Fierce Marriage

Christians, please don’t enter the New Year without doing this… Today we discuss the startling statistic that 94% of families lack a written vision statement and share the three-part framework for creating a biblical family vision.  RESOURCES: Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intent...

Today we explore the theology of contentment, challenging believers to stop calling their sin a "personality trait" and start fighting for the peace that only comes from a life fully surrendered to God’s sovereignty. RESOURCES: Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40pr...

Is your perspective on sex hurting your marriage? In this episode, Ryan and Selena tackle the often misunderstood topic of intimacy in the Christian life. We break down the 5 biblical keys to a healthy perspective on sex. RESOURCES: Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https:/...

Marriage is God’s gift for joy and sanctification — but three subtle poisons can kill it: Pennies, Perversion, and Pride. Pennies – Loving money breeds fear, comparison, and discontent. Antidote: Seek first God’s kingdom (Matt 6:25–34). Perversion – Porn, withholding, or distortion twist God’s good gift of sex. Antidote: Pursue regular, healing intimacy as worship (1 Cor 7:5). Pride – “I know bett...

In this raw and urgent episode, Ryan and Selena respond directly to a viral clip from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (Love & Respect) where he calls out wives who “continually mock their husbands,” put them down mentally, and secretly make fun of their opinions. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “He’s just not the man I thought I married” … this episode is for you. We dive deep into: The devast...

God designed marital closeness not only for physical connection but also to nurture emotional and spiritual unity. When husbands and wives pursue intimacy regularly, they often experience a deeper sense of being loved, fulfilled, adored, and valued by their spouse. Join us as we explore how Christ-centered surrender and Christ-honoring intimacy can transform both our inner lives and our marriages....

What keeps a marriage thriving through the highs and lows of life? In this episode we discuss some wisdom given to us by another couple who have been walking hand in hand for decades — and they shared something powerful. You’ll hear about a simple, practical “experiment” designed to help diffuse tension, deepen connection, and invite God’s peace into your relationship. The answer may surprise you!...

Listen as we uncover God’s mission for marriage — to raise children who walk in the Lord and to reflect His love through our covenant relationships. Husbands are called to love their wives, and wives to submit to their husbands, walking in unity to bear lasting fruit. Though the enemy seeks to destroy the sanctity of marriage, godly couples stand as living proof of God’s perfect design — to be fru...

Marriage isn’t just a contract — it’s a covenant before God. Join us as we dive deep into the sacred reality that when a marriage ends, it’s more than the loss of a relationship — it’s the death of a family, the breaking of a divine promise. Because when we understand what and who we’re fighting for, we can stand firm in the promise that what God has joined together, no one can separate. Master ma...

A Christ-centered home is built through daily habits of worship and trust. Family worship is how we honor God together—not perfectly, but faithfully. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgo...

Join us as we explore God’s design for men and women in marriage. When men step into their God-given calling—leading with love, humility, and strength—it creates an environment where women can feel safe, secure, honored, and deeply loved. This frees wives to fully embrace who God has called them to be. Together, we’ll unpack what it looks like for husbands to walk in their role and how that opens...

In this episode, we explore what it means for wives to stand guard over their marriages by guarding their hearts, staying rooted in God’s Word, and committing to prayer. We’ll discuss how a wife’s words and actions reflect the strength of her marriage and offer encouragement to remain steadfast in faith as she nurtures her home and relationship. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercema...

What does it truly mean to be a godly man in today’s world? In this podcast, we dig into Scripture and real-life application to uncover God’s design for men as leaders, servants, and disciples. From the church pew to the dinner table, from the workplace to the neighborhood, men are called to live with courage, humility, and integrity. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com...

Change is a natural part of marriage—whether it’s a new job, a move, children, loss, or simply entering a new season of life. These moments can stretch and shape us, but they’re also opportunities to lean into God’s plan for your marriage. In this episode, we’ll share how to be intentional in times of transition, inviting God into the process so you and your spouse can stay grounded in faith, grow...

Maybe you're dreaming about what your family could look like one day, or maybe you've already begun the journey. But how do you know when your family is truly complete? Join us as we explore how to seek and trust God's plan for your family. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention:...

Abuse is never minimized in God’s Word—it’s a violation of His law. In this episode, we tackle the heavy but necessary topic of anger and abuse in marriage. What does the Bible say about it? How should Christians respond? And what steps can be taken toward safety, repentance, and true reconciliation? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge:...

Ever feel overwhelmed by the idea of saving and investing? You’re not alone! In this episode, we share the heart behind being a good steward of your finances and give you practical steps to move forward. We hope you’ll join us! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40pr...

How we handle money reflects how we trust God. In this rare episode, we dig into why Jesus talked about money so much — and what it means for your marriage. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://then...

A listener recently wrote in with a question that piqued our interest—and got Selena a little fired up. Should a husband be expected to help around the house? Tune in to hear our take! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Ch...

We’ve all had those moments where someone shuts down instead of speaking up. In this episode, we’re decoding the 'Man Pout' — with compassion, clarity, and the tools to overcome it. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Chris...

Marriage is the union of two imperfect people, held together by grace. Today, we reflect on the grace we’ve received—and the grace we’re called to extend in love and forgiveness. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christia...

Think you know your partner? These final questions just might surprise you. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married for years, these questions will reignite connection, reveal new stories, and keep the conversation flowing. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40pra...

Feeling the need to reconnect with your spouse? Or get to know a potential spouse better? Tune into this episode where we dive into 28 thoughtful questions designed to spark deeper conversations, strengthen your bond, and bring a few good laughs along the way. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your sp...

We identified three telltale signs that indicate your marriage is thriving. Do you and your spouse hit all three? Whether your relationship is strong or struggling, we’d be honored to have you join us. There’s hope, encouragement, and truth waiting for you here. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your...

Every marriage faces highs and lows—but who’s in your corner during those tough times matters. True friends won’t just take your side; they’ll fight for your marriage. They’ll speak life over both you and your spouse, helping you build bridges—not burn them. Choose friends who point you back to unity, not division. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Purs...