Find The Others

Coming back from Iceland, I hit a wall. Low motivation, stagnation, the pull to numb out. And my first instinct was to fix it by forcing something new into existence: a new business, a new brand, a new thing to build. Turns out that was me swimming upstream, trying to play a role that was never mine to play. In this episode: The post-Iceland tailspin and why awareness of those heavy feelings is ac...

Just got back from Iceland. Every time I go, I leave a different person. This episode is me unpacking the 10 biggest takeaways from co-facilitating this year's retreat alongside my mentor Joren, and some of these ones hit different. We go through all 10 downloads, including: Why your inner child is still the one driving the car, and what to do about it The fear vs. intuition distinction that m...

Stop walking through the world with your blinders on…you're missing the magic! In this episode, I break down what I call the Open Energy Practice: an intentional way of showing up that turns ordinary moments into real connection, synchronicity, and joy. And yes, sometimes free ice cream. I share a couple of recent stories, including a simple question I asked a woman at the grocery store that g...

Stop relying on willpower to achieve your goals—it's setting you up to fail. And stop should-ing all over yourself!!  In this episode, I break down why your conscious mind (just 5% of your total mental power) can't win against your subconscious wiring (the other 95%), and what you can do instead. You'll discover the difference between push energy and pull energy, why motivation is like...

Monday morning, 6am, halfway through my workout, I lost my core brace on an RDL and felt my back tweak. Instantly I knew: frustration, fear, anger, and the urge to shut down and numb out for the rest of the day. Sound familiar? In this solo episode, I walk you through exactly what happened in real time as I navigated a back injury mid-week, mid-momentum, with a packed schedule and a big day ahead....

What happens when you strip away food, comfort, and every excuse for 21 days straight... while working six days a week, doing 350 push-ups every morning, and being a full-time single dad? You meet yourself in a way most people never will. In this episode, I sit down with my brother Frank Roby on day 20 of his 21-day water fast. Frank has been doing extended fasts for over six years, including a fu...

You are a pattern breaker. You just might not know it yet. In this episode, I reflect on facilitating over 100 people through retreats (and thousands more through breathwork and cold immersion experiences) and break down the five patterns I see come up again and again. These aren't random. These are the patterns we all share in some way, shape, or form. And the beautiful thing? They can all be...

There's a version of you that knows exactly what to do next, but you won't let it speak. In this episode, I reveal why your higher-self is trying to communicate with you, but all the noise, resistance, and mental chatter is drowning it out. We're constantly moving, constantly doing, constantly filling every moment with distractions—and in all that chaos, the wisdom that's already i...

We’re back, baby. This episode is a real-time life update and a return to the roots of what this podcast has always been: learning in public, sharing what I’m walking through, and finding the others along the way. In this solo, I’m sharing three big updates: I’m changing the podcast name back to Find The Others I moved back to Santa Monica, CA for a new season And I released my first book: Cosmic...

This special live episode was recorded at the launch event for An Entrepreneur’s Guide to Freedom , the new book from ZICO Coconut Water founder and GroundForce Capital co-founder Mark Rampolla . In this conversation, Mark shares what real freedom looks like for entrepreneurs and leaders—the kind that comes not from success or status, but from awareness, choice, and courage. He shares raw stories...

Real leadership starts when we take off the mask. In this solo episode, Joshua dives into the power of authenticity and why our natural state—raw, imperfect, real—is exactly what the world needs more of. Drawing wisdom from nature, ancient wiring, and lived experience, he explores the fears that keep us from showing up as our true selves and the liberation that comes from dropping the performance....

Tune in for a powerful conversation exploring the dynamic between masculine and feminine energy in today's world. In this live podcast recording, Christina and Joshua took a deep dive into the modern polarity conversation -- what it means for men to step up, the sacred role of the feminine, and how this energy dance is playing out in dating, relationships, business, and leadership in 2025. The...

Is this really worth losing your peace over? That’s the question Joshua Church invites us to live by in this powerful solo episode of The Way You Lead . In a world constantly pulling at our attention—and our nervous systems—Joshua explores the daily practice of protecting your peace. Drawing inspiration from Michael Singer and the simple yet profound lessons of life (like getting cut off in traffi...

