Ryan and Selena Frederick
Fierce Marriage
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Ryan and Selena Frederick
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Jul 7, 2026
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Episodes
What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive? 20.05.2025 37:53
It’s a tough question—and sex can be a hard topic to talk about. But we’re here to approach it with honesty, grace, and a godly perspective. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com Th...
Women, Wives, and Friendship 13.05.2025 34:25
Today, Selena’s in the hot seat, and we’re diving deep into friendship! We’re unpacking what God’s Word says about sisterhood, connection, and the beauty of women doing life together. Our hope? That you feel encouraged to pursue meaningful, Christ-centered friendships that glorify God and bring you joy. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challeng...
Preparing for Marriage and Not Just the Wedding 07.05.2025 33:05
You’re getting married—the colors are chosen, the venue is booked, and the cake has been taste-tested. But what about the marriage after the wedding day is over? Let’s talk about it. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Chri...
Seven MYTHS About Marriage You Shouldn't Believe 22.04.2025 42:46
The world is full of false beliefs about marriage—and if we’re not careful, they can quietly shape how we see our own. Are you falling for any of these myths? Watch to find out. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian...
7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY 15.04.2025 32:00
A strong marriage is built on strong communication—and we believe there are 7 key phrases every couple should say daily. How many do you and your spouse already use—and which ones are you missing? Tune in to find out! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com...
FACTS vs. FEELINGS in Marital Arguments 08.04.2025 30:36
"Facts don't care about your feelings." Or do they? In this episode we'll discuss why facts, feelings, AND trust all matter for productive dialogue (and arguments) in marriage. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian,...
BOUNDARIES: Dealing with Toxic In-Laws 01.04.2025 35:04
Boundaries are meant to establish healthy order in relationships, not create isolation. But what does it look like when you need to set boundaries between your marriage and your in-laws? What justifies them, and what’s the ultimate goal in having these boundaries? We pray this episode is helpful for you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challen...
Advice for Improving a Difficult Marriage 25.03.2025 32:37
Has your marriage ever been in a rut? Or maybe you're currently in one and have no idea how you'll make it through. We hope to shine some light on wherever you're at today and remind you to never give up—it’s worth the effort to make it to the other side. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse...
The Power of an Admiring Wife 18.03.2025 38:15
There's no way around it—a wife has power over her husband's heart. She decides whether to use that power for good or evil. We pray she chooses the former and watches her husband flourish. Tune in to discover all the ways an admiring wife can uplift her husband. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your...
Responding to the Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse 11.03.2025 39:07
The Gottman Institute identified "The 4 Horseman of the Apocolypse", which can supposedly predict the end of a relationship. We shed some biblical light on these ideas as well as some helpful antidotes. We pray it blesses you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40pra...
Fighting Well and Learning Resiliency 04.03.2025 41:25
We all have moments of disagreement within our marriage, but what happens when you can feel the bitterness linger even after the argument has been said and done? We want to share some tips on how to fight better, faster, and build resiliency along the way. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse...
12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2) 18.02.2025 46:12
In Part 1, we explored the subtle yet powerful ways the enemy works against marriages in today's culture. In this final part, we dive deeper into the remaining tactics and, more importantly, how to guard against them. Join us for this insightful discussion on strengthening your marriage and family. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: ht...
12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2) 11.02.2025 32:49
Ryan posed a question to ChatGPT and said, "Imagine you were the devil, how would you strategically go about destroying the family unit?" The response was eerily similar to what we’re witnessing in today’s culture. Don’t miss this eye-opening discussion—stay tuned to equip yourself in the good fight for your marriage and family. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take...
3 Ways to Keep a Clean House 28.01.2025 22:27
In this episode, we're not talking about doing dishes (although that may fit in somewhere), we're walking you through 3 ways to keep a healthy, thriving marriage. You won't want to miss this! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about beco...
Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage? 21.01.2025 27:48
Are you living out a gospel-centered marriage? In this video, we explore a common theme we've noticed in some marriages that proclaim to be Christian. Do they truly reflect Christ's life, death, and resurrection? Join us to find out! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https:...
How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it's awkward) 14.01.2025 28:18
As believers, we’re called to cultivate an active prayer life, but what about a marital prayer life? While private prayer is essential, praying together as a couple can strengthen your relationship in profound ways. In this video, we share the benefits we've experienced in our own marriage and practical ways you can incorporate prayer into your relationship. Master marital communication: https://...
Big Announcement! 03.01.2025 2:31
Join our January Online Marriage Cohort! Launches January 6th. Learn more and sign up for Gospel-Centered Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.com/gcm Gospel-Centered Marriage is our most comprehensive marriage curriculum, experienced by thousands of couples worldwide. The January Cohort includes: • Access to launch and debrief Zoom calls with Ryan and Selena (2 calls) • Two (2) copies of our Gospel-C...
What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage? 17.12.2024 30:54
We're talking about the elephant in the bedroom... What kind of frequency should you have with your spouse in the bedroom?? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is en...
Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage 03.12.2024 25:23
It's rare to hear about a couple in perpetual dysfunction who also regularly attends a faithful, solid church. What do we mean by this statement? Tune in to find out. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: ht...
GRATITUDE Changes Everything About Marriage 26.11.2024 39:09
It's prescribed to us this time of year to remember all the things in life that we're thankful for, but if we're not careful, it will just become a checked box on our to-do list. During this episode, we reflect on the true depth of how gratitude affects our hearts. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for yo...
Learning to Love IN-LAWS Better 20.11.2024 31:23
There's never a bad time to have discussions about handling in-laws, but it feels especially timely heading into the holiday season. Listen in as we give practical steps to loving our in-laws better. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more abou...
5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY 12.11.2024 29:48
If you know our story, you've heard about how we started our marriage out in college living hand to mouth with our finances. Since then, the Lord has had lots to teach us, and we would love to share it with you! Join us. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.c...
5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities 29.10.2024 24:49
As Christians, we are called to prioritize what God prioritizes. How should that statement manifest itself in our daily priorities? It's brought us clarity in our life's big and small decisions, so we hope this episode is helpful for you too! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intentio...
Lessons Learned about S X in 20ish Years of Marriage 22.10.2024 29:05
God made s*x for our good and His glory, BUT a thriving intimate life with your spouse doesn't happen by accident. It takes good communication, intentionality, effort, and several other lessons we've learned throughout our marriage. Listen in! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intenti...
7 Ways to Have Better Conflict In Your Marriage 15.10.2024 32:11
There’s no avoiding it; we all encounter conflict in our marriages. The real question is: how well do you handle it? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely...
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