Father Time w/ De'Meco & Blair

Most of us grew up watching 90s cinema classics, but what happens when you realize you adopted the wrong movie character as your blueprint for manhood? This week, De’Meco and Blair dive into a massive nostalgia trip, breaking down why Blair mistakenly idolized Tupac’s character, Bishop, in Juice, and how classic films shaped their views on masculinity and survival. From the cinematic lessons of Ba...

Marathon running is often seen as a solitary pursuit of pain, but Dre Pabon is using every mile to map out a legacy that outlasts his own finish line. In this episode, we explore how 12 marathons, East Coast grit, and a mindful approach to cannabis are fueling a "100-year plan" for a world he’ll never even see. In this episode, you’ll learn: The "Black List" of Fictional Father...

Is the "exclusivity" of the golf world starting to feel more like a burden than a hobby? De’Meco and Blair explore why they’re trading in the scorecard shaming of the fairway for the mental battle of the pavement, and why the running community is actually the supportive space dads have been looking for. In this episode, you’ll learn:The Oregon Real Estate Hack: How to leverage buying pow...

Let’s be real—the guy you were before the car seat and the 3 AM wake-up calls? He’s officially retired. In this episode, De’Meco and Blair talk through the reality of letting the "old you" go and why it feels more like an upgrade than a loss. We aren’t experts and we definitely don’t have a crystal ball—we’re just two dads sharing the playbook that’s getting us through this week, knowing...

We’ve been at this for two years, but it’s time for a reintroduction. We’re stripping it back to our four pillars— Fatherhood, Relationships, Careers, and Passions —and exploring why the truest judge of our legacy isn't us, but the people on the receiving end of our time. In the mix this week: The Reset: Why Episode 54 is the new foundation for Father Time. The Four Pillars: How we balance the...

Traditional golf has long been defined by "blue blazer" exclusivity, but Matt Sakdalan is using streetwear and his Filipino heritage to kick the doors wide open. In this episode, we dive into how the influence of a father can shape a creative legacy and why "community" is the ultimate disruptor in a privileged sport. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to translate niche cultura...

"If you really love something, you need to trap that." This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we’re joined by a true original: Aaron Munn, the founder of Trap Golf, a high school golf coach, and an art teacher who is literally painting a new future for the game. Aaron opens up about a journey that is as raw as it gets. From growing up in a broken home—where the Huxtables...

"My presence is a presence." We’re kicking off a brand-new era of Father Time with De'Meco & Blair. We’re officially moving away from "Seasons" and into a continuous, fluid flow of conversation. No more breaks, just real talk, throughout the "Sacred Timeline" We start with Blair shaking De'Meco out of a self-sabotaging "pity party," reminding him...

❤️ Life Balance & The Hardest Job: Marriage | Father Time Holiday Special 2025 Happy Holidays! After our longest break ever, De’Meco and Blair are back in the chair (and ready for the eggnog!) for an emotional and honest catch-up. This isn't just a holiday special; it's a look under the hood of life, marriage, and personal growth. We peel back the curtain on why we took a much-needed b...

Hey dads, get ready for a real heart-to-heart with De'Meco and Blair as we dive deep into the ups and downs of fatherhood. In this special guest-free episode, we're spilling the beans on everything from the emotional rollercoaster of toddlerhood to the overwhelming decisions that come with parenting. We're talking about being there for your kids, the impact of those fictional dads we all look up t...

Join us for a heartwarming holiday special of Father Time with De'Meco & Blair. In this festive episode, the duo dives deep into their personal holiday traditions, sharing stories about introducing their children to cultural celebrations like Kwanzaa and Christmas. They also discuss the joy of running for a cause, the impact of fictional fathers in popular culture, and the magic of holiday mov...

Dads, get ready for another action-packed episode of Father Time! This week, De'Meco and Blair catch you up on their latest adventures, from De'Meco's move back to Chicago to Blair's Mexican getaway. We dive deep into the challenges of having a child in the hospital and the importance of being a supportive partner and parent. Plus, we introduce a new addition to a familiar segment:...

