Kelly Rafferty + Lisa Weaklim

Fancy Meeting You Here: The Podcast

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Kelly Rafferty + Lisa Weaklim

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Jun 5, 2026

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Episodes

Footnotes: Substack Live with W. Kamau Bell 05.06.2026

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Podcast Episode 27: Permission to Stay Fat 22.02.2025

A print version of this essay is available here . Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Notes Ragen Chastain Ragen writes Weight and Healthcare , a research-packed newsletter “examining weight science, weight stigma, and what evidence, ethics, and lived experience teach us about best healthcare and public health practices for higher weight people.”...

Podcast Episode 26: What did I do with my hair? 19.12.2024

Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Links Tressie McMillan Cottom Blonde NYT Opinion Piece Here’s the original video: Here’s one of her responses to commenters: This duet is hilarious: Finally, here’s a little wrap-up video she made at the end of a day and a half of talking about blonde: Cameron Esposito Cameron on IG The Autostraddle Piece The J...

Podcast Episode 25: American Daddy Issues 17.10.2024

Welcome to season two of Fancy Meeting You Here ! I’m Kelly Rafferty, a writer and an Emmy and Peabody Award-winning documentary producer based in Alameda, CA, a little island between Oakland and San Francisco. In this newsletter, I send you personal essays in text and audio from the land of queer embodiment. If you listen to the audio version of Fancy Meeting You Here , you’ll get to know Lisa We...

Podcast Episode 24: Strongman 23.04.2024

Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

Podcast Episode 23: I can't stop thinking about these gems. 16.04.2024

Over the past month, Lisa and I had conversations about trauma-informed movement training with four experts in the Bay Area that I have come to trust over the years: As we wrap up this series on trauma and movement, I want to share three of the gems I’ve been treasuring. These are the insights I find myself returning to, mulling over, and trying to incorporate into my life. I’d also REALLY love to...

Podcast Episode 22: Do I need an emotional support redneck? 11.04.2024

For the last installment in our series of conversations about trauma-informed training, we’re talking with Patrick Barnes. Patrick is based in Oakland and he is the swiss army knife of movement coaches. He coaches ballet, weightlifting, powerlifting, strongman, parkour, kettlebells, martial arts, swordfighting, and basic gymnastics. This is the last interview in our series of conversations about t...

Podcast Episode 21: Erica is Moving for Radical Presence and Radical Self Acceptance 02.04.2024

We’re continuing our series of interviews about trauma-informed movement with this conversation with marriage and family therapist Erica Gibbons. If you’d rather read instead of listen, there’s a lightly-edited transcript of this conversation here . Links 1000% Me: Growing Up Mixed Radically Fit Erica’s Therapy Practice Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Musi...

Podcast Episode 20: Did You Roll Your Eyes Again? 26.03.2024

Are you new to Fancy Meeting You Here ? Welcome! If you like personal essays about sports, queer stuff, critical theory, or bodies, you’re in the right place. I’m an academic who became a documentary producer. I record this podcast with my partner, Lisa Weaklim, who is a filmmaker and musician. For some more context on who we are and what we’re doing here, you can listen to Podcast Episode 1: Do m...

Podcast Episode 19: A Conversation with Erin Gilmore about Trauma-Informed Yoga 19.03.2024

Erin’s Website + Instagram Sign up here for her weekly email, Living Room Yoga. Looking for the transcript? It’s over here . Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

Podcast Episode 18: I'm thinking about the Kavanaugh hearing again. 12.03.2024

Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

Podcast Episode 17: New Gym, Old Business 27.02.2024

Content Note: Mention of the existence of sexual assault and rape culture. Credits Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

Podcast Episode 15: Professional Golf's Odd Weekly Ritual 13.02.2024

Here’s a more detailed look at the history of LIV Golf from Sportico , “PGA Tour - LIV Golf Timeline: From Creation to Merger .” Other Sources in Order of Appearance Golf Magazine “Inside the costly — but worth it — nature of pro-ams” Golfweek “With Super Bowl in town, 2024 LIV Golf Las Vegas has loaded pro-am field” New York Times “The Alliance of LIV Golf and the PGA Tour: Here’s What to Know” R...

Podcast Episode 14: What happens when you call a person an "image problem" . . . 06.02.2024

* If you have questions about including trans people in sports or you find that the conversation makes you uncomfortable or you’re excited to learn more, please go read Frankie de la Cretaz’s work . Frankie’s a trans journalist who covers this beat and has real expertise here. This piece is a good overview of current challenges facing trans athletes and this one focuses on trans kids in sports . *...

Podcast Episode 12: A Tale of Two Spring Breaks 23.01.2024

As promised, here are the Gravity Golf practice drills that improved our swings but put our social standing at risk: This transfer drill makes you look like Happy Gilmore: This one makes you look like a preppy flamingo: And this one makes you look like you’re just farting around: If you need more ‘90s nostalgia before we move on, please enjoy this amazing Gravity Golf infomercials that ran on the...

Podcast Episode 11: Somebody's Closer 17.01.2024

Here’s the rope drill that my dad taught Lisa. It was created by Dr. Kwon at Texas Woman’s University: Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

Podcast Episode 9: Public Displays of Affection 12.12.2023

As promised, a cornucopia of links: * Here’s the long-ass IG caption about how we became friends with Kate and Lauren. I wrote after Lisa and I attended their wedding. * To read more about their wedding, check out this piece in the New York Times . * To read a lovely thing that Kate wrote about their wedding, go here to her Substack, I Love What You’re Doing . * Have you subscribed to Kate’s Subst...

Podcast Episode 8: Pace of Play 05.12.2023

Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Works Cited Cook, Kevin. Driven: Teen Phenoms, Mad Parents, Swing Science and the Future of Golf . Gotham Books, 2008. Dinshaw, Carolyn, Lee Edelman, Roderick A. Ferguson, Carla Freccero, Elizabeth Freeman, J. Halberstam, Annamarie Jagose, Christopher Nealon, and Nguyen Tan Hoang. “Theorizing Queer Temporalities: A Rou...

Podcast Episode 7: Lightning Crashes + Queer Temporalities 28.11.2023

Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Works Cited Dinshaw, Carolyn, Lee Edelman, Roderick A. Ferguson, Carla Freccero, Elizabeth Freeman, J. Halberstam, Annamarie Jagose, Christopher Nealon, and Nguyen Tan Hoang. “Theorizing Queer Temporalities: A Roundtable Discussion,” GLQ: A Journal of Lesbian and Gay Studies . Duke University Press, 2007. 13(2-3): 177-...

Podcast Episode 6: Napa 21.11.2023

Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Watch someone play Beavis and Butt-Head: Bunghole in One on YouTube . Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

Podcast Episode 5: Commitment, Part 2 14.11.2023

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Podcast Episode 4: Commitment, Part 1 07.11.2023

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Podcast Episode 3: The Golf Genders 31.10.2023

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Podcast Episode 2: White Rabbit Country Club 24.10.2023

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Podcast Episode 1: Do my golf clubs go in the U-Haul? 17.10.2023

Produced and Engineered by Lisa Weaklim Written by Kelly Rafferty Music by Mutt Get full access to Fancy Meeting You Here at kellyrafferty.substack.com/subscribe

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