Disconnection may be one of the biggest health issues we face today—and most people don’t even realize they’re living in it. In this rich and revealing conversation, Joshua sits down with healer, martial artist, and fascia expert Scott Olsen to explore what it truly means to live and lead in an integrated way. From working with world-class athletes to practicing ancient internal martial arts in Be...

In this honest and heart-opening conversation, Joshua sits down with June An—serial entrepreneur, community builder, and founder of the group, a San Diego-based gathering redefining what connection in business can look like. What started as June’s personal challenge to have coffee with one new person every day has grown into a thriving in-person community rooted in authenticity, vulnerability, and...

Working with the people you love doesn’t have to end in a blow-up—or burnout. In this solo episode, Joshua shares a candid and hard-earned perspective on one of the most loaded leadership dynamics: working with friends and family. Drawing from his experience building a multimillion-dollar company with his cousin and hiring close friends into key leadership roles, he explores what actually makes th...

What if the sun held the key to coming home to yourself? In this rich and heart-centered conversation, Jenna Leigh—author, athlete, and integrative health coach—shares her journey from burnout in corporate tech to reclaiming her vitality through nature, rhythm, and truth. We explore the science and spirituality behind sunlight, circadian rhythms, and the body's innate intelligence—along with J...

Having the vision isn’t what makes you a great leader—translating it is. This is a solo episode with Joshua Church, diving into the leadership shifts required to go from scrappy founder to intentional CEO. Joshua shares the three most critical transitions every founder must make if they want to build something that lasts: Moving from operator to architect by focusing on systems over hustle Shiftin...

What does it mean to choose the harder path—and why does it matter Recorded over tea at 14,000 feet on the trail to Everest Base Camp, this conversation with Nikita Colomatin cuts through the noise. Entrepreneur, endurance athlete, and co-founder of Endure, Nikita brings a lived perspective on growth, grit, and what it takes to lead yourself when no one’s watching. From plunging into icy rivers to...

In this short and spontaneous solo episode, Joshua shares a surprising moment of connection from a sauna in San Francisco—and the deeper lesson it sparked around leadership, growth, and human connection. What began as casual small talk with strangers turned into real conversation, loose ties, and meaningful new relationships. Through the lens of presence, openness, and what it means to go first, J...

What if the very thing you fear most is the key to your growth? In this raw and heart-centered episode, Joshua shares a hot tub conversation in Iceland with Joren de Bruin—facilitator, father, and truth seeker. Together, they unpack the journey of embracing commitment, fatherhood, and the responsibility that comes with leading from presence. Joren opens up about the fears that kept him from going...

It’s not enough to be nice. We need men who lead with strength, integrity, and conviction. In this solo episode, Joshua Church speaks directly to men—and to the women who love and support them—about what’s been lost and what must be reclaimed. This is a call to return to embodied masculinity, not as dominance or toxicity, but as grounded leadership rooted in purpose. He shares five foundational pr...

What if success wasn’t about focus, but freedom to explore? In this episode, Joshua sits down with Chris Barber—entrepreneur, father, and systems thinker—for a grounded conversation on what it really takes to lead yourself in today’s world. From navigating ADHD to challenging traditional education and startup dogma, Chris shares how embracing experimentation has shaped his path in business and par...

In this solo episode, Joshua shares the fresh, heart-full reflections from four days unplugged on Mount Shasta. What unfolded was part meditation retreat, part spiritual tune-up, and a full immersion into presence, laughter, stillness, and divine reminder. Through the lens of nature, mentorship, and ceremony, Joshua unpacks 10 key takeaways from the mountain—including what it means to lead without...

What if your deepest truth lived in the places you’ve been taught to avoid? In this expansive conversation, Jessica Bird—intuitive channel, speaker, and guide—shares her path of reclaiming spiritual and sexual sovereignty. From shutting down her psychic gifts as a child to awakening them through a dark night of the soul, Jessica opens up about bridging erotic intelligence to her pathway to spiritu...