Feel It First Podcast

Mindset work has a place, but its not enough on its own. Youve probably heard me talk about this alot...and with reason. I've been stuck on the reprogramming train for years, jumping from course to course to try and finally remove the limiting beliefs that are in my way. And while there was some temporary shifts, nothing was permanent or sustainable. Over time, and through my own studying, I have...

A months ago I watched a YouTube video that made my jaw drop. It gave me a realization that I couldnt unsee and unfeel. I related to something he said so deeply. He said: "The reason a lot of people dont have what they desire, is because they havent ACCEPTED the desire as theirs" And it hit me. My desires changed so much in 2021, when I became a mother, that I struggled to accept the new desires I...

Sometimes it doesnt need to be anything big or elaborate to make an obvious shift in your reality. Every single year, I start with the Feel It First process, where I get clear on the life I want to live, then extract the desires I want to receive within that year. I focus on how I want to feel, and how I will feel when the desires materilize, and then spend the whole year find ways to feel those e...

Isn't it funny how chaos probably teaches us the most valuable life lessons? Lask week Gary and I finally took the plunge and decided to revamp our bedroom, to make way for baby #2. I had a vision. I felt that vision. I knew it would become my reality... Yet still theres a wobble in the chaos. Panic about the size of the room. Freaking out about limited storage. The amount of cleaning involved. Ov...

I think we have all been guilty of using other peoples lives to inspire our own. And when done with intention and self connection, theres nothing wrong with using other peoples lives as inspo. But it becomes an issue when all of a sudden the life you want to live, is a carbon copy of someone else. Its a problem when your vision board doesnt represent your core values and soul truths, but instead r...

I am so excited to be coming back to the podcast, after a little break, with this news!  I am spilling the tea on: How I found out, and how I told Gary. How I have been feeling the last three months. The channeling happening between Spirit Baby and myself preconception. The gender, and whether I got my gender prediction right. The name that kept coming to me for WEEKS. My experience of manifesting...

Having an open and strong connection to your higher self can... Help you understand life circumstances and situations. Guide you through the curveballs life throws at you. Offer you guidance on your purpose and what you're here to create. Provide you with answers to questions you've been asking for a LONG time. Support you in navigating and emerging from difficult emotional experiences. Bring you...

We are so quick to think theres something wrong, something to fix, something to heal, whenever we feel resistance or blocked. Therse resistance around saying something... Theres resistance around doing something... Theres resistance around creating something... And yes, maybe there is some deep healing needed. But, what if the resistance is purely your body and soul saying "NO". What if the resist...

Phew. This conversation flipped a switch. You'll hear it inside the episode. Last week, I received a message slash breakthrough around my purpose. It made everything make sense. My personalilty, my interests, my chosen career, my understandings, my gifts. It all made sense. I was even able to see how previous realizations, had led to this point. It all happened in the bath lol. There not much I wa...

You're robbing yourself of the fullness of joy, hope, contentment and love, in THIS moment, when you allow your energy and emotions to get tangled up in the "what ifs". And I get it. On our fertility journey, we've felt the defeat and disappointment so many times, that I've found myself predicting it. It'll be two weeks before my menstrual cycle is due, and I'll already be allowing myself to feel...

When I became a mother, I tried SO hard to recreate my beautiful 2 hour morning ritual. I held on so tightly to this ritual. It was such a big part of who I was. Plus it created the most epic container for me to move through the day in. But the more I tried to recreate it, the more resistance there was. The way I experienced time before becoming a mama, was very different to hw I was experiencing...

Listen, I was having $20k+ months in my business. Surreal, but temporary. I was in a 6 month 1:1 coaching container with a top tier business mentor, and when I was IN the container with her, I was doing great. But when it ended, I started to wobble, and things began to return back to how they used to be, in terms of my money and finances. I have been inside a plethora of money mindset containers,...

Money comes with responsibility, whether its $10 or $100,000. The responsibility is the same. Youre responsible for taking care of it, nurturing it, using it, and creating with it. This is a fact that remains the same, always. But what happens if you have a fear of responsibility? What happens when you believe the repsonsibility is something you can't handle, or don't want to handle? Well, money d...

