now.  Ways Stella is becoming more curious in her dating life, and how that helps her connect with men on an even deeper level.  For many of Lisa’s clients, who they end up with is even better than they could have imagined.  How the Final Five exercise affected St...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:  How Lisa went from being uncomfortable and awkward around men to being a space for the guardian of her soul to open up and tell her everything.  Why do women default to masculine energy, now more than ever?  You don’t have to be the youngest, fittest, or most beautiful woman in the world to find a man who is going to appreciate you.  How to have high standards wi...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: The art of William’s transformation from anxious to secure attachment.  How William has learned to set boundaries for what he needs in relationships.  What dating was like for William as a shy guy in his 20s and beyond.  How is William dating two women at once. Do they know about each other?  With so much toxic masculinity out there, how did William learn to date...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: What are core values, and why is it so important to share them?  A man who values you will treat you with respect and kindness. Sometimes it's not the huge gestures but the little ways he follows through on his promises and commitments to you that matter most.  You need to learn to ask for what you want and then sit back and see if he will honor your requests.  Do...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:  What does it mean to “seal the deal” in a relationship?  How to focus less on the outcome and more on all the beautiful nuances in getting to know someone and letting that someone get to know you.  When we talk about men loving the chase, it doesn’t mean they want a woman who plays hard to get or who manipulates him.  Why is it so crucial for a man to make his ow...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: How do women compete with men in a way that may make them think she’s great, but not a fit for them to move forward?  Two of the biggest qualities that good men are looking for, and aren’t money or career status.  Don’t men want a woman they can rescue?  What happens when women push away love and the most beautiful part of life? What does a man mean when he says “...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: How women can inadvertently make a man feel as though there's not enough space for him in her life, or that he's just going to be the plus one.  How Benjamin's profile made it clear to Lisa from the beginning that he was willing to integrate a woman into his life.  What are some of the reasons that men tend to compartmentalize their relationships?  When it's the g...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: What is an insatiable curiosity and why is it critical to creating a connection?  What if you can’t think of anything to ask?  A listener question: What if the man isn’t asking any questions at all?  Curiosity should seem like a natural flow rather than a detailed investigation.  Being curious brings passion to the conversation, and that’s what people are looking...

What You'll Hear In This Episode: What led Natalie to sign up for the breakthrough call?  Natalie's dating struggles before meeting Alex.  Alex also was in a spot in life where he was skeptical that he would meet the guardian of his soul.  The importance of giving a man the same curiosity and respect you would expect from him.  How Natalie learned to feel the difference between secure and avoidant...

What You'll Hear In This Episode:  How the "Must Have" list when it comes to dating often isn't what we end up with - and that's a good thing!  Lisa shares her example of things she had on her list, such as spirituality and business savvy, and how Benjamin possesses those things in a way she couldn't have imagined.  Why does having a rigid "must have" list lock you out of potentially great opportu...