This week, it's just us for the highly anticipated Season 5 Finale of Father Time with De’Meco & Blair! Get ready for a candid, hilarious, and deeply personal reflection on their journeys through fatherhood, the unexpected twists of parenting, and the exciting evolution of the podcast itself. The dads reflect on a monumental season, from their first-ever in-person meetup to finally breaking th...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're honored to be joined by special guest Jerry Azurin, husband, father, and Global Marketing Product Manager at Srixon Golf! Get ready for a dynamic conversation that weaves through the complexities of fatherhood, the profound impact of cultural upbringing, and the exciting evolution of golf culture. Jerry kicks off with his incredibly insightf...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're honored to host Jay Corpuz, a devoted husband, father of two, and a strong supporter of the Ateneo Golf brand! Get ready for a deeply engaging and often hilarious conversation about the real deal of fatherhood, cultural identity, and raising the next generation. Jay kicks off our famous Top 5 Fictional Fathers segment, sharing his picks and...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're making history! We are absolutely thrilled to welcome our very first non-dad AND our very first woman guest, the brilliant creative photographer and content creator, Tessa POV! As girl-dads ourselves, we specifically wanted to hear a woman's perspective on fatherhood, and Tessa delivered beyond expectation. Get ready for a dynamic conversati...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're honored to welcome special guest Brandon Turner, better known as The Bear Project from Twitch! Join us for a powerful and candid conversation that dives deep into the realities of fatherhood, mental health, and the critical importance of community support. Bear opens up about his journey through co-parenting experiences and highlights the pr...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're kicking things off with our beloved segment: "This Week's Forgotten Fictional Father!" De'Meco brings a very sentimental, and surprisingly realistic, dad from recent cinema into the spotlight. You might not think of him as a prime example of fatherhood at first glance, but his raw, honest depiction of life with a newborn is something many ne...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we ask you, “What do Disney, Pixar, and Star Wars have in common?” Answer: NOTHING. However, they are the source of this week’s “Forgotten Fictional Father” segment. We also dive into the classic Star Wars vs. Star Trek debate. In our newly named segment "Father Time Reacts", we're taking on a clip that really highlights the incredible community a...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're kicking things off with our beloved segment: "This Week's Forgotten Fictional Father"! You'll never guess which unexpected dad from the Marvel Cinematic Universe we're highlighting – prepare for a surprise! Then, things get real. We react to a powerful clip from the "That Was Us" podcast, diving deep into the challenges of balancing fatherho...

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we're diving deep into fatherhood, family connections, and the hilarious realities of navigating life both on and off-screen! We're reflecting on our recent in-person episode, that unforgettable Fore The Sole 2 charity golf event (shoutout to Bata Sole, Fairway Chi, and Ateneo Golf!), and the joy of seeing Maejari meet her "Uncle Bear" Blair for t...

The wait is over! In this legendary episode of Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, the hosts finally meet IN PERSON for the very first time since starting the show! After years of connecting virtually, the brotherly love is on full display as Blair makes his triumphant return to his hometown of Chicago. A huge shoutout to our friend, Roger Steele, for letting us use his incredible studio space t...

It's the Season 4 Finale of Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, and this week, your favorite dynamic dad duo takes the mic solo for a heartfelt reflection on all things fatherhood! Join De'Meco and Blair as they dive into their personal journeys, sharing insights on their evolving parenting styles and the ever-present importance of discipline in raising their children. This episode also marks an...

Step up to the plate with De'Meco & Blair on this week's Father Time as they connect with Zach Neal (aka Nealy!), a retired Major League Baseball pitcher and the founder of the rapidly growing community, Golf Dads. As fellow fathers navigating the exciting and often unpredictable world of raising kids, they dive deep into Zach's transition from the pressures of the MLB mound to the joys (and o...

Join De'Meco & Blair in this deeply insightful episode of Father Time as they welcome Chris Staples, founder of Compton Country Club Initiative (501c3) and the Compton Country Club brand. As three fathers, they delve into the critical question: how do we raise and inspire the next generation? This conversation explores the power of community engagement through the Compton Country Club Initiati...