Honestly, this feels like a calling out. Loving, yet harsh. And sometimes we need that, in order to access the breakthrough that changes everything. We need to be called out, even if its uncomfortable. You are likely disrespecting and abusing your money, and thats a big reason why it ain't showing up for you. Spending it without thinking about your values, or the vision you have for your life. Spe...

Channeling The Soul of My Spirit Baby   Have you read the book, Spirit Babies, by Walter Makichen? You should, he 100% explains all this much better than me haha!   BUT, in this episode, I am sharing my own personal experiences of connecting to the soul of my spirit baby.   I have this deep knowing they are around me, whether they incarnate on this earth or not, is another story.   It's been such...

MONEY HAS NEEDS. ARE YOU ABLE TO FULFIL THOSE NEEDS?   A healthy relationship, is a result of both parties having their needs met, right?   This is common knowledge, I fear. (Is that how the tik tok audio goes?!)   So, when we are looking at transforming your relationship to money, we have to figure out your needs, and money's needs.   Sounds bizarre, I know. But once you sit with this, it will ma...

I meditated for the first time in YEARS. Once I found breathwork, I stepped away from meditation. Breathwork feels like a meditation hybrid, and I adore it. But very weirdly the other night, I felt a very strong urge to meditate. So I followed the uge, and asked my question before diving in. The most beautiful memory of my time at school popped up. I hadn't thought about this memory in such a long...

Recently I have been learning more and more about my spiritual side. A side I have always had, that ebbs and flows when it comes to it's expression. But I have been following some big nudges, signs and synchronicities lately, and really stepping into this side of me, allowing it to have a more permanent place here. It's a part of who I am, who I have always been. I am woo woo. I believe theres so...

Back in January, I was feeling so unbothered and bored in life. I just felt meh. The life force energy wasnt there. I wasn't zinging, you know?! And I wanted to ZING. I desired the life force energy back so I didnt have to work SO HARD to get into my desired states of being. So I sat down and began to journal, for the first time in aggggges. I had a little convo with my highest self, that led to m...

Your limiting beliefs are not the issue. I know, I know, you've been told otherwise for so long. I am not saying you stop working on rewiring your beliefs around money...no keep doing it, if you feel the motivation and devotion to do so. BUT, you must know that doing limiting belief work on its own is not enough to shift your relationship to money, so you can attract, hold and circulate more. A li...

Gosh, I wish people knew this, so they would actually let out their feelings (in a healthy way). Saying your fears, worries and anxieties out loud, is NOT going to fuck up the manifestation process...contrary to what you may have been taught. In fact...NOT saying these things out loud is far more likely to get in the way of you receiving, attracting and magnetising things you desire...things like...

I LOVE this exercise.  I learned the technique of personifying something back in my early coaching days, and it has served me every single time since! This exercise allows you to truly see the underlying emotions, that are in the way of you having a healthy emotional relationship to "something", in this case money. The way you respond to seeing money as a person, can tell you a lot about the unexp...

You're angry with money and you didn't even know it. You think you're all fine and cool with money, but deep down in your body, you're pissed. There have been experiences in the past where money has made you mad... ...like, when you had to drain your bank account for a bill. ...or, when the business investent didnt give you an ROI. ...and, when you watched your mother struggle from pay check to pa...

You've heard me talk about how your body is in charge. It makes ALL the decisions, whether youre aware of that or not.   Your mind and beliefs just mimic whats going on within the body.   So if, you're wanting to shift your relationship to money, you focus on the body NOT the mind.   This means feeling your feelings. It means nourishing and moving your body. It means dropping into practices that s...

These conversations arent had often enough, and as a result many women feel alone on their journey. So, my hope is that sharing my story, dissolves those feelings of isolation, even just a little. Please bear in mind, that we are at the beginning of this journey, and while it can be really hard and defeating, I still hold hope and optimism for us. In this episode I share our story, the emotional l...