Fervor Voice

Saying goodbye is a process. Relationships differ and so will the process, but do you know what the process looks like? Join me as I share my perspective, in two different scenarios.

Never wonder, never doubt if YOU’ve made the right decision for YOU, this holiday season. Society‘s way may not be YOUr way. Choose wisely and find out how I navigated the holidays and never needed to look back! 👊🏽💫🫶🏾

My truth about the best decisions for those that we love, minus the ego. Honoring in a way that has less to do with self and more to do with our loved ones and the hard truth that encompasses the circle of life.

The problem is that we think we can control outcomes, let's navigate the truth and do more by doing less.

I do it, almost without knowing; then I do a self check! Are you doing it too? It's judgment, you think you are judging someone, but you're really judging yourself. Just live; it's fun!

Family is just that, but the friends and forgiving part; it's rough. Where is the boundary and a perspective on how to navigate not getting what you need; an honest assessment of your circle.

Yes, I can do better! Listen in on how I came to that conclusion and just how I painlessly navigated my situation. Remember, I want to live!

Your feelings do matter and so does YOUr opinion, but YOUr Peace is what's most important!!

It’s been a while and sometimes my focus changes, sometimes changes have to be made. Change is good! A Clearing & Cleansing is goood!

No New Year’s Resolution for me, just clarity and a walk.

EVERYTHING is up to you; period!

It’s all on you, you’re in control, you have a choice…so what will you do? Consider controlling with a little humor maybe? This was just as funny as it was insightful for me, just watch, then listen to this episode, Control: Time!! https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzxAc6RLI1u/?igshid=ODhhZWM5NmIwOQ==

If I don’t control the information that I take in, who will? Chiiile, I can’t gamble on others, I’ll do it! This man is too funny! https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0KhGEyrJ7m/?igshid=ODhhZWM5NmIwOQ==

Sometimes, pulling back is the best answer, not knowing is the best answer. Then there’s a level of understanding that is too great to label. I had to be better than ok with that, because I have so much to offer. Once I visualized with more light and less definition, nothing need be defined, just known.

I’m not done yet, but my focus is making its way. I’m strengthening, among other things. I have recognized that a certain someone was guiding me quietly. She was demonstrating the gift of “Focus”, who knew…she was and is such a gift.

Verbs have levels and with levels, there are differing opinions. Forgiving and recognizing what it “may” be or what it “truly” is takes time. This is, my understanding, my thoughts behind forgiveness and my conclusion.

Something significant in the journey that I didn’t mention, but couldn’t dismiss. Something crucial to who I have become. It takes WORK to maintain it!

Transitions look differently, when you’re moving differently.

Here I am, Mother’s Day; hmmm. What now? It’s not feeling like Mother’s Day to me.

You never know where you’re stepping sometimes, but you enter from a space of love and trust. Only you can fix your FEELINGS…but there’s nothing wrong with letting your Sis hold your heart ♥️ just long enough to recover. Q4L💗💗💙💙

Moving differently, challenging myself and finding peace through acceptance, especially when my peace is being threatened. It’s cool, for real…

My reflection, still dealing and accepting, it’s not at all what I thought any more, it is how I see it “Now”.

Maybe not exactly what you were thinking…No shade at all! “We” got some decoding to do! Ok, let’s get it!

Staying in balance on a wheel! No different than our lives! We shift ourselves to maintain an upright position or we fall. A reminder, to get back to stability; peacefulness…Balance. It is relative and ever changing. Let’s talk about it!

Levels of comfort will change and be challenged, let’s talk about it.