F*ck The Patriarchy

Hi Hi Hi I'm so glad you're here! This POP-UP episode was recorded especially for the men who want to do the right thing right now. To my Sisters - You can listen and take notes or just share the link to men in your life and ask them to listen. I speak to them directly and edited it down to 30 minutes. This episode is 101 level teaching and probably best suited for white-hetero-cis men who tend to...

There is something beautiful to locate in the idea that we can all commit to change. To doing better. That we can reinvent ourselves.  AND.  There's just something about that Calendar Year change that ignites our inner Patriarchal Perfectionist to hammer ourselves into a Self-Improvement plan that will truly stick - that will truly make us happy at last!  We call them "New Years Resolutions" and t...

What makes the Sparkling Magic of the Holidays?  The decorated hearth... The presents wrapped with care... The warm cookies and feasts prepared on a beautiful table...  Is it Santa? An invisible Elf?!  Fuck no.  Holiday Magic is created by Women's unpaid invisible labor. The more invisible it is, the more Magic we experience!  Tune in to this episode to understand:  How the German Winter Goddesses...

"But what will I have to give up if everyone gets what they need?!" If you have ever noticed this question swirling in your space when you hear about programs, incentives or legislation to support historically undervalued and oppressed communities... This episode is for you.  "The Sum of Us" by Heather McGhee is a highly-researched and astounding exploration of "What Racism Costs Everyone" (yes ev...

Patriarchal Bullsh*t exists in every industry under the sun... But since I've been working professionally in the Life-Coaching Industry for over 20 years - and helping other Women to build a business with integrity, this is one I can speak on with great... confidence.  When you can see, name, and know the often invisible influence of Patriarchal Bullshit on your Coaching, your Business, and yes, e...

Our short answer is yes. A Patriarchal System is inherently traumatizing because it is inherently rooted in Scarcity, Dominance, Control, Destruction and Violence. Patriarchal Trauma touches all of us, often without our noticing. Understanding the source of our trauma is the first step in healing it, and that's exactly what we're doing here.  If you are a Coach or Healer you must understand the dy...

Here we stand, Sisters - Facing the National American Holiday we call "Thanksgiving". Together we'll unpack a few ways this tradition is rooted in a wide array of Patriarchal Bullshit such as:  "Whitewashing History" by covering up the violent truth of European Colonization as the foundation of the United State's existence.  The unpaid labor of Women who were never written into the history of the...

We know that we're standing AGAINST Patriarchy... So what exactly are we standing FOR? This Episode will take you on a 20-minute Journey to imagine that New World with vivid clarity so that you can stand for it more effectively and "see it" more confidently. (The Guided Visualization starts about 9 minutes in.) I reference the Artist, Activist and self-proclaimed Daydreamer Tricia Hersey who's "Na...

In this episode we deepen our understanding of Patriarchy by breaking down the definition as described by the Author, Feminist, Activist, Scholar, bell hooks (1952-2021) whose expertise and experience is incredibly helpful for anyone who is ready for deeper learning.  I then invite us all to look at The System of Patriarchy through the eyes of your Inner-Child so that you can see clearly how your...

Definitions matter if we want to build a strategy that works.   There are plenty of us talking about"Smashing The Patriarchy" but in this episode we're going beyond the Dictionary to tell the truth about Patriarchy and how it impacts all of us. Specifically:  Who gets the most Power, Inflence and Authority in a Patriarchal Culture.  Characteristics of Social Hierarchy including Dominant and Subord...

Every Woman's story is legendary but most of us think we're no big deal. Why?!  Because... Patriarchy!  So here is Episode One of "F*ck The Patriarchy" with a taste of my legendary story - Who I am and why I'm finally starting a pocast. The goal is Weekly Practical Strategies for liberating yourself from the brutality of Money Grubbing, White Dominance, Misogyny and other Patriarchal Bullshit. You...